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anonymous
writes:i have been seeing a man for a while now, he is an alcoholic who is on and off the wagon. we have had a few problems with him stealing from anyone including myself, when he has done this he admits it when i question him, he was on probation for something else and got caught stealing and sentanced to prison two weeks ago, i said i would be here when he returned to keep his spirtits up, but really wanted out, as do not trust this man and was going to tell him when he was relaeased.anyway last week i relised all my jewellery is missing from my home, and i wrote to him asking where it is, he called admitting the theft and told me i could find it in pawn shop, i went with police to get it back, but he has not been honest, its not there. he called again and i asked for a letter in the name its in, and i confronted him saying was not there, he hung up phone or got cut off from prison phone.i am now helping police with investigation but have no concrete proof just a phone call, can anyone answer the question why would he admit to me and then lie about where it is, knowing i would find out it was there. as far as he is concerned the relationship was not over and i have had love letters from him the day before he found out i knew. why didnt he just say it was not him
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): He has tried to ease part of his conscience by telling you half the story but not the information that will get him in trouble. I think you have put up with enough. I would remove yourself from this situation and ensure you don't attract criminals into your personal life again.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 December 2009):
If he was stealing to fund a habit then he was probably so off his face that he has no idea where it's gone.
If you don't want to be with him then dump him. I think it's fair enough to say you can't forgive everything he's put you through.
Accept your jewellery is gone, dump this man, cut contact and don't put up with addicts in your life in future.
Good Luck!! xx
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