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Archived questions from: 20 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He's with someone new and I can't stand it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - So I dated this guy on and off for over 5 years, since I was 18. He was my first everything and I've always felt a special connection with him. We had our problems, including me not trusting him, and we fought a lot, so we weren't always stable. ...

How do you get over emotional betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Hi, me again. I have the text cheat husband who's now stopped all that with a colleague 18 years younger than me who works at different premises but he has to see at 6 weekly committee meetings and contact via email over business issues. He bitterly ...

Is it possible to experience depression if your boyfriend has emotionally abused you for quite some time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Is it possible to experience depression if your boyfriend has emotionally abused you for quite some time? Do men who emotionally abuse say cruel things about you and then tell you that you are crazy and that they love you? Or that you should not ...

He is being unreasonable and blames me for distracting him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I would like your opinion on this one. I am in a LD relationship with my bf, but he is down here with me for a week. He told me that he needs to study and that he does not plan on partying which is fine with me; but my brother's wedding is this ...

It seems like we're sexually incompatible

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend in 40, I am 34, I would love to settle down and have a family and I am aware that, at my age,I probably need to compromise on men. However,my boyfriend and I get on pretty great - we have been together for 9 months now - except in the ...

He doesn't make any time for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I care a lot for my boyfriend, but he doesn't seem to really care about me. It's a long distance relationship so it's hard enough already, but he doesn't call me AT ALL. I recently told him I wanted to talk on the phone at least sometimes and since ...

Don't know if I wanna still be with my fiancee

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - hey all. this ones kinda complicated for me. i am currently engaged to my girlfriend. but lately have been feeling like is this the person i really wanna be with!! see i give her everything i can to make her happy. but back in november i found...

Is it time to call it quits? Or hold on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has had many female friends, yet I am his first girlfriend, he is 22. So, most of the problems we face are first timers and never happen again, he is very good about learning what not to do. This may seem odd to most other people, but ...

My adopted sister & I love each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - i was adopted when i was a teenager. two years later my parents adopted a girl in her teens. we have fallen for eachother and share a very strong relationship. we tell eachother everything, we care for one another, we love each other. She is the ...

My boyfriend is not willing to commit. Should I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - We are in a commited relationship, we only see each other except we do go out with our friends men and women. However, if the topic comes up my bf says he does not want a commitment. What does this mean? I did have the key to his house for 9 mo...

Friends with "potential" benefits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm presently in a difficult situation. I go out in a large crowd to gigs and one night one of my friends brought along a pal to see the band. Well it was like someone had put Rohypnol in our drinks, this guy and I couldn't stop looking at...

Is he just craving some attention? Or am I crazy for staying with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 11yrs, and I really love him. I am pretty sure that he still loves me too. I have some apprehensions about the future of our relationship. About a year ago, I found out that he was chatting with a woman in the UK. I ...

Can I make him love me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - hi im 14 my my crush loves girls boobs and i love him a lot but i think his not mine now i waited him about 6 month his just keep kidding me like i love you i hate you sometimes he said a really bad things to me he always trying to hug my friend she ...

Do I hope the girl that I knew comes back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - My Gf and I had been going out for over two years and everything was great, we did everything together. Shortly before our second anniversary her friends all went single all at the same time and it began to put a lot of stress on our relationship ...

Did the military take this man's heart away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I've had a lover now for almost 7 months. I knew he wasn't boyfriend material for me Because we live in two different worlds. He's divorced father of 3 in the military and I am single..college educated well traveled. Not only that.. He ca...

I'm leaving the door open for him to be honest with me..but I don't think I can handle anymore "surprises"

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20 March 2009 (F) - I posted on the first of the month about how I was struggling to regain trust in my boyfriend after discovering that he was carrying on a long-distance, sexually explicit relationship with a female 'friend'. This is a long follow up but I would ...

Why do men do the things that they do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Ok, this is my dilemma. I have started dating a guy earlier this year, we have known each other for a while we play sports together at our job. Things were going great, we both were remodeling our homes and he is good with a hammer so he really ...

Believe him? Or Leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a younger guy, he's 18 and I'm 20. Throughout the past year We have had so many trust issues regarding other women especially. He and his ex broke up exactly when my ex and I broke up and of course there needs to be some ...

How can I totally forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm in a LDR.... just 3 weeks ago I found out that my bf has been cheating with me for the last 3 years so I left him. Right now his with other girl and they are about to get married. I just can't get rid of his memories. It kills me when it comes ...

My dad is putting so much pressure on our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm not usually one to express my problems over the net, but would appreciate an outside perspective on this issue. My partner of 5 years and I got engaged 3 months ago. Everything was great until our family found out we had got ourselves into a bad ...

Should I let my b/f go? I still love him very much

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm going to be really honest. I had been with my bf for 3 years. All of our relationship, I introduced my bf to my family and friend but my bf never introduce me to any of his friends or family except only to his son, 6 yr old. He got divorce once. ...

I have a serious serious controlling problem. Help me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - I have a serious serious controlling problem. I have had my last 3 lovers leave me for someone else with the last two ending up in marriage. 3 months ago I go involved with an incredible young lady who has been everything that women should b...

An affair to bring out the best in me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Okay this is a long one. Been with this guy for almost 11 years. We are almost 6 years married. 2 Kids. I am only 25 almost 26. My husband is super rude and mean to me. I am planning on divorcing him soon. I can't take this abuse from him ...

We have trust issues, I've changed but can she?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - so my girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years and 2 months. We have both done the cheating thing, well maninly me but her big thing was talkin to another guy on the internet and i found out. and i mean talking to him. we have managed ...

What kind of game is he playing?

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20 March 2009 (F) - I mean, seriously, it's so immature! This guy and I have been flirting quite a bit. I'm coming home for Easter which will be the first time we'll see each other in four months (which was also when we were definitely flirting a lot at Christmas). ...

DO men really love their girlfriends or wives if they are capable of treating them like that?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has spat on me, called be a whore, thrown a candle into the bathtub, he has accused me of meeting with someone during the 15 minutes that he was gone and I was sitting in the bathtub before putting on my ...

Is there any hope for us at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm 20 and my boyfriend (babys dad of 2) is 23 and we've both done the cheating and the lying thing in the past but not since we got back together last aug. Me and my boyfriend have a huge trust issue that I wasn't exactly aware about until now. ...

Too little wedding planning and respect. Too much of the ex and also sex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I don't know where to start, but i am pretty much finding myself growing more distant, angry and unhappy with my fiance. I know i love him alot, and when we go out and do things together, its always alot of fun, but i am just not 'feeling it' ...

Her comments about their 'bits' is making me feel self-conscious!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - My g/f keeps telling me about all the blokes 'bits' she sees at work. She is a radiographer so i can see that the medical profession should be used to this but she tells me she has never studied this and that there is no need for them to be naked, ...

He won't take no for an answer, I'd really like to have a man's point of view on this one please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I have had a male friend for a few years now, he`s ten years older than me and married. All he wants to talk about is sex, he`s tried every trick in the book to get his way too. Although I want to stay friends with him I`m not intrested in ...