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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Has he been pressured into breaking up with me because of the age gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got ...

Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he wen...

How can I stop my Husband beating me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ...

Is my boyfriend an expert liar, or worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am confused as to what to do with my boyfriend. He genuinelly acts like he cares about me and that he loves me. He says that every one is always saying that they love someone but they don't mean it, but when he says it he means it. He is marr...

I'd like some suggestions as to how we forget the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a long over a year before we broke up. Things weren't good. When we split up, i was devestated, and rebounded almost immediately with a boyfriend, who treated me like a god. My ex and i began to get in contact again, a...

Please read and advise, is this the kind of person I am or even who I want to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) - I have a problem. I know im going to get all the generic answers of your a bitch who isn't satisfied with your own life so you have to go around messing up other people's etc etc....But Im not like that. Im just a young person who has done things. ...

I'm having huge problems with my cold and withdrawn father! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - hey i dont live with my parents anymore but ive a huge prob with my father and its affected me my whole life. He always lived with us and hes not physically abusive or anything but he is the coldest most withdrawn person. He always expects my mother ...

I now have to work with two people I have previously slept with, how do I keep it cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I'll probably get judged as a complete slapper here (understandable)....but please give me some good advice before judgement. I know, i know....it's my own fault. I'm a student, and done temping work last summer for a great firm. I loved it, and ...

Just wondering if there is anyone out there that has hurt the person that they adore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi my name is Kieron and up intill a month ago i was one of the happyest men youcould meet. But that all changed when my partner told me she was leaving. It all started about a 3 monthes ago i have had some problems with myself due to things in the ...

When do you give up? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Help! I take psych medications for depression and anxiety so I dont always know if I am overreacting to something or getting being too nice and always question myself. So I am please asking for advice I am so angry and hurt! My bf of almost three ...

He hardly talks to me on his own. The relationship is going downhill, as his school results!... What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - HI... I'm sure youi get like a million letters with the same problem as i seem to be havin, but that doesnt change the fact that it makes you feel pretty much miserable. Well.. here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half y...

Pregnant with twins and just found out husband is cheating on me, I really need some help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi im 7 months pregnant with identical twins and have a 2 year old boy aswell i have just found out tht my husbund is cheating on me. And as been doing so for around 9 months. Im heart broken and i cant look at him or touch him he makes me feel sick ...

Would you feel a bit rejected, even though it was first night sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Ok guys, if you had amazing sex after a first date after loads of talking. You sent her lots of messages saying how fantastic it was and you wanted to continue with it. But, the girl suddenly backed down a bit and said she was unsure and confu...

Please Help Me!! Girlfriend wants a break but says she still loves me, still a chance for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Here we go, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over a year and things were great in the beggining. But lately she has had alot to do and is always running around. one of my problems is that i get paranoid to easily and she tells ...

Why do we girls go for the bad boys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

He pursued me for about two months, then virtually overnight he changed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy who is 42. He was very, very into me, and pursued me for about 2 months. He really gained my trust, and I liked him a lot. We started having sex (three weeks ago) and virtually overnight he stopped being on time, ...

My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...

I found gay websites in my boyfriend's computer, should I confront him? Is he gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I found gay websites in my boyfriends computer, should I confront him? My bf is a people person, very friendly and outgoing. We have been dating for a year now, he is 30 years old. A couple months ago I found gay websites on his computer...

My recent BF could be facing jail for a crime committed while drunk. I love him, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Me And my boyfriend have been dating now for 3 months an he could be facing jail soon for a crime he done wen he was drunk.Most of my family hate him but im head over heels in love with him What Should I Do???...

Why doesn't he call me his girlfriend? Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a year and 7 months. We have the same interests (but not too many as to keep the relationship intersting), we talk for hours on the phone, he takes me to special places I've never been before, etc. I've hung out with his ...

I quit my job to be near her but due to health issues, she suddenly "erased" me from her life. Should I wait for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I've known my girlfriend for close to 7 years but we've only been dating for 5 months. She has suffered from depression for a while now and had to move from Miami because of it. We started dating and it was like we had been together for years. Late...

We keep arguing and it's depressing, but if we break up will I ever find anyone else that will love me as much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hi everyone i have a question that makes me think about my relationship with my boyfriend and how long its going to last if this keeps happening. ok me and my boyfriend have been datin for almost 11months and i love him to bits but i believe that...

What is a reasonable deadline to set for him to file for divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Last year I got involved with a man - a good friend of many of my close friends. I didn't date him for several months after I met him because he is still married. His wife was serving a 3 year jail sentence. Eventually I got to know him more, and we ...

We argue, break up, get back together, argue, break up, get back together, argue...you get the idea. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy on and off for six months, we've had our fair share of arguments and we always end it, and i always try to move on but a few days later he texts me saying sorry and i always give him another chance. This has happened a lot, ...

I wonder why my boyfriend is with ME since this girl is more beautiful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - When my boyfriend was at college he met a girl who he became good friends with as they were in the same class, he had to draw her alot for his project as they worked together and I got really jealous of the girl as she was really beautiful, and he ...

I am heartbroken after the break up and my exams are imminent! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we really love eachother. We've been living together and cause fight most of the time over silly things. Infact the phone is the cause of everything. Each time a guy calls me whether just a friend to ...

