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51-59,
*hort tinorio
writes:i have this sexually fantasy of doing it with my wife's only and youngest sister. she's not pretty. dark, thin, small breasted and all but i am really turned on when i think of having sex with her. i texted her anonymously but she's very bright she kew it was me. when i texted that i wanted to fuck her, she got very very mad, really abhoring me saying she wanna puke with everything i said. good thing she did not tell my wife (i hope) but she's no longer talking to me. Please advise me.
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reader, duce00  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 I think you need a time out.
No more phone privileges either.
Go sit in the corner for a while and think about what you have done young man.
Treating you in an age appropriate manor seems the most appropriate in your case because any "adult" advice is probably a waste of breath.
Time to start becoming a man now wouldn't you say?
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Shame on you. You don't just ask your sister in law to have sex with you, just because you want to. What kind of thinking is this, are you 15 or something? Wrong, wrong!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Text her father about your interest next time. He may have some good words of wisdom for you.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 I would advise you to get some professional help...it seems you have no morals or even the smallest idea of where the boundaries lie within relationships. It is despicable behaviour and shows you have utter lack of respect for your wife, her sister and yourself.
Ouite simply you should feel shame and should be busily working out a way to save your marriage...and as for your wifes sister, you should never speak to her or contact her again...women have very long memories and unless you start behaving like a regular human being, what you have done may very well come back and take a large chunk out of your a** ( we live in hope )
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Oh, and how could I forget to ask the obvious? Did you do this thing when you were drunk? If so, then you go seek help for your alcohol problem, and then you can tell your wife and her sister that it was the alcohol that caused you to do this, that you are seeking help and that you will not drink anymore with help from your treatment. Then stick to your word, show that you do have a sense of honor and are contrite for allowing yourself to lose control in this way.
Take care.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (15 December 2009):
WTF did you think she was going to say to her sister's husband?! I suggest you send a txt and say "I am very sorry, I wasn't thinking and I'm a stupid idiot. It will never happen again". Then let it go. If I didn't get an apology I would definitely tell my sister. She might tell someone else in the family too who has more guts to tell your wife so apologise and ofcourse don't sign your name. Even a whore would be disgusted by getting that kind of message without her seeking such attention in the first place.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 December 2009):
My advice is to never text her again, keep your fantasies to yourself and recognize what consequences actions bring. Indicate by your actions that you will NEVER proposition your sister-in-law again; you will forever be suspect in her mind and if she said she wanted to puke, believe her, that's a revolting thing you did. Apologize if you have an opportunity, a sincere one only, if you just say some words but don't mean it, don't bother, she'll know.
I agree with CaringGuy that it appears your marriage needs some work and that is what you should be devoting your energies to. You're not the first to fantasize but you overstepped the mark when you actually acted on them. It's what a child would do; are you a man or a child? Time to decide and time to grow up.
See your doctor to make sure you are physically okay and that there isn't something wrong with you that would make you do such a stupid thing. Perhaps you have a brain tumor or a hormonal imbalance? If you lack impulse control, your other option is to see a psychiatrist or psychologist for some work there as well.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): You need to stop fantasizing about anyone other than your wife. Your sister-in-law did the right thing. What you did was wrong, with any woman, but your wife's sister? What were you thinking? You obviously have some unresolved sexual issues with your wife or in general. You need to figure out what they are and have a chat with your wife.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 December 2009):
Your wife's sister did the right thing. My advice is to really look at your marriage and work hard at it, because that matters more.
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