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Archived questions from: 13 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My best friends ex wants me what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - Hi, This girl just broke up with my best friend now she is calling me frequently that i should visìt her and to buy something for her while coming. I tried to avoid her but she kept persuading me to come and visit her she îs staying alone. ...

No confidence! Don't know how to meet people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - Hi folks, I am stuck in a bit of a rut. My belief in my ability to find a relationship. I used to believe the main issue was being overweight. But I realise whilst it might be a factor, it isn't the single thing that prevents me from finding so...

Help us loose our virginity without the agony!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - Im a 30yr old virgin male and in almost 6yr dating with a female virgin. All the time we try to have sex is like passing through hell for both of us, without any penetration, she always complains of hurting and pain. Please advice us what shall we...

He wants to "take a 2nd break", the 1st time he cheated. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - My bf of 2 1/2yrs said yesterday that we need to "take a break". We had been arguing alot lately, and I was annoyed with his immature/baby behaviour (he's almost 26 years old btw) and he was annoyed with how I am apparently not "girly enough" ...

I'm feeling insecure and in a bad relationship, help me please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. This is my first time writing to a computer and letting out my feelings that i have, im not sure where to start so here it goes. Im 40 years old, i have children and my husband has children from 3 other women and we have 2 toget...

Should I feel guilty for sleeping with him whilst living with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - I just barely broke up with my boyfriend and we're still living together because he has no where to go. I've known i wanted to break up with him for quite a while but didnt know how and another guy ended up coming into the picture... Ill try to ...

My boyfriend has trust issues....is he hiding something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - OKAY! i dont know if this is okay or not,ive been dating my bf for 6 months now and he has no trust for me, he tells me all the time how he doesnt trust me to go to my friends cuz they smoke weed and drink but they dont make me do it although i do ...

My g/f wants me to wear her ring but I don't want commitments!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - my girlfriend wants me to wear her ring. she loves me a lot .i dont want any committments or bondings as of now but i cant refuse her obviously because that will hurt her a lot. can i wear the ring just as a gift? also on which finger should i wear ...

My ex bf wants to be friends with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - My ex bf wants to be friends with me. I dont know if its a good idea or not. I broke up with him because he was abusive. I still care for him alot, infact I still love him, but I dont know if I can be frineds with him. I dont feel I can trust him,...

Why does my ex want to be my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - I can't grasp the rationale behind why my ex would want to be my friend? And I've heard the stories about the using and the control and the not wanting me to be with other people, but seriously, and I'm asking women this more than men I think, what ...

Will they get a Fairytale ending?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - My fiance and I just broke up after a 2 year relationship. The cause of the break-up is the obvious-THE EX with kids. I find this is a rebound on the basis that they were together for 20 yrs when they split. Their relationship was very rocky, had a ...

Question for the guys: how can I help my boyfriend 's erectile problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - For the last 12m, my bf of 8 yrs (who I live with) has had problems maintaining an erection. We had some financial problems, and I found out he'd been flirting with a woman from work, posting himself on 'adult dating' websites and send...

I don't want my boyfriend to get bored of me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - I really don't want my boyfriend to get bored of me. We've been seeing each other for a few months, and we have sex on a regular basis, but I refuse to give or receive oral sex. I don't know why, but it really is a big turn off for me, and ther...

My ex is gay and he is going through a difficult time. Should I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - Hi Need some advice I found out (because i was being nosey and looking where I shouldn't have been) that my ex the father of my child is gay. He has been seeing someone for 2 yrs and I didn't know! Our child spends time with them both and constan...

I don't think I like my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid i am 25 year old and i just got into my very first relationship. we been together for 8 month now. i should be happy, but im not. i am kinda in this situation like in the movie "i think i love my wife" 2007 by chris rock. if you...

I lost my temper, she ended things..I want her back!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - I recently realized how bad my temper can be. I have a very short fuse and I blow up. I came to realize this when I scared the girl I wanted to propose to, the love of my life. I didn't harm her in any way, or touch her in any aggressive way. I was ...

Online boyfriend being pushed into an arranged marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - Hey im a young girl 18 yrs old n a student, never had a boyfriend but found one over the internet chatting last year.He is 25 and a working guy. I met him through chatting n added him in messenger. We chat often, day by day we become closer.After ...

My boyfriend checks out other women all the time, how can I get him to stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - my boyf is constantly pointing out the hotness of other women. at first when we met i laughed it off but it's really starting to hurt my feelings. i'm not an especially jealous person, i dont care about him saying some actress is hot or anything but ...

I hate adult friend finder

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and a half and last year he have me his email and pw so I could go and fix something for him, so while I was on his email i came across this adult friend finder thing and I went to his page ...

My guy threatens and accuses me of cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - I am losing my mind. My boyfriend accuses me of cheating on him on a daily basis. This has been happening for the past 9 months or so and I am really at a loss for what I can do at this point. The first few months I was patient and reassuring and ...

How can I ignore these feelings towards my friend and continue with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (?) - So, I have a boyfriend named *Joe and he is absoutley perfect. We've been going out for a long time and he's a dream come true. He does everything for me and treats me like a princess. I'm truly in love with him and I can see myself spending the ...

Tormented woman needs coaching

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - Can someone help me think of the right words to say now that I have decided to take a painful step? I have known a man through work for a little more than a year now. From the moment we met I felt that unbelievable chemistry you always hear about, ...