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writes:Firstly I'd like to thank everyone who's helped me in the past, your help is much appreciated.I've been seeing a guy not exclusively for a while now (almost 4 months), but for the past month he's been contacting me less and less, although he's told me he's got feelings for me, which he didn't have in the 1st place (he got out of a 3 and a half year relationship a month before we met and wasn't looking for anything) I get the feeling though that something is up. Recently he's forgot to text me backa few times, and he'll apologise after. It's gotten to the point where I'm barely texting him and he's barely texting me. Right now, I feel like I'm emotionally in debt. we have plans soon (arranged by me) but I'm wondering whether cancelling on him would be a good idea? whether it would make him realise im not always around? or whether it would push him away even further?What should I do please?I want as many opinions as possible
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 Maybe the opposite is true? "I've been seeing a guy not exclusively". Does this mean your seeing other guys? That would sure make me uncomfortable about getting involved. The best solution to any problem is communication.Talk to him.Tell him how you feel,and what you want.Find out what he thinks.Ask anything that is on your mind.If you talk to him you may discover he has the answers you need.
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