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I am hurt by this behaviour and wonder if I should behave the same way

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Question - (24 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am a married woman that has a great male friend through a business partnership. We would spend long periods of time talking to each other and I confided some of my marital problems to him.

I realised that we developed feelings for each other and I also realised that either I end my marriage or my "friendship".

I became very business like with him and now he goes out of his way to avoid me. I am hurt by this behaviour and wonder if I should behave the same way or pretend to do business as usual.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009):

Imagine how much more awkard it would be if sex became an issue,if he has went cold now then it would have ruined your business, marriage and yourself in the long run.

You kinda gave him a small test without realising. Think you have saved a whole lot of heartache babe.

Have a read at Mae5 "My paramour used me for sex" on September 18th last year that will put any woman of having an affair.

He has fired the warning shot now listen to what he is saying, you wouldn't be here asking if it was the right thing for you!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 March 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntStick with the business as usual. I think you just dodged a bullet, Congrats!

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