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How do I get him to see this and give me a second chance?

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Question - (24 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2009)
A female Saint Vincent and the Grenadines age 30-35, *inkys89 writes:

i'm in a relationship with this guy the first time we met i jumped onto him and wrapped my legs around his waist after i grabbed onto his genitals.

he told me the other night that we started our relationship off wrong.

we had sex three days after we met and now he has broken up with me because he says it's just a sexual thing we have going on honestly the sex is great but i'm actually in love with him.

how do i get him to see this and give me a second chance?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009):

You can't make someone love you or give you a second chance......respect his wishes if you truly love him and move on. And more importantly, learn from this.

Sex can honestly be good with anyone if you give it time and communicate and of course practice, but what really makes us go to the next level of commitment is our morals, values, personality, etc..

you can be a sex fanatic alll you want, but don't let him know that too soon......with all of that though, i will add this: what your ex did is something my husband would do too (be turned off by someone throwing themselves at him too soon).

and i know the biggest mistake i could ever make if my husband and i ever separated for a minute (we won't but if we did, lol), would be for me to slut it up with other men.

I would have to show him I'm hurt, but i'm strong and not like the rest of the women out there and that I need only one man and that's him....

Right now this guy might be thinking that the night yall met is how you are with every man...show him that's not true ;)....good luck! :)

-C

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009):

You cant he already said it "just Sex" He got what he wanted and chances are he'll come back wanting just be ready to say NO!!!

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