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Archived questions from: 10 April, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He wants time to himself now, and we only see each other on weekends! What's up with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I have been dating a 44 yr old divorcee male. We are the same age and have alot in common. He has told me that he "IS" my boyfriend and will date no one else. He tells me that I have not pushed him into anything as far as a relationship goes. ...

He said he doesn't want me to leave but he's afraid to make the "commitement' to me. Should I just walk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost 6 years. We are trying to make it work this time but I have plans for my future and know what I want. He doesn't have the same views so I said then we shouldn't spend any more time with each ...

I love him but I feel like I am the other woman in this case because he still has another relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for 12 years. We been seperated for 7 months. We both went different ways and had other relationships. Mines ended, so my baby daddy that I had been with for 12 years came back in the picture. We talked and talked he told me ...

I'm 14 and my mum doesn't even know my boyfriend exists let alone a baby is on the way in 5 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hi im louise. i am 14 and i have been going out with this lad ashley now for a while (13 months) his mum knows everything about me and i am really close to her. my mum doesnt even know he exists. i have tried my hardest to keep the fact i have a bf ...

I feel at the end of my tether and close to tears regarding my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hello i have been in a relationship with a man who is older than me by 8yrs, he is 40yrs old and i am 32yrs old. Originally when we first got together, over 2yrs ago i felt he was a breath of fresh air, compared to all my friends, and previous men...

My partner and I argue and she belittles me--how can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a 27 year Old man with 2 pre-school children and a 3rd child due in July. I am having problems with my relationship with my partner who I love dearly. The problems I /we are having are constant arguing over minor things such as: 1) Mon...

He wants to go out with the boys more often on his own...will he cheat on me if he does?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - my long time boyfriend and i have been arguing about him going out with the boys lately. he wants to go out soon alone however i believ he may hang with a guy and girl...thats ok except the girl likes him and im not sure if she would do anything and ...

She and I have a lot of problems-do I try to get her back or just forget this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Hello, am new to this and I hope someone can give me some advice. A year ago I joined a dating website and in the first day a girl sent me a message. We talked every night for many hours on the phone and the web. She then drove 200 miles to see me ...

Don't want to be with ex cuz he cheated, but now I'm having an affair with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I got married to a guy, a year later he cheated on me with my best friend, we had a child together. we did not talk for about 2 years, now he is back to see our child, in the mean time a met another guy and got married and had a second child ...

He don't communicate with me and I don't know what to do with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I am 29, he is 30 we both born in July month. We now have a child less than 6 months old, we met 5 years ago, dated in the first 2 years and met again in the fourth year, but our relationship has never really taken off, i.e. we don't go out, talk, ...

Some woman my guy knew is calling me and harrassing us...how do I deal with the stress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I'm new and not sure how to post. I have a problem and need help bad, so I’m going to write to you. December 9th of 07 I met my boyfriend online. This man was calling me 4, 5 and sometimes 7 times a day to chat. Then 3 times in the past four months ...

Life with his ex-wife changed him and it causes me upset! Is this fair to me and is there anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I had a causal talk with my boyfriend yesterday. We are in a serious relationship and are planning to buy a house and move in together some time this year. We talked about how men are annoyed at women when they complain about the slightest things, ...

He keeps saying he wants us to live together and get married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - my bf keeps saying he wants to live together and get married. he mentioned on Easter he wanted to tell my family but he didn't because he thought he'd embarrass me with an announcement. the problem is, he only seems to bring this up when he ...

It feels distant that he stands there and watches the clock for the time. Should I take this personally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - my bf comes over my house to visit each night for about 1 1/2 hours after work. he is constantly watching the clock and will not stay 1 minute past the usual time. He's always asking what time it is and he stands up watching t.v while I sit ...

I'm in too deep...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - ive fallen really bad , i care so much he said he loved me ! but he has a girlfriend! i love him so much , i know you will tell me he isnt worth it but i'm in too deep!...

