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anonymous
writes:I am 19 and I have being seeing someone for the last 3 months. Hes 26, has a good job and we live really close to each other. He added me over facebook but I did'nt know him as he was older. We have being going out for meals and lately I have being going to his house since his grandparent has being took into hospital. We dont see each other very much only once or twice a week and only when he asks me. I dont ask him when we are going to meet up as he said it would happen when it happens.I have never met his parents or any of his friends I feel im being kept a secret. I dont know if I am being used or if he just playing me. He txts everyday to see how I am and what I am doing.When I mentioned it to him the other night about seeing him more he said it was me who was always busy and that he feels paranoid about loosing me and that Im the best thing that has happened to him in ages and promised he would take me away this weekend, but ive heard this from him before and it never seems to happen. Since I have being staying a his house we have being sleeping together but I know i am not being used for that as it doesnt happen all the time. But something feels wrong and I dont know what. He also adds random young girls on a social website all the time and this is how we met.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 "But something feels wrong and I dont know what"
Thats your clue. Run for the hills. Played, used...its all in the same category of DISGUSTING. You know something's not right, and you're correct about that. Just let go of this guy. You're probably one of the many girls that he's doing this with....ever thought about why you dont meet too often, and when you meet, its only when he wants you to??
Its all staring at you in the face. Get out of this mess NOW.
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reader, amandab  +, writes (6 February 2011):
run run run. your gut instinc is telling you. if it doesnt feel right then it isnt!
the fact he is adding random 'young' girls is worrying
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