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Archived questions from: 29 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He said he loves both of us and won't leave her for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I been talking to this guy for a year. We dated briefly and after we broke up, we stopped talking for about a month. Well in that month he started talking to this other girl and they started dating. Well when me and him started talking again, he ...

How to reach out to fling/friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - To make a long story short I met a girl through a guy friend of ours a few months ago. We all have only been friends since about Sept 08. We started hooking up on a regular basis back in Jan 09 for about a month and then I believe that she thought I ...

How can I let her see that I am NOT like her ex and would never hurt her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend's EX used to hit her whenever he was drunk, and she was very scared of him. I'd heard that he abused he sexually as well, but she won't talk about it so I'm not so sure. When we met she was on antidepressants, and hadn't been with ...

My boyfriend has stopped talking about it but I cant seem to drop it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Im a bit stuck... Ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over 10 months and things have been amazing! we've been so close and I really do love him. But about a year before he went out with me he broke up with this girl that he ...

She's become cold and distant and I don't understand why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Last 4th of July i met a girl and asked her out. She said yes! Everything was great! She was sweet, I felt Loved, and i made sure she felt loved. It was kinda a long distance relationship, but about Thanksgiving, by some miracle, I moved closer to ...

I don't know if I can trust him again, even though I love him as a brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - i dont know if im overreacting or taking this too seriously or anything but after and incident last year i've become extremely jealous... weel it's because last year i was with a girl, and our relationship was great, but she ruined it by cheating...

Any connection we used to have seems to be gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - hey guys ive been with my bf for 6 months now and i think its falling apart so if you have any advice please help! for the past month hes been really depressed and paid me no attention. I think some of the feelings i have for him in that time lef...

HE acted as if I was invisible.

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29 March 2009 (F) - Hoping people can help here and will appreciate any feedback. I was at a party last night and my ex, who I have not seen in six months was there. things and When I walked in the door and said hi, he just looked away. He went out of his way to get ...

My girlfriend and porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend looks at porn and it annoys the heck out of me. I don't think it would annoy me if she was more open about it (I.E. watch it with me), but she is very closed minded when it comes to it. I've also noticed when she looks at porn, w...

I found out that he's telling other girls that he is single

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy 3 years ago and everything was great. We loved each other's company, so after 1 year we decided to move in together. Everything was good in the beginning, he would cook, clean make breakfast, and cuddle everynight. Th...

My boyfriend doesn't touch me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend dont like to be touched. what do i do? he dosnt even like to talk to me i been asking questions then talking. he makes noises when i talk or touch him. what do i do?...

Can he know about my past sex relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i had sex with my four or five time but i am getting married to another man.so can he know about my past sex relationship? ...

I don't know what to do anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - 2 years and my boyfrienddosnt talk to me anymore and we dont go out but he gos to strip clubs with his co workers. but he tells me we are fine....

Should I stop sleeping with him until he commits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (?) - I have been seeing this man for 3 months and he says he wants to be with me but he's scared. What does that mean? We are in the getting to know each other stage I suppose, not officially dating. Is there anything I can do to make him not scar...

I am finding it so hard to move forward.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I moved to the USA 9 years ago. I married an American. We have had the usual ups and downs but apparently now he wants to call it a day. He has gone up North to his family and I am left here with my 15 year old son from a previous marriag...

His past relationship is hurting our future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - he thinks im hanging out with another guy, im not he is the only man in my life. how can i assure him of that?...

Should I move on or wait for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - ok so couple nights ago her ex boyfriend sister message my girlfriend (S) on myspace asking for her cell number. and she give it to her. so she text her saying that her ex boyfriend wanted to date her again. then next day S and me hanged out pret...

I trusted him then but I don't now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I just got in a relationship in jan.. he went away to go to college in early feb so i was thinking to my self should i stay in this relationship.... i also asked him did he want to stay in this relationship and he kind of got mad saying his is on h...

I think I'm afraid to orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I think i'm afraid of sex. And by that I mean i'm afraid to orgasm. I know it's supposed to be this awesome feeling but i can't bring myself to experience it. I have a boyfriend, and i love him very much and am very attracted to him but every time ...

My girlfriend won't stop mentioning her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my gf for about 10 months now, and everything is going good, but she keeps bringing up her ex all the time, she keeps talking about things they used to do, and how he acted and stuff, but the one thing that threw me off ...

