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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I tell him I don't like how he's changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hey all, i have a huge problem: I've had a boyfriend for almost a year now. When we began to go out, he was really smart, funny, kind and fun to be around. That has since changed. He's starting to hang out with the wrong people, and i'm paying f...

I just can't measure up to the vibrator.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - My MASSIVE problem, someone please....help me. Part 1 : In the beginning.... I have been with this woman for over a year and a half and during this time we have had sex many times. At first everything was great although I was never sure if I e...

All he says is what he doesn't like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - My lover only tells me what he doesn't like, not what he does like in our love life. What does that mean? ...

I'm desperate to get away from his family and the drama!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - So, I'm finally graduating college, I'm engaged to a wonderful guy, but his mother is causing major problems. He has been living back at home these last few months. When I visit my house and he stays with us, his mother goes nuts, screaming and ...

Boyfriend putting her above us and its bothering me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem right now with my boyfriend and any help would be appreciated. So we've been dating for almost 4 months and we live about 40 minutes away from each other. Now, we're not used to seeing each other every day but us...

G/f and I sometimes have uncomfortable quiet spells..is there something wrong with that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hey, I've been with my girlfriend for just under four months now and everything is great, in general. We are pretty much always on the same wavelength and we're not totally obsessed with each other, both lead our separate lives and because of t...

Why cant he just be happy with kissing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I seem to have a bit of a problem with a guy, everytime we get together and kiss he always asks me to give him a blow job, the thing is we have just started kissing, it's really starting to annoy me because I like him a lot and I have said to him ...

How can I stop my boyfriend from being so scared of sex toys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi, My bf is scared of sex toys... He says he feels intimidated by them, and that he has had a couple of women tell him hes dumped they bought a dildo and showed him the door, one of these girls (i used to know her and she wasnt terribly freindl...

My husband is infatuated with his half sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I have a dilemma, my h is from a broken home and spent part of his life in children's homes, so he has issues from his past. His father recently passed away and that brought the estanged family back together for the one day, he met up again with his ...

I don't know what to think! Please help me out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Now I have no idea whats going on! I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I think this because, 1: He still eats at our lunch table but then he goes outside, that wouldn't bother me at all, but he asked another girl to go outsi...

I don't think I can leave her until there is actual proof she has cheated on me! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a confusing lady for 6 months now and I believe she is not only cheating on me but has the belief system in place to continually do so but I have no proof. She is part of a sect headed by a guy called isaac ...

Jealous of girlfriend dancing with other men - help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2798 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - So I got married to a woman I was deeply in love with about a year and half ago, we had been dating for over 6 years before we got married and everything seemed (at least to me) good. Then I found out that less than sixth months into the marriage ...

How can I build a relationship with my mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Okay, here it goes.. I've offten wondered.. am I wrong?.. IS all of this my fault?.. Am I bringing all this on myself?..Am I just emotional?.. I keep doubting myself.. and now I wonder..am I broken?.. I've had just the worst relationship with my ...

Should I listen to what he has to say after he has cheated on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi uncles and aunts! Wel, i'm just gona get on it. Yesterday my bf confessed to have been cheating on me... I'm so confused, angry and sad, i feel betrayed and lied to.. I don't knw what to do, i thought i needed to speak to someone. He confes...

Can I trust my girlfriend again after she left me for another man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - do i trust my girlfriend again my girlfriend left me for another guy, she slept with him , then a week later told me she had made a big mistake...she was working away with him, so it took her 5 months to finish her contract and return to me..in t...

I don't want to lose my family, and I also don't want to lose my boyfriend! How can I make everyone happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only recently moved back in together after we split up for a while in september last year after he threw me out of our home after a series of arguments. Things have improved dramatically since then. I lived on my own for a ...

Did they do it or not? Who do you think is lying? Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi there! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years although the last 2 years were spent being away from each other since he's now residing in the UK. He came home for vacation last January and a month after he left, I found out I was ...

His best friend wants to go out with me but a part of me is hoping the guy I love will come back to me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I was talking to this guy for a year un-official and he just stopped talking to me without giving me a reason and now he has a new girlfriend and it hurts me so bad i told him many times i was in love with him but he act like he don't care i can't ...

