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Archived questions from: 24 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His lack of intimacy makes me think he might be gay! Your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Why my boyfriend is not interested in itimacy? I have been dating a guy I met for a couple of months. He was in a long marriage and his wife left him. I would say this guy has some feminine characteristics even in his walk. His house has no clu...

She says she's interested in me but wants more time... is she stalling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hiya, I'm having a problem with this amazing girl who I have been intrested in since December but she, for some reason wants more time even though she has said that we will be together. She says she's intrested in me but she keeps stalling. Should I ...

How can I help my friend to relax more in public?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hiya, I'm 16 and I would like to know how I can keep one of my mates relaxed in public places as he get very tense around other people and saying "relax" definitely does not help. For instance we went to see a comedy gig tonight and he was never...

Is my boyfriend being disrespectful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Today my boyfriend was talking to his friends and they were talking about me and saying how much of a baby I am and then he was talking about our sex life and stuff like that and my boyfriend was just sitting there and laughing and thinking that it ...

The whole story - I don't know what to do any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 13 years with all my heart and soul! I can't picture my life without out him and I really don't want to! We have always had an awesome relationsip! Right now it's a bit rough-1st time ever! I just wanna fix it! He recent...

Situation with teacher and me and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I haven't spoken in a year (to my teacher) had a bad time with him, I am leaving school in 4 weeks and I somehow want to talk to him and ask why he never spoke back to me when he promised he would never ignore me when he did so harshly. I want to...

I always think that if I hold on a little bit more she would love me again, but nothing's happening..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. At first were were having fun and I can see that she loves me as much as I love her but now things got a little bad for me. She told me about this guy that she was talking with on the inte...

Is this a phase or something I should get out of?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year now but lately his interest in me seems to have disappeared, he's also become a lot more immature than I had realised before the relationship started. He's a musician, and even though I'm happy for hi...

What should we do to make it good between both of us and make our parents happy too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Okay, so me and my gilfriend have had are ups and downs and as of now, what should I do? I want her to marry me and she wants to marry me. But, there are many things wrong, for one her parents don't like me and mine don't like her but we are both ...

Trouble in Paradise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 10 years younger than me. We have been together for 7 months. We used to snuggle all night long, have sex twice a day everyday but as of late he does not snuggle at all. He was also not too interested in sex the other day. Has...

Relationship status: COMPLICATED

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - So Ive been with this guy on and off for more than a year now (Dec 07). We get along well, have good sex and get along with our friends. We dated officially for a good half of the time we were together but since June of last year we have gone back ...

Shall I just drop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - hi i'm 22yrs old hope you can help i have known this lad for seven years he has always liked me as we worked together but i had a boyfriend and saw him more as friend we didn't see each other for two years as i went to university i have been back...

In 3 days her attitude changed completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Why would a girl that was really into you for weeks beforehand suddenly loose interest in barely 3 days. She went from being as giddy as a school girl, to wanting to only be friends, to not wanting to talk to me and asking for some space for a whil...

Men:- Why do some guys say one thing in a text and do the opposite in real life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Men:- Why do some guys say one thing in a text and do the opposite in real life? - Why can't men just be straight with us women? Do men always mean what they say in a text or do they just hide behind the words?...

Am I the only married lady who lies to her husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - hi, normally it is the husband that lies,but it's different in my case. i would like to know if am the only married lady who lies to her husband. i dont want to any more but i just cant stop.i lived a rough life as a youth (which he knows)an...

I want to get all my old feelings back and just be happy with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend because i felt like i was too young to be with just one person. I felt like my feelings had changed for him as well. The problem is that i dont want to move on from him. I want to get all my old feelings back and just...

I am hurt by this behaviour and wonder if I should behave the same way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I am a married woman that has a great male friend through a business partnership. We would spend long periods of time talking to each other and I confided some of my marital problems to him. I realised that we developed feelings for each othe...

How do I get him to see this and give me a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - i'm in a relationship with this guy the first time we met i jumped onto him and wrapped my legs around his waist after i grabbed onto his genitals. he told me the other night that we started our relationship off wrong. we had sex three days aft...

I'm really confused would he still wants sex with me yet he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - HI guys, ive just started talking 2 my ex again, i said id lend him money which i have done before, i said 2 him he can give it bk 2 him when ever he can, but then he goes and replys yeah im sexually favs, i mean yeah i still like him, and have slep...

I think he's gay and I want to break it off! How do I end this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a month now and I have always suspected he was gay. Here's why: 1. He likes to get manicures and pedicures. 2. He knows nothing about cars or sports...I know way more than him. 3. He talks about how his male frie...

I've gotten my tutor into big trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Ok im 17 and basicly I have a tutor who I have liked for a long time and i was pretty sure he liked me too because of how flirty he was with me he'd like stroke my leg, playfully grab the back of my neck,ask me to stay behind class to help him do ...

Why won't she open up to me? Why is she looking for other guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I have known her for more than a year. Two or three months ago she broke off with her bf and she felt very sad. Now she looks like back to normal self but she seemed change in her behaviour. Nowadays she often looks for new guys to go out and meet. ...