I know he truly cared/loved me and I messed it all up and I don't know why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My bf broke up with me a few weeks ago we were together for 6 month. I am to blame, I was moody, miserable and angry. I thought I was acting like this because of the stress of work, new pill etc. Anyway we were seeing each other every week still. He ...

What did he mean exactly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - What did this mean...? Right well background information - there's a guy that me and my mates always thought liked me because he stared at me a lot and he really showed it, then when asked about it by someone he denyed it but the way he said it ...

Sister in law is teasing and flirting, what's actually going on in her head?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I need an answer please! My sister in law has been flirting with me and teasing me since me and her younger sister were engaged, she is 7 years older than my wife. She oftenly sends signs with her sister that I only understand, she makes erotic m...

I love him very much, but he is breaking my heart, and using me as a doormat when he needs a babysitter.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I was married to my husband February 14, 2005 and we have been married 4 years. I have been dating him since 2000. His son is now 12 years old and has become a menace to my life. My husband was dating a women before our relationship to whom he had a ...

Tips on how to keep my relationship fresh, please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I need a bit of advice as to how to keep my relationship fresh. I have been seeing wonderful man for two years now, we see each other for one or two days a week and it seems to have fallen into that routine where the excitement is going. Litt...

Told my best friend I liked him to be told GUTTED!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i've liked my best friend for about a year now and last night we all went out. I realised i left my phone in the car so my friend lets call him mike and i went to the car. On the way he randomly mentioned a text that i sent him years ago tell...

Do things fall out of place so better things can fall into place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I after a while broke up. I was great to her, we had a very great relationship and we never fought and we always had a ton of fun while hanging out. We broke up and decided to take a week space from each other to help figure t...

What do I when he changes to be cold hearted and doesn't care anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i've been in this relationship for 2 years and my boyfriend and are now common-laws we live together and we have 3 cats. he just turned 21 and i'm going on 22, he changed 3 days after his birthday it went on for 2 weeks and after that he was fine...

Help! My boyfriend has a low sex drive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi Friends~ My bf, 33yrs old, and I, 26yrs old, have been dating for 6 months now. On our second date he told me that 3 months prior he had dated this girl for 2 weeks and after he broke things off with her she came to him 2 weeks later and ...

Why do guys get all two faced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Why do guys get all two faced? Like why do they talk to there guy friends an say one thing an then to there girlfriends they all nice? For example my boyfriend had said to his guy friend that he doesn't no if he wants a serious gf an all this stu...

I am tired of being lonely and played by dating! What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey I am 27 year old, attractive female. I do not have any family or too many friends in the place i live right now (the whole state - actually the whole country). Its depressing, hard and lonely life I live at times. Lately I have been gettin...

Coach acts creepy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - So I'm currently playing a sport at school and I'm starting to get worried about how my coach treats me at times. Here are some of the 'weird' things he has done and continues to do: He'll randomly repeat my name and pretend that he's loo...

Ultimatum: Answer tonight or done forever

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now. For the past year it has all been long distance and it has definitely been trying. We have visited each other a few times during the past year, though. Anyway... We keep going through ...

Maybe I went too slowly and pushed him into the arms of a hooker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I am in my 40's and only really started dating after my mother past away some 5 years ago. Well 3 years ago I met a guy but wanted to take things slowly since I had a constant fear of someone coming in and taking half my house. Anyway, I went around ...

We keep fighting about my past and my b/f's "lack of trust"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I am seriously involved with a guy now and it has been going on for 2 years. I was in quite a few relationships before which ended badly. I did not speak about them when me and my boyfriend started seeing each other initially. At one point I told ...

LDR and I have so many doubts about his love for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I wish you could all give me a little advice, and tell me what you think. I am 30 years old and I've been in a LDR for about 4 years. My bf and I have been through some really ups and down. We have had fight about the distance, trust, dishonesty, ...

I asked my b/f to marry me and he said "I don't know"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i feel as though i may have made the worst mistake in my life. i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year and i have never felt the way i do with him with anyone else and i have a ton of exboyfriends. i asked him to marry be because i ...

Too much pressure on my b/f to help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - im 16 and have been having problems at home with my mum and i usually talk to my boyfriend about it but im worried im putting to much pressure on him to be there for me. because about 4 hours ago i had an argument with my mum and she walked out of ...