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female
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anonymous
writes: How can i assure my boyfriend? we used to go out over 2 years ago and were very much in love but because of his drug use i gave up. i got with other guys but he was always on my mind. now we are back together n he doesnt do drugs anymore and has even quit smoking. but he keeps reminding me, mainly when hes had alchohol, of how much i hurt him bt he managed to get with other girls too n even had a 9 month relationship (we went out for 10 months) bt he says he still thinks about her but doesnt want to see her again coz he loves me not her. so i kind of dont understand whats goin on in his head he thought of me when he was with her n she still crosses his mind when hes with me but he says its different. we have recently moved in together n had a house party he drank too much and said he didnt want to be with me n doesnt love me but the next day he apologized n said he didnt mean it hes just still hurting but doesnt want to leave me. he said he thinks of me with my exes n it hurts to think about it
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