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Archived questions from: 11 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Co-worker setting me up for failure and I getting quite distressed about it

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11 March 2009 (F) - Hoping for some help here. Often good answers and will appreciate any help offered. Last year I worked with a colleague who claimed to be 'concerned' about me and discussed my job performance to other colleagues. Some friends of mine mentioned she ...

Worried about b/f's conversation with sleazy secretary

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend for lunch and the secretary at his office called.. He said, 'Hello' And I couldn't hear what she said..he didn't move away do much..so that's not the problem. But he said, 'Well how do you want me to answer.' Then you co...

How to tell the truth without being hurtful

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11 March 2009 (M) - I just need some comfimation that the only thing I can do is tell the truth, and whether anyone has any advice on how to give it. I met this girl about a year ago at a charity event and she was really nice and I found out that she lived along way ...

Weight, body issues, my past & jealousy..jumbled up mess!

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11 March 2009 (F) - I'm not really fat, but I do have body issues. I'm 5'5, 138 lbs. I want to drop some 10 lbs though. I want to look perfect. The thing is, lately I haven't been very motivated. I've skipped some workouts. Yesterday I was talking to my boyfriend onl...

Is this normal jealousy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for a long time now, about five years. We've had an awesome relationship which has been happy and intimate and very promising. She's affectionate and tender with me. We spent a lot of time together and had a lot of fun ...

Son tells me my husband has been taking speed

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11 March 2009 (F) - Earlier this week our 13-year-old son told me that my husband had been taking speed. He said that when he took him to his basketball training session at the weekend he offered him these "white pills that make you strong and feel good" whilst in ...

How much porn is too much porn?

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11 March 2009 (F) - How much porn is too much porn?!? I ask this question because I found downloaded porn on my boyfriends computer. I had never used his computer before ( mine was broken). I then saw there were folders full of it, as well as bookmarked pages...

Am I being oversensitive? Am I being really selfish to her?

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11 March 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. First time posting here. Anyway, lets get started... I used to be involved in a long distance relationship. I was with the girl for 2 and a half year. We started going out in high school when she brought me out of a depression (br...

I feel like my life is longer my own. What should I do?

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11 March 2009 (M) - I’ve been with my g/f about 5 months now and I really like and care for her but she keeps saying that she loves me and gets upset when I can’t reciprocate. I want to be able to say it but just know it isn’t true yet. Will this change for me? The tr...

Any chance of getting my ex gf back?

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11 March 2009 (M) - Hey everyone. I was wondering if with my situation I have a chance of getting back with my ex gf? ive been thinking about her alot lately. Anyway, heres my situation, I met her in October of 2008, we seemed to connect really well, and we beg...

My b/f ex keeps updating him on her life. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a few months, we get on very well and are very close but I have a bit of a problem with his ex. It's a bit of a long story so I'll try and put it in a nutshell. His ex and he were together for two years but she ...

My BF is acting weird around me.

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11 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and 1/2. Everything had been going great and we even moved in together for about 9 months. Due to financial reasons I was forced to move back in with my mother and this really hurt his feel...

I need some guidence and please do not judge me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 14 years but my dear husband has been in prison all those years and a bit more. I met my husband before he went in. He was a good person before he got involved with this girl (she passed away in early 90's) that ...

I still feel sick when he sees his text-tress at work! How do I cope?

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11 March 2009 (F) - I have posted a couple of times re my text cheating husband. Although, without going into detail, I am 100% positive all this has stopped and didn't go beyond texting and he always shows me his mobile phone bills now, I still feel sick when he has ...

I want him to know I want more than friendship without scaring him away.

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11 March 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for a few weeks last year but he felt it was too soon for us to begin a relationship so soon after the break up of our long-term relationships with other people. His decision not to move forward with our relationship really hurt me as ...

My g/f went ballistic seeing that I had my ex as a friend on an Internet profile!

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11 March 2009 (M) - About a year and a half ago I ended a relationship with an ex amicably after we both went separate directions in our lives. It was a relationship where we both knew it had a limited life, as she went abroad for a long period and I moved to continue ...

I don't want to be drunk to enjoy sex. Help!

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11 March 2009 (F) - I'm just turning 20 and have been with my partner for a while and I love him dearly. The only problem is I've never had a high sex drive and it seems to be deteriorating. It's not just with my current boyfriend i've had this ever since i was ...

I have chlamydia. How do I tell my boyfriend?

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11 March 2009 (F) - I feel physically ill right now, I just had a medication abortion last week. I got pregnant by my boyfriend of 3 years and we knew we couldn't support a baby. I was off of birth control for only one month when I got pregnant. While I was at Plan...

How can I make a Guy I have slept with on and off for over 5 years to fall in love with me?

