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We're drifting apart and I don't know how to change it!

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Question - (4 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My guy friend has stopped talking to me! He still stares but I haven't seen him in a while. When I left class to be dismissed we both looked at each other and I left. He texted me one day but not much lately. I hope I didn't hurt him when I told him that I wasn't going to talk to him. I think we're drifting apart but I don't know how to change it. It just bugs me that he never tries to talk to me at all. Not even text much anymore. I just feel like I lost a good friend. he says that he doesn't dislike me but what should I do? He shows signs that he likes me when we talk just me and him but when I'm not with him he acts differently. Whats so different about our friendship? How can I fix it?

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A male reader, hopelessromantic101 United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

hopelessromantic101 agony auntno offense but your being cruel make up your mind. guys might seem simple but were really not we are as complex as girls and our feelings can be hurt just as easily we just dont show it because of the harassment we get. before you even start talking to him figure out how you feel about him, and what you want from him either a friend or more and you need to reassure him if you talk to him that your not just gonna ignore him but actually be a true friend.

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