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Archived questions from: 3 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He doesn't tell me he loves me often enough... I need to hear it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and it's going good except that he doesn't tell me he loves me very often. He cheated last year and we are working through this and it has definitely been very hard but we are getting ...

She's pregnant but she won't tell me when our baby is due!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Hello, I need advice everyone. I have been with this woman for a few years now and she became pregnant last year with twins. I will not go into detail but she was 20 weeks pregnant when she told me that the cord was coming away. I broke down for a ...

I found another woman's panties in my boyfriend's glove compartment!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I was driving with my boyfriend to his apartment. I stopped at the durg store to buy some condoms but when I got back to his car I found someones elses panties! He knows they must of been there before but how could I not see them??? Then worst of ...

I feel scared and very insecure off messing up again. Any pointers?

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3 March 2009 (M) - hi guys. I'm really in need of advice. I've been with my girlfriend for five years and I love her with everything I have. Last year we finally decided to move in together and talked about marriage. At first everything went well but then things ...

My husband is addicted to anniseed balls and beer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - My husband has started to become addicted to food, in particular, aniseed balls and beer... he can't start the day without them. Wherever he goes, he has to take aniseed balls and beer with him (or if driving, a diet Coke!). He's showed no ...

His girlfriend is pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I've been talking to this guy who has a girlfriend, he's telling me that he plans on breaking up with her but he doesn't want to hurt her. As things come to a close between him in this girl (she knows about me) I get early in the morning a lot of ...

My mum saw the dirty text messages on my phone and has now told me to keep away from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old. A few weeks ago I met the most amazing boy in the world, let's call him Jack. He is such a player but I really can't stop thinking about him, I was meant to meet him last week but I was on my period the next day, so when I told ...

Am I just being used for sex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months now. We have known each other for years. I feel like he isn't honest and loyal. He says he isn't with other girls but to me I keep feeling like he is cheating on me and just using me for sex....

Second thoughts because of the kids..am I a fool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (?) - My partner and I are both in the process of divorce from our spouses. We have had a two year relationship and filed for divorce from our spouses three months ago. My partner and I both have kids and his are, according to him, devastated that he ...

Am I doing right or am I holding onto something that would never be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15 this mounth we have been going out for 3 moenths but my mam dosn't like him (to be honest not a lot of people do) she says he has bad hygiene and she doesn't like his background "he's in a different league to us" I'm ...

How can I curb this temper of mines?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Ok, I really need as many help and as much advice as I can possibly get. I really love the person that I'm with right now and I would do anything or at least try my best to work out any problems a relationship sometimes have. My bf and I work ...

From relationship, to friends....now will he ever want to be lovers again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with a widower for 5 years. We love each other very much, but he is afraid of commitment, so much so that when I asked him where he saw our relationship in a few years time, he said that he couldnt ...

Back in the dating game again after 11 years and now I cannot form a meaningful relationship with a man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I came out of an 11 year relationship a little over a year ago and since then I have found it really difficult to form a meaningful relationship with another man. I don't seem to have difficulty attracting a man in the first place and over this pa...

Do you guys think that he will eventually call to reconcile or that I won't hear from him ever again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I just got out of a 2 year relationship. The guy I was with claimed to truly be in love with me and even proposed to me this past October. We have gone through ALOT during those 2 years. 2 weeks ago we broke up for 3 days and he tells me ...

Pig headed man! Never wants to admit that he is wrong!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - When I get hurt by him which is not intentional he tends to look at only his side of the story. I usually dont even get a chance to explain. He justs gets upset and goes into the cave sometimes for weeks which really hurts me. Then we get back and ...

I love my g/f but feel lost..don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - So ive been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 months now, and am having a bit of trouble... When we first started seeing eachother we were so happy, we were so in love, but now something seems to have changed, like somethings missing. I love ...

Fear of commitment..how can I help him overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship BUT I really think he has a great fear of commitment. he was hurt very deeply in his past. What can I do to to help him overcome this and show him that I will not hurt him. When things are going really ...

She's 47, I'm almost 30, we have a child together, but can it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Hi folks. This is quite a long story so please be patient. Thank you. About two years ago, I lost my job. It was just one of those things. Cut backs etc. I was worried about how long it would be before I found another job, as the bills won't pay ...

We have been with others, but want our relationship to work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - hey woundering if you can help, I have been with my parten Ed for almost 5 years, and have 1 child aged 3 and half. Things were great until I was pregnant where it appeared if he could have a night or a boozed up long weekends he would causing ...

I have a boyfriend but am falling for another guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm in love with another guy whose totally different from my bf... He listens when i talk, offers his opinions on things we discuss, always makes me feel good when i'm down, we laugh about the same things etc... Talking to him is just amazing, ...

How do I get my boyfriend to open up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend gets mad he blows things out of proportion and gets angry and runs away and hides. Instead of communicating and talking about it he runs and says he cant take this. If things dont go his way he gets mad. To me he is being very ...

I can't be open with my b/f!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - hi, i cant get myself to be open about my feelings and stuff with my boyfriend anymore. i trust him but i'm afraid he'll end up thinking i'm too needy. i've got too many issues and i dont want to scare him off. what to do?...

She hurt me... but I still love her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - My now ex girlfriend was one of the loves of my life, and she left me... well let me set up some background first... I'm a Pacifist and only defend myself, whether Verbally or Physically when I need too. I met her a year ago and we started Dating ...

Do guys take rejection to heart or blow it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Do guys take rejection to heart becasue a guy asked me out and I said no. This was few years ago and I met him recently and he's still mad at me becasue I said when he asked me I actually did like the guy but I didn't know if he saw me as friend or ...

Relationship breaking down

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - I might start by saying I am not the perfect guy, which is the major cause of our relationship break down. I am 20 and my gf is 18. I have known my gf (as a good/best friend) for a year become we got into relationship. Before we got into relatio...

I am in love with a guy who refuses to admit he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy who reuses to admit he loves me, I know he does because his behaviour shows he does. I know he has been through a lot in life, a bad realtionship, failed marriage but I am willing to accept everything because I love him. At ...

I have a new g/f but my ex made me become so paranoid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Since I broke up with my ex back in December, i've changed as a person and I could do with some advice. I got really close to my ex and things were going great, when one evening she tells me her ex wants her back and things ended. I've since met...

Father of my child wants nothing to do with his son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Well I met this guy off the net and we dated on and off for about 11 months or so. We even lived together for about 4 months and at the ending of the realationship i became pregnant. He already has 2 kids and had stated on several occasions he ...

How can I leave someone I love so much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Dear friend, I decided write to you because I need your help, and I cannot talk to anybody else about my problem. My problem is I met somebody a three years ago after I broke up with me ex that I've been with for about eight years. So when I broke ...

I truly want to be with him but I'm not sure if I'm willing to be put on the backburner again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple months and things started off great, he's a real sweetheart and a total gentleman. But since he's started school again (he just got into med school btw), he doesn't seem to have time for anything let ...