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11 March 2009 (F) - I met this guy back when I was 19, we started seeing each other but secretly since he didn't wnat anybody to know that we were together, we were sleeping together for about 8 months, then all of the sudden one day he told me he had a girlfriend, i ...

My new boyfriend with mental illness is frustrating me, should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

11 March 2009 (?) - I met a guy online and have been seeing him for about 3 months now.He is handsome, intelligent, educated and trusted in terms of cheating and I love him so much. I however feel frustrated in the relationship becauses : 1. He is sometimes distant ...

Why did he tell me he had a date with someone from a dating website?

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11 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months. We are very close, talk every day and are intimate, although we have not had sex. He told me early on that he had a dating profile on a website. I have been trying to deal with this fact since he told...

I don't want to be made out as the bad guy to his friends

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11 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Need some advice. My fiance and i have been 2gether for 3years. Recently things have got really bad. All he does is smoke weed and not seem to have much of a future. Im 21 and he's 34. Friends of ours are getting married in a few...

Am I bisexual?

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11 March 2009 (F) - Hi guys, So, one night i was out with my fiance and we bumped into our gym crew in a club. My fiance was so drunk that night i was really embarrassed and let him do his own thing. My gym instructor (who's female) was stood in the corner moving to...

Can't get my ex LDR bf out ouf my head! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I had a long distance relationship with a guy whom i have never met. We are chatting for the last 4 year. He promised to marry me and showed me many dreams. I trusted him so much. Everyday i spent 6 to 7 hours chatting with him. He always showed me t...

Resentment over porn & no sex, how to get over it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I'm so angry with my boyfriend. He hasn't approached me for sex for months but I know he's yanking it to porn and men's magazines. I'm sure he doesn't have a porn addiction, more so a preference. I'm guessing self love is easier because he doesn...

Where do I get the strength to leave this woman?

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11 March 2009 (F) - im in love with this woman in my group. we fell for each other the first day we met but she's not ready to have a relationship with me because she has a bf of 5 years. after 2 years of flirting and showing love and care for each other, she's now ...

Did he say he loves me?

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11 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my lovely boyfriend for a little while now, and the other night.. I think he may have said that he loved me, but I really dont know if he did or not and now im scared that if he did say that, that he wont say it again due to my lack ...

My partner is abusive both physically & emotionally..trapped!

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11 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I am a 33 with 3 children and with my partner for 19 years. The problem is my partner has always been very quick tempered. I could handle it but it is starting to boil over on to our 14 year old daughter.The other night he came home fro...

I am trying to write her an email but don't know what to say

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11 March 2009 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for a long time now and untill recently we were close now all we seem to do is fall out over silly things. I know she cares for me as a friend but recently each time I have suggested meeting up she is always to b...

I'm dating a girl but really confused about my sexuality

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11 March 2009 (M) - I was here last year, and now I'm back coz I really have this big problem. In my previous questions, I have confessed my identity question if i am a "gay" or merely bisexual. And i have made a big mistake in my life of engaging myself in a hete...

How does a guy know when a lady claims she is in love with him?

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11 March 2009 (M) - How do a guy know when a lady claims she is in love him and wat trick wil d guy use 2 proof her. Cos one of my g.fs is claiming she doesent sleep at nite bcos of me which i doubt....

Will he leave me if we have a child together?

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11 March 2009 (F) - Im months away from being 30 and for the last two years I've been wanting a baby. I already have 2 girls ages 10 and 12 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 yrs.Ive talked to my boyfriend and he seems to not have a problem with me havi...

Is this a case of bipolar love ??

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11 March 2009 (F) - huuuuuhh.... ok. Here I go. ---IT’S TOO LONG SO IF U DON’T WANT TO, DON’T READ IT 2 years ago, i met this guy i'll call Jm who asked me for $ and then dissapeared. So I forgot about his name and about his existence. He also gave it back to me la...

19 year old girlfriend and her frequent visits to Bars... :(

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11 March 2009 (M) - Ok, I am 18 years old. i have met a beautiful girl, who means everything to me. I love her personality, the way she smiles, and the way she laughes. everything about her is inviting. I met her 6 months ago. We werent offcially going out, but we w...

He treats me like shit but I'm head over heels for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - All right, where to start..? I guess first off let me start by saying I am crazy about him and don’t want to loose him… My man and I have been going out for a half a year now, but he still doesn’t consider me his girlfriend. He told me from the begi...

He just cheated for the 2nd time

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11 March 2009 (F) - You may remember me, my husband is cheating on me for the 2nd time. Well he went to the courts and retrieved the divorce papers that I filed and had the clerk to shred them. He says he really want to work it out and that we will go to marrige ...

Gmail snoop

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11 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for about a year now. We started out as roommates and are still living together. I now have a decent job over here, that I don't want to give up and plus I still have very strong feelings for him. The relati...