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Archived questions from: 31 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help me, I love my girlfriend but I'm hurting inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I need some answers please because I'm going crazy. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. Take it back a little to 2003 I was with a girl who I dated in high school and she cheated on me so we broke up. Then in 2004 I met this girl at work ...

Another one bites the dust...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I just met this guy, the minute I saw him I thought there was something about him. We've been dating for about a month and had a really good laugh. The other night I sent him a really mean text message, I was drunk, it's like a subconscious thing ...

Maybe it IS me and she just doesn't want to be my friend any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Ok about a year ago my friend told me she likes this boy in one of our classes. He also happens to be the boy I liked the previous year. I told him I liked him on valentines day via a card and he gave me one back saying he was flattered but he had a ...

I have slept with my best friend in the past, and my fiance has no clue

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I am 32 and have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had our ups and downs and I have caught him cheating three times (but who knows how many times he has actually cheated?). He used to put me down regularly and I am not happy with our ...

What did he mean by his statement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we ...

It's been two weeks. I haven't heard anything from him. Does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi cupid... I really like this guy. I don't know what else to do. When I first met him I was in relationship with my son's father, now we're not together but before that me and the guy used to text each other and my ex found the texts and text the ...

Girlfriend plans to attend her ex-boyfriend's wedding (without me)! So upsetting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - recently i found out something about my gf's sexual past with one of her ex's that was TMI and in my opinion, borderline deal-breaker. we've talked about it a couple times and was making good tracks on moving past it because i think she's worth it, ...

I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi Me and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back ...

I really don't mean to be confusing. Any explanations would be very helpful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well...

Why would I want someone who treats me like garbage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - OK where to start six years ago I met again whit my high school friend, she was going threw a divorce I always liked her since high school but back then her boyfriend was my best friend and we ended up not talking anymore because of her, well the ...

I'm so used to fighting my paranoia that I can't make head or tail of the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about 8 months now. Originally I rebounded from a previous relationship to her, but it couldn't have been a better person to find. We were friends before hand, but here's where things get tricky. She's, more or less, a ...

What to do about this dating situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - We went out for almost 8 months, until Friday. He would ignore me on and off for a few months, and sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't talk for a week, and I don't even know why. At the end of the day, he wouldn't wait until he saw me by ...

I'm so close to giving birth and all I want is for him to be around with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend exclusively for about 8 1/2 months and am 7 1/2 months pregnant. We've had alot of drama in the past, but ever since I started dating him exclusively I've been the happiest I've ever been in a relationship. I hone...

She used to be a HE!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I really don't know what to do here. I've been with my girlfriend for one year. It's been going great and she's perfect, or so I thought. We met at work. I'd always had an attraction to her and I was overjoyed when I found out that she liked me as ...

Please tell me what a player is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi all, my ex bf said on the phone just a few minutes ago that he's also a player, I said no he's not but well not when I was with him, but he said he was on his best behaviour with me. He said that there's no one down the pub to do it to but then ...

Does my girlfriend want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 6 months and we love each other very much but my girlfriend has recently stopped wanting to make love, we haven't done it for over a month. She says there is no reason, she just doesnt "feel like it". I ...

We broke up because he is playing around!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - We broke up because he is playing around!! He told me he loved me and would never break up with me and leave me and he'll never love any another girl. I loved him so much but lately we've been fighting so much because he's lying to other girls and ...

Why has my boyfriend still not introduced me to his family???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Why after 4 months in a relationship and 5 months prior to that 'dating' - has my boyfriend whom I love, not introduced me to his family? I'm starting to get seriously paranoid!! Not only has he met my family and friends, but he's actually formed ...

How can I control this stupid fantasy????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very very much and we have a lovely, beautiful relationship. He is gorgeous, and kind, and everything I could ever want. I kissed and heavily flirted with his brother before we got together. My boyfriend doesn't know this. I don'...

How are you supposed to know who you can trust???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey all, How are you supposed to know who you can trust, I mean men. The ones I know are very good at making me believe that they are friends until I find out once it's too late and they have completely humiliated me. I don't like having people in ...

He's throwing his acted out fantasies at me!!

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31 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, So my fiance and I were talking about fantasies. We've already had a 3some with another guy (he just touched me and I touched him no sex) and I said I'd really like to try with another woman or couple out of curiousity (again, no sex ...

He said I just wanted the "title" of boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, okay so I just need some advice please... thank you guys in advance... I had finally let this guy go after one year of our relationship, he had the commitment issue, did want to lose me but wanted me around...?? Weird I know... but now it's ...

I can't believe he broke up with me because he was overworked. Is this something guys do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I got into a relationship (my first) last year and really clicked with the guy. I thought it was going great. Problem is he was a postgrad student with lots of work to do. We broke up after 5 months because he just couldn't physically handle a ...

He's fallen out with our daughter and now loves to walk around in the nude!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 16 years this year, very happy mostly all of that time, except for the last 4 years, he's just turned 48, he had a big falling out with his daughter at that time, bacause she lied, and she also had a young ...

We had a big fall out and now he's sleeping on the couch and won't make up with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have a major boyfriend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was over. He said fine. I didn't mean and I tried to tell ...

Student/teacher porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I'd like some advice especially from you guys out there about my boyfriend. We've been together 6 years, he's a teacher. Recently, I found he'd downloaded loads of student-teacher style porn films from the internet. Some of them involve the ...

Does he just want to get in my pants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - im 20yrs old i felt for a guy in a relationship wth someone else..we met about five months ago...text eachother go on webcam...i just want to know if he really liked me? he didnt tell me about hes relationship i had to text him over and over and ...

I gossiped about his gay brother and now my husband is cold towards me

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31 March 2009 (F) - I've been married for the past 2 years. We had an arranged marriage, so there are troubles in our relationship mostly because of our families and few trust issues too. Now after time, things have really improved between us and we two are sharing a ...

I want to be in a relationship but now quite sure how to go about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My name is John, i'm 19 and i'm pretty much lonely. I used to date a lot of girls back when i was i n high school but since then i stopped dating because of something that is hard to explain. Let's say that i first meet this girl and we talk for a ...

We always fight but lately we haven't been and now I'm worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - ok i know this will sound really weird but here goes. My fiancee and i ALWAYS fight no joke but its been like completely fight free the last few weeks and im happy it has but it just kind of worries me because last time this happened it blew up ...

He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was ...

I've read enough Mills and Boon books to know that "love" doesn't actually exsist and I'm never gonna truly fall in love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm 16 years old, I am very mature for my age. My boyfriend is 20 and he's been after me for 6 months, in the end I gave up and started to date him. The thing is, I still see him as a friend and when he tries to do coupley things I get annoyed....

I'm confused so feedback here would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Please help me, I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin. He is two years older than me and we met and mine and his step grandfather's wedding. We really hit it off and shortly after that he came down and stayed with me for a while. I ...