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anonymous
writes: Today my boyfriend was talking to his friends and they were talking about me and saying how much of a baby I am and then he was talking about our sex life and stuff like that and my boyfriend was just sitting there and laughing and thinking that it was funny to make fun of me with them! I feel that this is so disrespectful of him to just sit there and watch them make fun of me and for him to join in on it! We are all in college and I feel that they are being very immature, but my boyfriend is saying he wasn't disrespecting me. Is this disrespect or am I just over reacting?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): The guy belongs with his loser friends that don't have girlfriends because he certainly does not know how to treat one or keep one.
I would think seriously about throwing this one back in the water.
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reader, DreamQueen401 +, writes (25 March 2009):
Well, obviously... That-Was-So-Disrespectful!!!! Any guy who goes along with it, and Any guys who don't say or do anything about it when his friends says and does stuff like that...Are jerks...as well as their friends! so imature, they need to grow up and get a life!
It might be hard to break up with someone that they could have probally loved, but THAT-WAS-SO...Disrepectful... I don't care what he said, he just said it wasn't, because he just wanted to save his face from the sittuation and stuff...
If any guy did that to me, I wouldn't broke up with him th first time he did that, No matter who was there!
Because THAT-WAS-SO-DISRESPECTFUL!
Have a good day!
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Signed,
Mary
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys! And it just hurts me even more because i talked to him a while ago about this kind of thing and said i dont feel comfortable with people knowing about our sex life because its something thats between us and its private and the whole world dosent have to know! Ans he said okay..but then he went and did it anyway!
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reader, answeringmachine +, writes (25 March 2009):
Definitely it's disrespect, completely. Tell him to quit it because no one deserves to be treated like that, especially not by a boyfriend/girlfriend. It's also rather rude to make private things (sex life) public and make fun of anyone for anything like that. I hope he straightens up.
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reader, Confined +, writes (25 March 2009):
That is disrespectful and tell him to cut the shit and say I love you but if you wanna make fun of me when it comes to sex then we won't do it with him see how he likes them apples oh and say fuck your friends see if there any better LOL dnt say that stick to the first part
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reader, Ask JenniHearts +, writes (25 March 2009):
no that was rude and disrespectful! how dare he.. confront him and tell him that is not i repeat NOT OK!!!
hope this helps
Jenni hearts
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