Should I try talking to him about his texts to this other woman or just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Okay so, I have already asked readers of this site two questions on this topic. I want to give a brief prologue, about two months ago my bf started getting texts from another woman. When he realized I noticed it he told me that she is a friend in ...

My boyfriend lied to me, do I tell him I know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - On saturday i was hanging out with my boyfriend and he asked me what i was doing that night, i assumed that i would be with him that night because he had gone out with his friends the night before. But he said that he was going out for dinner with ...

It seems obvious that he does like me but I'm starting to wonder if I am just a warm body to cuddle with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Thanks in advance for reading - I know this is long. Let me tell you what's going on first, then give you more information. There's this guy friend of mine who I've kind of been seeing lately - it's nothing official, but there's definitely somet...

I've tried everything to make my wife happy but she hates me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hi every one, I'm a 45 year old man. I'm extremely sad and depressed since last 4 years, when I lost my job, I sold out all my properties to meet the life expenses. but the most tragic incident happened to me was that my wife got changed, she ...

Should I pursue this relationship with my online boyfriend or leave him be because of my earlier fears?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hi... about 2 years ago, during the summer i met a really nice guy my age, 17 at the time online and we became fast friends.we both lived in the Caribbean but he lives on another island which is nt to far from mine.he was really sweet to me and as w...

I can watch his every move on the computer and its killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I need some serious advice...I got into a serious relationship last year and then was cheated on and really hurt, and damaged...somewhere in the process of breaking up and then getting back together I installed keylogging software onto my his ...

Girlfriend lost virginity to rebound during break up and now I don't know what to do if we get back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hey. Well, this is the story. I met my girlfriend about 2 years ago, and from the very moment we started talking we were extremely attracted to each other. Quickly enough, we started going out and soon after we realized that we were in love. We were ...

Boyfriend wants a break after 6 years for no explained reason. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had a long distance relationship(the 1st 4 yrs we were 3 hrs away) then 5th yr he moved to Europe for school and we decided to stay together. I loved to europe to to join school as well. Now this ...

All of his exs are on facebook..should he delete them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My partner and I are having problems. Relationship problems. We have been together nearly 10 yrs and have broke up once 2 yrs ago by his choice. At that time he promptly married. To make a long story short he decided he loved me again and wanted ...

My relationship is a real mess... I need your help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - hi, well i need some advice on what i can do about my 4 year relationship, I met my partner 4 years ago, at first we were happy and it was as if i was dreaming, my bf took my then 7 month old son like he was his own, and to this day he has alays...

My boyfriend pressures me to join him in binge drinking.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi, I was hoping someone could help me with this problem. I am in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend. We are ending college and recently he has been pressuring me to drink heavily. It has nothing to do with sex or anything like that its just ...

Getting cold feet on marriage coz he likes dirty talk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for a long time, since we have a long distance relationship we have decided not to have sex till we get married, we are going to get married early next year, but i dont know whether i want to go through with it. becaus...

Has too much happened for us to have a chance of making it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I can't believe this happened the way it did but here goes. I went to a party with a girl I have been trying to get interested in me for weeks. She got extrememly drunk and she passed out. I took her to my place and she kinda woke up a little ...

I just don't know how to walk away from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - well, my Bf keep cheating, dating chatting on facebook. he denied that we are actually together once. i walked out and i came back to him.it's like there's something dragging me to him all the time. He hurts me badly, he doesn't care, he chat with ...

I'm starting to feel he doesn't value me as much as I do with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - This is a long story so I'll try my best to shorten it. I have been in a relationship with a guy for nearly a year now. He won't call me his girlfriend ( I can't sleep over his house or go on trips with him and the fact he was in a 5 yr relationship ...

My girlfriend says our relationship will be over if I join the army but I don't think I have any other options!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Hey all, any advice on this is greatly appreciated.Im 19 and my girlfriends 18, weve been together since we were 16, and i can honestly say i think we will be together for many more years, there's just one thing that might prevent that, the army. ...

