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Did he take advantage of me?

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Question - (16 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *fogalilly writes:

Almost a month ago I had a one night fling with this guy we will call him "M", well we talked over the phone about our "fling" we both agreed that things would go back to the way they were between us. Well, last Saturday he just calls me out of the blue needing my help, he called my cell and left a voice message asking me to call him back, so I called him and he asked if he could borrow some money, and of course me being the nice person I am will always help a friend in need. So I went to his Apt. and took him some money, he was on the phone talking to someone when I arrived, but we went to get gas and ate lunch he ordered for me which was odd, then went to Radio shack, when we left the store I asked him if he needed to buy other supplies, and then he came out and said he had lied to me, so I asked why, well it turns out he did have money and that he was going to use it to buy mushrooms for he and his friends. I replied by saying you could have been honest with me and I still would've helped you out. I just don't think I would ever want a relationship with this guy, maybe a little fun but not a relationship, I have always been told that I am one of the most laid back people alive, and he is always telling me to calm down. I don't like how he makes me feel either, compared to him I feel stupid and afraid to be myself around him. He once called me a sweetheart, because I gave he and his friend a ride to a party. He is fun to talk with sometimes, but at times he makes me feel like an idiot.

He still has no idea what happened that night either, and I did not even approach the subject.

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A female reader, ffogalilly United States +, writes (16 July 2009):

ffogalilly is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I think both of you are right, he did take advantage of me. He paid me back, but he was not honest with me in the first place.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (16 July 2009):

Honeypie agony auntHe seems like a guy you need to jsut stay away from. Just because the two of you slept together once doesn't mean you owe him anything.

Let him go.

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