My boyfriend said he wants space -Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Help. My boyfriend said he wants space i leave him alone for a few days then hes textin me sayin he loves me and all that. But then Says Ill Never Change he thinks im a complete bitch. And Doesnt want me no more. I think Somethings up co...

She wants a break but I only want her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, we are just finishing university now and shes said to me she wants a break. We got together at 18 and are both 21 now, furthermore we were best friends for a year before that. She says to ...

Mum's boyfriend is making my life a misery

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Everything's going a bit wrong here. My mum's new boyfriend has moved in and he's making life a real misery. He mostly ignores me, but if he does talk to me it's only to tell me to fetch a beer from the fridge. When he's been to the pub he's even ...

I sent a text to another guy and now my boyfriend doesn't want me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i recently made our relationship official, but the other day he found text messages on my phone to another guy, though i didnt cheat or meet up with the other guy my boyfriend doesn't think he can trust me. He said he can't be with...

I want commitment. Are our differences too great?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My bf is leaving for another country, which has gotten me all stressed up and I was really afraid to lose him. So I try to pressure him to give me a commitment and I think that got him very frustrated. When he did not even plan to spend his last day ...

Do I love my ex husband? Sex made it worse.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ok this one might be a little tough, but here I go! I been divorced for almost 5 years now. I left him becasue I wasn't ready ( I was only 19), I know yes that was wrong of me. So a week ago he moved back to his hometown, where I'm at also. We w...

Should I walk away again because sorry doesn't seem to work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - This is classic . . and I know you guys here this all the time the girl who fell for the guy . . who never payed any attention blah, blah, blah, Well no SURPRISE I was that girl. I had deep feelings for a friend and I never told him he was always ...

I'm the perfect guy for her, but she thinks she doesn't deserve me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - hey to all.. Im a bit down. Yesterday i asked a question on how to ak a girl out to be my girlfriend.. Well thanks for all the advice i got from my family.. Thats now you guys!!!! Uhm i did ask her out, although i didnt the answer thati wanted but ...

He is unappreciative and seems to call only when he needs me - why do I feel I can be so easily swayed by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ughhh ok I am so frustrated... it honestly is an emotional roller coaster with this guy.. I talked about him earlier and I honestly thought it would be over with him- what with him not calling and all- so last night I get a call from him saying he's ...

Can I really move on from this betrayal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My husband (then 32) and I (then 35) met 5 years ago when he was at a very low point in his life and had recently left his mentally and physically abusive first wife. It really was love at first sight for both of us and we have had what I thought ...

I'm so worried he doesn't really love me now. Is it me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - i am generally a very pesemistic person and ive been with my boyfriend now for a 19 months and i love him to pieces. he has watched me go through a really depressed anti social stage, hes always stayed around when i push him away when im stressed ...

I want him back, but can we make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My ex and I broke up a month ago, which I know is not a long time to let it heal, but the problem is that I don't want to move on and get over him - I want him back! When we broke up he told me it was because he needed time and space to sort ou...

Why is my new husband giving me the cold shoulder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I just got married a few months ago, but things are not going very well. Before marriage my husband talked to me for hours on the phone and would often come and visit me (we lived in 2 different states then). Now he barely speaks to me. We never ...

I lost my job, and my boyfriend is treating me poorly, what can I do!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I moved in with my b/f a couple of years ago,and then recently I lost my job and now I feel very depressed and trapped. My b/f is always criticizing everything I do, always pointing out the negative instead of saying thanks for the many things I do ...

I feel like my boyfriend compares everything I do to all the other girls he's been with...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - i feel like whenever i try to give my boyfriend a blowjob.. i cant live up to the other girls he's been with..considering he's my first i just always feel like im being compared... and i realzie it makes me feel insecure about myself expeciall...

We split up, and he wants to see me again,should I? I'm still in love with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago. We were together about two years and things ended pretty rough. Anyhow now we are both dating other people and I haven't heard from him in about a month, but I got online tonight as he asked if I would like ...

We are very much in love, but we fight constanly, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, i have a question that has bugging me. I love my boyfriend to death, and i'd do anything to see him happy, and that's how he is with me. We get along perfectly, and we are 110% comfortable with each other. We do almost everything toge...

I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...

Why would he get mad over something so stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - ok, so i used to talk to this guy and we just recently. stopped talking. Might i add that i did not do anything wrong, he stopped talkin 2 me two be with someone else and then he called me back..but i felt like i was being used so i told him that i ...

How do I let him know I've changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - What if your boyfriend tells you that you still haven't changed, but you know your self that you have. How do you show him that you have?...

He expects me to cheat..but I'm not going to. Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend seems all to ready to break off our relationship. He is fixing to go on a job and he has been cheated on several times in the past. When he goes on a job he is gone for several days or weeks at a time, I think that he is afraid that I ...

She is 15 and pregnant and says I'm the father!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Im 21 and met this girl things were going fab. We had sex and i thought i fell in love. Then she tells me she is pregnant and im the father and also she is 15!!!!! She told me that she was 18 i still had a problem when she said 18 but i dealt with ...

Is it over exposure that's causing him to not find me attractive anymore? He's looking elsewhere!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a ...