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I just want her to be direct. How can I get her to talk?

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Question - (24 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I told her that since she lives a few states away from me, when I move, I'm not going to see her until I'm out of school and have a car. She took this as I'm breaking up with her. We've been talking still, but I can't get a word out of her. I can't call her, because we got rid of long distance calling "We never use it anyways.". All she's been saying is lyrics to songs. I can't get her to talk about anything. She was supposed to visit next month, but she figured that I wouldn't want to see her. I can't get her to be serious. Even if the lyrics she quotes have something to do with how she feels, I just want her to be direct. How can I get her to talk?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2009):

Just tell her that you weren't breaking up with her but if she doesn't want to speak to you then you have to assume she's happy it happened and she must want to break up with you.

Tell her to email you if you are wrong about this but you have to go and try and get over her. Then go off line.

That should get a response.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, bOy CrAzY;} United States +, writes (24 March 2009):

Well first of all tell her that you weren't breakin up with her! And if she is still cold twords u just let her cool down for awhile oh and tell her to come visit u cause u can't wait to see her girls love that stuff trust me!!;) and just make her feel loved girls love that stuff good luck!!!;)

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