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Archived questions from: 21 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Any suggestions for us being civil to each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'm in a bit of a bad situation here. Well my boyfriend and I share an apt I'm 7 months pregnant and our relationship has just gone to shit. He hasn't helped me with any of the prenatal care etc. I lost my job as a bartender because of the pregnancy ...

Why is he starting to lie to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - hi i have been in a relationship for 4 years now my other half and i have 2 babies together. we have been happily in love for most of the 4 years besides recently. i have been catching him in lies. some serious and some just immature. im trying to ...

I've called the wedding off because of his ex! Help me, I'm going insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'll start by telling you that I was meant to marry him on Thursday! All this happened the day before. We're both students and he lives in university halls. We have known each other for 3 nearly four years and been dating for 2 years. Now so...

I cheated on my abusive boyfriend. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I still love my bf very much. It has been a month that I stay clean. I realize what I was doing was so wrong. How to show my bf that I am really sorry and will not do it again? My bf wants to date other women. How to deal with it? I got jealou...

I feel that she is using me and will not leave me alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - Hello, This is not a romantic question, but it is bothering me. Some time ago I met a girl at my current institute (both of us are freshmen) and we became more or less friendly. Some time later, she and her friends invited me to move in with them ...

Help needed please. I want to break up with my boyfriend but not sure how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I don't think I love him any more, at least I'm not in love with him any more. I recently met another guy and we went out as just friends but he's told me he likes me and I've said the same to him a...

Bored with Marriage!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I really do not know where to start.. Some of the questions asked seem "all to familiar". My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years. We have 4 children total, all under the age of 11. Two from previous marriages and our youngest 3 and ...

Why do I always feel empty without a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Hey all. Since the age of 15 I've always always had a boyfriend. I've only ever split up with one if there's another one that I like waiting, as I feel panicky when I'm single. Sometimes I get hurt, but as I'm fairly nice looking (I know how that ...

My boyfriend is such a drama queen.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is such a drama queen. He blows minor things into major problems and then starts a cat and mouse game where he runs and hides. He is 51 years old. His behaviour is so childish. We do love each other but I am not sure I can continue ...

Why is my life so depressing? Is it a curse?

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21 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in need a your sound advice on what to do... I am so depressed now. I am in a relationship for 8 years now the guy never shows me he loves me, we live together and all he ever need from me is just sex and someone to take care of ...

My one night stand 8 years ago my wife has finally dealt with. How do I now tell her a child resulted from it???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - Eight years ago I met my current wife, 3 months into our relationship I had a one night stand, she found out and broke up with me. Then we got back together, it took her many years to forgive and forget about it. This past week I received a call ...

Will my parents ever forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Just a little backgroud if you didn't read my first question. My fiance cheated on my 3 weeks ago on a all guys trip. He told me right away and I forgave him. Our wedding is May 1. A few days ago one of his great friends posted pics of their trip ...

Am I mentally psycho???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'm 22 and I sometimes have Panic attacks, it started off last November when I found out that my boyfriend has expressed his feeling to one of his co-workers. We are still together, when I ask him why he did something like that he told me that he ...

We used to be so happy together. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years and a month. He left his wife about 3 years ago and moved back home. We got together after that and he is going through the divorce. She lives in another state. I'm confused on why he won't ask ...

My imagination is going wild thinking about things he's doing behind my back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. We're both currently studying and taking the same course. Just last month, I found out he was cheating on me. I found his messages to the girl on his phone. When I confronted him, he admitted ...

Do you think he's just scared and will come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 4 months pregnant with my ex's baby we had been together 4 years and this was planned. We started going through a rocky period recently, during this time my ex slept with someone else and ended up finishing with me for her. I got in touch ...

I don't want to lose a good friend just because my girlfriend tells me to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I have a situation that is becoming problematic. See, I have this friend, we'll call her Sophie. Anyway, Sophie is a good friend, we get on very well, she is funny and interesting and intelligent, and she really doesn't like my girlfriend, Laura. ...

Wife's nude pictures!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - My wife of 16 years was cleaning out the basement and she found some old family pictures. I joking asked if she found the nude photos and she says "I don't know where those are or if I even have them any more"! My heart almost jumped out of my ...

How can I get sole custody without making this uglier and more stressful on me than it already is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I've been in a very physically verbally emotionally abusive relationship on and off for 5 years. Recently I had enough when he beat me in front of our 1 year old and I'm pregnant... my mother called the police and my 7 year old was there, at first I ...

I feel emotionally raped! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been in love with a girl for the last three years actually she proposed to me and I clear every thing to her straight forward and everything is smooth after getting in the relationship. The last seven months we have had sex a ...

Should I forget ever had a sister to stop the conflict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - A while ago i had posted that my sis phoned me in tears to tell me that her so called 'man' said he wouldnt mind a threesome with me and her. Some guys came back and said it aint a big deal, the thing is its put a strain on my relationship my boyfr...

2 Problems! Girlfriend stopped wanting sex and also started smoking behind my back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - This is going to be kind of long but I am a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend (18 going on 19) of 2 years and I are going on a break and i have 2 big problems. Before i tell you what recently happend I'm going to tell you our relationship before ...

What advice can I give him, and how can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. After we broke up my ex slept with a few girls, as an attempt to get over me. He admitted to me that it didnt work, and he still loves me. Last night I found out he got one of the one-night-stand girls pr...

I defended her, now she dumps me. WTH?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - Ok so me and my girlfriend an som other friends were hanging out. and my girlfriend was messing around playin with one of my other friends, and somthing hapened im not sure what but he ended up hiting her hard. i got up and hit him so hard tha my h...

Should I let him go or try and see if there are any feelings left?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I need lots of advice. I am married with 3 kids. I have always thought about my ex. He is also married with kids. I have dreamed about him and how we will get together again. But the other day during marriage therapy I figured out that my dream ...

Should I stay with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - well its about my girlfriend, she has a hard time expressing her feelings, we talk but have a different sense of humor, i cant ask a serious question without getting a “your mom” joke, and i dont really understand her cause her mom doesnt let us ...

Being apart hurts all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man who was is still is my soulmate. He is the only person that has ever understood me, he is the only man i have every loved. The problem: he is black, I am white. This caused a huge problem as my parents said they ...

Getting over someone I never wanted to be in love with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - Hey you all know i ama gay guy and i am in total love with one of my straight friends Okay the situation, which i thought was getting better, was actually getting much worse. okay so i think im in love with one of my friends but the problem is t...

Accused of being someone else, should I still meet this person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - If you have been chatting to someone online that you met on an online dating site. Chatting has gone well for many weeks, but then they accuse you of not being you - that you are someone they know pretending to be this fake person, what would you ...

I'm stuck in an abusive relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - So,confused..just left my boyfriend of 4yrs because I just found out he cheated on me for the 3rd time. He said the reason he did that was because I had a lot to do with it,being that I moved out from his apartment and into mine..kept on breakin up ...

Some confidence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'm 28 and have no confidence or self esteem. I know I'm ugly and it's obvious by the way guys look at me I'm disgusting. How can I get some confidence to make myself feel better...