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writes:Here we go, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over a year and things were great in the beggining. But lately she has had alot to do and is always running around. one of my problems is that i get paranoid to easily and she tells me that she hates to go out places and worry about me. Well finally we talked and she told me she wanted a break because she doesnt want a relationship at the moment. But still she insist that im her guy and that she will not love nobody else. She says she still loves me but says its different now so she wants a break. I dont know what to do? Is there still a chance for her to regain those feelings she once had for me? I love her so much it drives me crazy. I dont know what to do without her. Is there any chance for us to get back together? or that her feelings for me will come back to her? even though she says she still loves me? please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): I'm in a very similar situation. Common sense tells me she's not worth it and she should either have you or not, not leave you in the middle. But part of me just wants to be with her still. My advice is to just keep yourself busy and not think about her for a bit, then see where things go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Hunny you no you have my full support keep the faith hunny and good work love mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, KennyJay123 +, writes (1 May 2008):
KennyJay123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionanybody else's opinion?
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reader, KennyJay123 +, writes (30 April 2008):
KennyJay123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand but she crys when i ask her if she loves me. She says that it breaks her heart that she is doing this. I need to know what to do in order for her to get over this phase. Im willing to go through hell for things to get back to the way they used to be. whether it takes a few weeks or even a year. I love this girl
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 I'm sorry, Kenny Jay, but when a girl asks you for a break, it usually means the relationship is over. For the man, it usually means that he will spare himself a lot of heartbreak if he just stops (that is, if he stops banging his head against a wall in the hope that the wall will break first).
What she tells you is not consistent. You're her guy, but she doesn't want you? If you told those words to a girl, what would be on your mind?
Move on. It's for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Your going through a bad time at the moment, She may need time to think love, She may feel a little pressured so I would take things really slow, I do understand how very upset you are so if you need to talk message me anytime. I can't say this will all be ok love all I can say is be strong and no that at this moment you are going through a grieving period all sorts of feelings will be going through your head so you need to put it all in to some sort of perspective to be able to cope with the situation.
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/coping_divorce_relationship_breakup.htm
Ive put you a link that hopefully will help at this time for you, If you feel stronger you will feel better to cope with anything that happens, This does not mean that she will not come back, I just cant answer that question only she can, I do hope that things get better for you hunny and I hope this has helped a little TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH MUCH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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