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writes:hi i know i seam to b asking lots but that's only because i've found somewhere to get it off my chest and u guys have helped with the other 2 questions. my third and last thing is to ask should i be jealous of my boy friend and my best mate are meeting up and chillin out all the time should i presume he is cheating on me or are they just good mates i mean they new each other as kids but i only came into the picture about 3yrs ago xxx please help thing is though they tell me when there chillin but i'm never invited i'm bothered but not like omygocshh he's cheating or he dont love me any more xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Yes. When in doubt always assume he is cheating. He probably is cheating somehow, even if it turns out not to be with her. All guys are cheaters. If he don't cheat it is because they just met you or is incapable of attracting competition for you (loser) in which case you should dump him and find a guy good enough for other girls to want to steal from you.
If it turns out that he is not cheating for some strange reason, he will have plenty of time and opportunity to vindicate himself. Which presents you with the perfect opportunity to take advantage of him and get lots of good stuff and attention from him while he's trying to win you back.
As a woman, you should already know most of this by instinct. Do we girls have to tell you the most obvious?
Have a good time putting him in the hot seat!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): No you shouldn't presume he is cheating. Because you have NO proof. Let him be and let them chill out. If they do end up doing something then good riddance.
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