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writes:my girlfriend has told me numerous times that she loves me. but this past saturday was our anniversary and didnt remember until i reluctantly told her 11 58pm, wondering if she would remember. Then for valentines day I took her out for dinner and gave her a heart necklace which i personally dropped off at her house. Then, today in school she tells me that she didnt buy anything for me. And later tells me she got me something but never says anything about it for the rest of the day. I wont see her until tomorrow and she still has not said anything. Its bothering me because i went out of my way to get her something sweet (card and a necklace) and all i got was a kiss.
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reader, ellie1963  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 is this unusual behaviour or, is she just not the thoughfull type! some people arent. Speak to her, it is very hard to have a one way relationship where one is putting in all the effort and the other person just sits back, believe me!!
Ask your self, why are you with this person? but tell her your hurt that she didnt put any thought or effort into the occasion
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): I'm sorry to hear that your efforts have been unoticed and unappreciated. You did a lovely thoughtful thing for your girlfriend and she seems to be dismissive of it totally. I would sit her down and ask to speak with her about it first, explaining why you felt hurt and ask her to see your point of view. Would she feel the same if you acted how she did? If she doesn't respond in a way which you feel you can forgive, then I would be wary about her true feelings for you. You're only 4 months in and this should still be the honeymoon period. Best of luck xx
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