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writes:I just broke up with my Turkish boyfriend, as he was not happy that I am pregnant. He had promised to marry me and even went to meet my parents to ask for my hand in marriage. We have been spending lots of time together since then, until I told him that I was pregnant. He quickly asked me to abort it and even wants to break up.What kind of man is this I am thinking? A coward and scared to admit responbility? I also found out that he had been two timing me behind my back. Why is this? He claims to be a true Muslim man.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 February 2011):
Sadly you now do know who he is. It's always said that in a moment of deep personal crisis, you can see someone for what they truly are. And in his moment of crisis, he ran away, backed out of every promise he made and wanted you to abort the child.
The word 'coward' is an understatement.
I wouldn't waste your time looking for a 'why'. My personal theory is that he was looking for a way to get the right to live in Britain sadly. But that remains to be seen. The important thing now is that you do the best for yourself and your baby. Get as much support as you can from those around you, and do what is right for your life. Don't do what some cowardly liar tells you to. And if you get the chance, grab every penny you can from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): You do not say how old your boyfriend is? He sounds immature (including the cheating on you) and if he is young then perhaps he is scared and lashing out because he is not ready for the responsibility. You need some answers from him and then you need to decide how you want to go forward with the baby and your own life if he is not prepared to stand by you in this.
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