Our sex life is so limited, how can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - *MOD NOTE - I have combined two of the OP's questions for clarity* My girlfriend, has had anal sex before, she said it hurt and she never tried it again. I truly doubt this. she had asked me about it before. i told how i was unsure and she left it a...

How long should a girl stick around for just because she loves the guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi out there. I was wondering if anyone has rekindled a relationship with someone who it just wasn't working with originally, and managed to resolve the issues? Problem is, I'm head over heels for this guy who I've spent most of my adult life wi...

I can't move past the fact he slept with someone else while we were not together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I posted a question about my issue here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/cant-let-go-of-a-past-one-night.html I have discovered something else now and I'm hoping some of you can help me For those of you who don't want to read t...

Is it wrong that I am only dating him because he is a Doctor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi guys , This isn't so much as a problem but I would just like some thoughts. Last month I was on my mates hen weekend and whilst we were in a local pub another group of guys started chatting to us. None of them particulaly good looking. N...

Does he love me and is this girl more than just a good listener?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi,Im 17 this year and my bf is 19 this year. we had been together for 3 years plus going to 4 years. For the past 3 years,I think I've treated him badly, Im always nagging and angry him over a small thing. We breakup many times but ended up tog...

My violent drug-using ex is threatening me and my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone.I have a trouble with my ex boyfriend.OK! I'm gonna start tell u how we met.I working at 7eleven. I am cashier.He was my regular customer.Last Christmas we're start talking and make the long story short.We were dating after christmas.On ...

Is she stressed, scared, or over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - hey, i am dating a 19 year old girl, and im 23. we met in december, quickly because close friends, and started to fool around. she had a short term boyfriend, whom after dating for two weeks, was sent to korea for half a year. she quickly there af...

Boyfriend has issues with my nude modelling.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and were friends prior to that for approximately 2 years. When we first met, I was a fine art model. I posed nude for photographers and artists. This wasn't a problem until he started to care ...

Am I being too nit picky? Should I try to reconcile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I am 23 years old and my ex-boyfriend, whom I broke up with yesterday, is 26. I am considering calling him to reconcile/talk and am not sure if this is a good idea. My boyfriend is a wonderful man-- tender, very physically affectionate (borderline ...

Boyfriend says he could never marry me because I hate my own mother.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My mother does not support me in anything. I'm in my 3rd semester in college working on a crimal justice bachelors degree. Shouldn't I parent be proud? I guess they should but she isn't. She calls me "worthless" and worst things. So I have tried to ...

Wondering whether to be honest about 'cheating' before he moves in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - i need advice...bad! i have been with my boyfriend for two years now and we have been through alot together and still have remained in a relationship. things were going to so well but then i kissed another girl. you see i am bi. but this isn...

My girlfriend is obsessed with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (?) - My girlfriend is obsessed with me! We're both 18 and both in out first proper relationship. We've been going out for nearly 3 months now and she's turned into such a bunny boiler it's actually scaring me. Seriously, we're apart for 5 minutes and she ...

I said things I shouldn't have said and now he won't talk to me! This is so painful!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I am going through a pain like i have never felt before. I'd rather experience physical pain then the feeling i have right now. I had been seeing someone for 3 months. We had a lot of fights and mostly because of me because I would question him on a ...

LDR advice, I love him so much but he makes me feel guilty just for asking him to talk to me. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Ok so I started dating my boyfriend 6 months ago and we fell MADLY in love, either of us had ever felt such intense feelings before and we were incredibly happy. Then a month and a half later I gave my virginity to him, then a week later he ...

How can we get out of the "just friends" zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I have been friends with a girl Lora, since we were both in grade 3. We instantly became best friends I always thought she was cute but never really thought about dating her because it felt weird. We hang out all the time and it had caused some ...

My family hasn't even met my g/f and already they don't like her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

28 April 2010 (?) - Ok. Basic story I had a great relationship of 7 1/2 years but there was always something missing, I always wondered if there was someone else out there. Well that someone came along, I really started to like this person because I work with her. It ...