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I feel guilty about my past and I'm afraid I wont find anyone in the future who will accept me!

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Question - (16 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a 16 year gal...I'm really finding it difficult to forget my past..here goes the story { In brief}

I was in this relationship for about 13 months..After a long emotional drama..Fights..misunderstandings..Problems of insecurity..

We've called it an end..Its been a month now..Last year the same thing happened..but after tat we patched up...No hope that any

thing is gonna happen..I don't hope so too!! but I've a problem..When we were in a relationship there was a physical

relationship between the two of us!!I've been i bed with him..I mean he was clothed..he kissed me..its been a month now..

he hasn't texted nor got in touch..nor have i...The only thing tat taunts me is in future will i find someone who'll accept me??

I cry every time..cuz i still have feelings..I try my best to overcome those..I have forgiven myself and everything that had happened..

and decided to learn from my mistakes and move on..I keep myself busy..But still somewhere something stills keeps giving me

a feeling of my past and keeps making me feel guilty..what am i supposed to do??!! plz help!!i know i've done a big mistake and keep

repenting it all my life..how can i forget him??

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntu wont forget this so easily.

it will take some time before u heal from the pain.

sometimes life throws things our way to test our character, dont feel bad, u have repented and accept that u have forgiven yourself.

now just concentrate on feeling a little good each day, in time u will find u will get over all this.

good luck!

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A male reader, Your friend Australia +, writes (16 July 2009):

Your friend agony auntSomeone will find you and love you more than you could ever imagine, your past will have no bearing on this relationship and the incident will be as if it never happened.

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