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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:How can I move on when whatever I do he still talks to me?I and my friend/crush have been having some problems. He ignores me and treats his other friends better than me. So I’ve been confused. I already told him that I like him and he acted normal and never shooed me away. But he still is mean to ignore me and my problems. He always acts like a big shot with his friends and classmates. I wish he would treat me like he treats his other friends. I was going to move on and forget about him, which is hard because we have the same shop and I can always hear him. Right when I stopped talking to him on the bus he still talks to me. This kid is obnoxious and really doesn’t know what he wants. He still makes me laugh when we do talk but he never talks to me ever. Just every time on the bus, he never comes to my homeroom anymore or talks to me during lunch or shop. I feel like he chooses when we talk and I don’t like him being in control. I still kind of like him but when he treats me not like his friend I don’t. If I’m mad at him and make a comment that is mean he just smiles and says what did you say. Like what I said about him didn’t hurt him and he’s not taking it seriously. If I told him that he’s an asshole he would still laugh and say that he is one. I don’t know how to give him the hint that this is serious. I wish he would treat me better and be there for me as a friend! Is that to much to ask? He used to be there for me a year ago and text me all the time at night when we first met and I don’t get why that has changed now. I did nothing to him at all to make him change.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Yes.
Never ever try to change a guy.
Get one you like as he is now, because that is how he will be for the rest of his life. Yes women, this means that he will ALWAYS play with his toys and not be able to pick up his clothing and have no clue what a vacuum is for other then to scare the cat.
Don't like it, become a lesbian. You can out PMS each other.
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