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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:The guy I am dating had a birthday and I text him happy birthday and something nice at the late evening, on that day and the day after in the morning I text him happy good morning and happy birthday and some very nice sentences about that, he is the only one I like. I wrote this sentence because two days before he was jealous when I got two messages on my cell phone while we were talking. He kept asking me is that your boyfriend. I let him see the messages to stop being jealous. That day I also invited him to dinner and he accepted but he said he can have it after the examination.Anyhow, He did not respond and text me back neither after the first or second birthday sms. I saw him at school that day (on the day I text him the good morning happy birthday...) and asked him did you get my sms and he replied I did not have time to answer you, I will do it later. That day he was big smiling at me several times and talked with me a little bit. Two days later, he was sick. I text him hoping that he will get better and such things. He did not text back. Then I did not see him in two days. The day after (on the examination day)I heard he is still sick. Why does he not respond? Does he need space? Shouldn't he at least text me something? We did not determine when we will have the dinner I invited him for. Shall I ask him when I can invite him for dinner when he is recovered, or shall I let it be for a one week after his recovery and then ask him? As I said beore he accepted to have dinner with me but we did not determine when we will have it.What shall I do now? He is still sick and yet not responding my previous texting. Do he need space?Shall I text him something or shall I wait to let him text me first since he did not respond?I am afraid to call him or text him because I do not know how he will react. I do not want to call because I want him to call me first beacause I do not want to pressure him by calling him first. Shouldn't he reply my texting?
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (5 November 2009):
He's backing off for whatever reason, and it's time for you to do the same. Yes, give him space. Don't text him or call him anymore regarding the dinner, getting together, etc. Even if a week goes by, just don't do it. Let him come to you. If he doesn't then he can piss off. There's plenty of guys out there, don't waste your time being hung up on a guy that doesn't want to give you any of his time.
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