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reader, Beyoncefan01  +, writes (16 December 2009):
Well you cant have love without trust. So if you think she's cheating on you then you need to sit down and have a long talk with her. Tell her why you think shes cheating. And its up to you weather you believe her. But remember if you dont believe her then you dont need to be togehter... But dont accuse her unless you know for sure. Because if you accuse her and yall break up then you find out that she wasnt cheating on you your gonna want her bak and shes not gonna be intrested because you accused her! So just talk to her first and see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009):
If you think she's cheating she probably is.
The only way I found mine was cheating was to check the phone records.Then I pretended to know everything while talking to her best friend.I basically tricked her into spilling the beans.With relief she confirmed it was going on for some time behind my back.
Get the proof if it's true then dump her.
Don't bother with long talks about why it happened,this will only give her a chance to blame you for not loving her enough.Don't give her the closure she will want.
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Find out...and if your right show her the door to the exit! Respect!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 December 2009):
Somehow you have to find evidence. Don't be obvious about it. If you do find evidence, confront her and then decide what you want to do. But you must find evidence before you do anything else.
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reader, Beauty8990 +, writes (15 December 2009):
sound like myself a while ago when i thought my bf was cheating on me .. but the only way is playing it out find some evidence then confront her on it
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Gather up your evidence, decide if you feel you have valid reasons or definate proof to believe she is cheating and then sit down with your girlfreind and let her know what you are thinking and why.
But it might help you to run it through on here why you think she might be cheating, the agony aunts on here certainly give unbiased opinions and may help you to decide what to do for the best before you ask her!!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Find at least some kind of evidence and then confront her.
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