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Does this guy want me only if my friends like him?

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Question - (4 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im really not sure what to do.. i met this guy online and he lived outa state at the time. We were talking for like a month or so and every thing was fine we were getting along great.. he's been here for a week and a half, ive met him and everything seems to be going good. except one thing. my friends.. because he just moved states i thought i would introduce him to my mates because he doesnt know anyone here.. he got only ok with one when he first met them.. then his birthday was on weekend and i tried to organise going out with my friends and him.. and all my friends dogged it.. just coz they didnt want to go out.. so he got the shits and no one went out.. then he tried doing something for the last 2 days.. and we are all broke so we couldnt go out.. then my frend had a go at him for getting the shits at me coz they dont wanna go out..

he says he really likes me.. and i think he acts like he does.. not that i know.. but my friends tell me that if he really liked me he would want to see me even if they weren't going to come out.. i dont know waht to do.. ive never been in a relationship before and i really like this guy.. but when my friends started to be **** to him he told me he was considering deleting my number and moving on..

he sed he wants to get to know me more before he considers a relationship.. but i dont wanna wait forever for him to work it out..

i really dont know what to do :'( some one please help

(sorry its so long lol)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009):

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that doesnt make sense coz he doesnt like my friends...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009):

Your really going to dislike this coming from a male's point of view... but he's more interested in your friends than you. Of course, he cares about what your friends think of him because of you... but think outside of the box. It's because of you he has think that way... maybe this is his problem.

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