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I'm confused! Does he want us to get back together?

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Question - (15 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2009)
A female age 36-40, *edazzled86 writes:

I'm still confused me and my partner split up four months ago we have a child and one due anyday he's really good with our son, we haven't talked about getting back together for a few weeks but the thing that drives me crazy is he still got a tattoo of my name and still has pics of us on face book and one in his car? We have been sleeping together on and off but it got too much, he had paternity leave for this pregnancy but remained up his mothers on stand by he really wants to be there for the birth as time has gone on I feel a bit strange around him he hasn't mentioned he wants yu come back I do want him too but don't want to be the one doing the talking and asking all the time I'm just so confused???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009):

If you dont want to be the one asking him back, try asking him what he wants to do. It sounds as if you love him and he must have strong feelings for you if he still carries pictures of you. Its a shame for the kids sake that you cant resolve your differences, especially as he sounds as if hes a good dad. Just ask him what he wants and hope its the same thing that you want. All the best.

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A female reader, bedazzled86   +, writes (15 December 2009):

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I haven't got that sort of thing round where I live, he does find it hard to talk about things he keeps things to himself dunno why I really love him but can't let this continue he's asked me to spend Christmas with his family but iv rejected that idea as I'm not prepared to play happy families! Maybe he needs a bit more time and then he will talk to me about things but at the moment he's acting weird and ok

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (15 December 2009):

Aunty BimBim agony auntFind somebody who can mediate between you, if you have a Salvation Army nearby contact them, they may be able to help or a social worker attached to your local government.

It sounds like you both want the same thing, but you both need to develop the skills to communicate with each other, and having a mediator, (and some ongoing counselling) can help you develop these skills

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