How can I tell her diplomatically that I'm not interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hello people, first of all I would thank all my friends for their kind support in my earlier question. I have a serious problem guys, I am 21 and my girlfriend is 18. I got hooked to a girl a year ago just for the heck of it!! She's the ugliest ...

What can I say to my daughter's boyfriend to make him feel more secure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My daughter, 17 (18 in July) and her boyfriend (19)have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years. All they do is fight. Her boyfriend is very insecure and thinks that she is going to cheat on him with every male friend she has. They do love each ...

Do I need someone to be withholding in order to feel attracted to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I'm having a really tough time moving on from a totally heartbreaking pseudo-relationship with an older, emotionally unavailable man. It lasted about 5 years. I was/still am in love with him to the point of obsession. It was really unhealthy but he ...

We're "on a break", then he joked we were "Friends with Benefits" ???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - 2 weeks ago my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and I went "on a break". It was his idea since we had been spending too much time together and arguing a lot more than normal. A few days later I asked what he meant by "break" and he said it was that we were ...

Why is she so uncomfortable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Split with an ex over a year ago, I found out she was seeing someone else. We all work in the same offices. I walk away wish her well and to my knowledge cause her no trouble. Throughout the year she has been very hot and cold with me without ...

How do I get my girlfriend back or is all lost?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I want to know how I get my girlfriend to go back out with me.... I started seeing this girl a year ago just after I left my wife, it was the most perfect relationship ever....Never argued about anything, agreed on everything, had great fun, good ...

He has done this before where we break up and then get back together...??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a rough month kind of like constantly walking on eggshells. He went out on St pattys day all night and didn't call me which I found disrespectful since we live together. I called him the next day and he gave me the worst ...

Boyfriend doesn't get it..I feel like I am suffocating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Im 20 but by now I had 3 serious relationships and the last one was very difficult to get over. I loved him and I still do, he is the guy you write books about hes everything every girl can dream of. But for me most importantly he loved me and hes ...

How do I get over what I had and be grateful for what I've got?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Compared to some peoples' problems on here, this probably isn't very bad but some advice would be welcome nonetheless. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 18 months now. For the first 12 months, everything was amazing. I couldn't do a th...

I've had 2 abortions and I solely regret having them now...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 24 year old female, I've had 2 abortions. I had the first one in August 2007 and thereafter in January 2008. The first time I was so scared I didn't even think of anything but my fear of my parents and my boyfriend at that time not at all ...

Threesomes and the mess that comes with it... is this slutty behaviour?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I am dating this girl who is without a doubt the greatest person I have ever met, however, I recently inquired about her having a threesome with two guys, mostly because I made a joke about us having a threesome with some random 10/10 I saw, then ...

Stop taking so long in the bathroom!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs for about 9 months. We live in a super tiny apartment - so privacy is tough to get. In the morning he takes about 2 hours to get ready before he goes into work! It drives me up a wall because I ...

Stay with the boyfriend, go back to the fling, or move on from both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I am in a very difficult situation. I have been with an amazing guy for the past four years. We met online through a friend and clicked very well. We can talk about everything, he is supportive, dependible and faithful. But he is also very different ...

Is what he's doing to me ...abuse??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Is this abuse? We were being intimate and I was enjoying being close with him (boyfriend of just over one year) and I have been doing kegels a lot because he tells me almost every other day that I'm 'too big' for him and that it must mean that I...

Even though we had really bad times we had wonderful times, too. I miss her! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hows it going, could use some advice here. I have been in a relationship on and off for 6 yrs now and it has recently ended.Im not sure what happened and i know sometimes when you are heartbroken you tend to not be able to see whats going on.It ...

Do I still try to make this friendship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - This is pretty much a best friend issue. Me and my best friend used to be so close. We used to hang out and talk ALL the time. This year we began to become less close and it really sucks. We barely talk and we never hang out anymore! He doesn't ...

I want to make it work with her, without sounding needy or desperate! How can I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I split on January 10th. We had been together for a little over a year. We lived together 5 months of this period but both moved back in with our parents temporarily to get our finances back on track, then I was going to buy us ...

I just want her to be direct. How can I get her to talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I told her that since she lives a few states away from me, when I move, I'm not going to see her until I'm out of school and have a car. She took this as I'm breaking up with her. We've been talking still, but I can't get a word out of her. I can't ...

He says he feels a bit smothered by me yet he is still showing a lot of interest...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - In December I stated dating a great guy who I fell in love with very quickly. When we would chat, we had the same things in common and the comment 'where have you been' was not only said but felt by both of us. The other remarkable thing I felt we ...

Last week I was cleaning and I found women's underwear and a huge stash of condoms which weren't ours.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I just recently moved across country with my boyfriend of 2 years. Everything seemed perfect and I can't picture my life with out him. Last week I was cleaning and I found women's underwear and a huge stash of condoms which weren't ours. I felt so ...

I was tricked and I'm hurt .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Oh my god I can't even begin to tell you. The love of my life is NOT what I thought he was. I thought he moved away, at least that's what I was told, cried myself to sleep that night when he comes back. I thought we had broken up but you know that ...