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writes:himy girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i went out and did the same thing with another girl.now we are both upset over the whole thing. we both still really want to be together now but we know it cant be the same as the trust is not going to be the same. she is still going to see her ex all the time just because of where they live and socialise. is there anything we can do or is the relationship doomed?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 November 2009):
Yes it is. She wasn't over him, and you then had to get revenge. That's a really bad start. Don't bother with this relationship and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): It's really bad if it has come to this. You need to talk about why this happened. It might have been a one off and all the old feelings are now resolved.If she does still have feelings for him then your relationship is doomed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): you're going to have to build back up the trust and that really isn't going to be easy. talk to each other and both agree that no more sex with anyone else but each other otherwise yes your relationship is doomed, sorry for being so blunt but that is the truth.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (5 November 2009):
 The way I see it, if your gf was really committed to the relationship with you, she would not have contact with her ex.Furthermore, since both of you have cheated on each other, there is no trust left in the relationship, and a relationship needs trust to work.... Suggest relationship counselling, if she refuses, well then you have your answer!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Sorry dude, there's no trust and you guys need to break up.
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