My girlfriend has absolutely no confidence and is always putting herself down.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - hey. me and my girlfriend have been going out now for 3 and a half months. i really like her in fact i think i love her. im 17 and shes only 14 but we both say age doesnt matter. i am not pushing her into anything. we have had sex twice but i dont ...

A woman calls on the phone and tells me all the sexual things she's done to MY BOYFRIEND, he says it's lies...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend goes out at the weekend with his mates an always ends up at one of there houses after to carry the night on. He eneds up rolling in at silly times the next morning,he knows im not happy with it but he still dose it. last night he gets a ...

How do I get my life on course and start feeling better...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I'm such a mess. I've had depression since september when I started college, had to drop two of my A levels because I fell too far behind, I got cheated on by the love of my life who broke up with me in October, but we still have sex whenever he ...

He feels too pressured for sex!! He only does it for me and hes losing interest rapidly! What Can we do to get it back ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - We are a couple in our early 30’s. We have been together 4 years. In the main things are fantastic, totally in love, have a lot in common, are very close and hes my best friend its all good except the sex life! Its been about a year now that we ...

I want a relationship with communication and NOT secrets!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I had a really huge fight yesterday. It started when he told me his boss had asked him to work away in the other office for 2 days out of the week, which he would stay down there. He then told me that I couldn't live ...

I found a used condom underneath my boyfriend's matress and it's not been with ME!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I found a used condom underneath my boyfriends matress which he claims was ours, however im not that stupid! however this has now lead me to believe that he has been cheating, can anyone find any other answer to this?...

I tried to rekindle our friendship and have just made things worse.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I recently posted a question asking for help because my friend was not talking to me after an argument I had with one of her friends I tried calling her today as we were meant to be meeting up all I got was her answer phone I left her a messsage ...

I'm guilty of cheating and now I don't know who to choose.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - im guilty of two timing! ive been dating my first bf for almost 8 months now. he's serving the country so he's always busy but i love him for who he is. he's funny and lovable. but he can get kinda sticky at times. u know, like talking on the phon...

We used to get along so well, no he's so distant towards me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Okay i really like this guy and i have done for over a year. We used to get on so well, we were always talking, always texting and whenever we were in the same room we would be talking to each other. I really liked him and i probably made it obvious ...

Is it safe to be dependent on someone in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I feel that someone from outside could understand myself better than I could and that my worth depends on how that person evaluates me. Especially I think like this for any girls I form a relationship with. If she criticizes me or talk things I ...

I think he's cute, but the shallower side of me seems unsatisfied.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a guy for the last 3-4 months. We started off as best friends, and I've never felt such a connection with someone before. Initially I knew he was attracted to me, but I resisted as I was playing something out with ...

I've only JUST passed my driving test but my girlfriend talks as if I've been driving for years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I have recently passed my driving test! wooohooo! And have been out every day driving since I passed. Now my girlfriend thinks I'm really good at driving. I haven't been really far yet and have stayed local to get used to my new car. However s...

Should I go to live with my dad or try and stick this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hey! ok I am a 16 year old girl. My parents have been divorced since I was 8 I think? My mom re married and now has 2 toddlers, my dad is still not remarried. I have always had such a strong bond with my dad. I have always been a daddy's girl. I ...

I know he will never do it again (have a one night stand) but I just want to smack that girl.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - okay I decided to stay with my boyfriend after he had a one night stand but it's really hard. everytime i walk down the street im thinking is that the girl? it's driving me insane, when we are together things are gr8 they are even better now than ...

Do I continue to have 3-somes to please HIM or say something to him about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Nothing is ever simple.. We are a male couple of 45 and 37, we have been together for 10 years. We are your non- scene couple who have little/few friends, ironically mostly straight. We both work long hard hours and find spare time a premium, h...

What are my options? I don't want to force him for children in the future if I get broody.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My bf and I have been together nearly 4 years. We are engaged. We are planning to marry in the summer. To get to where we are took a lot of arguments and fights because he has been married before and has a child. He didn't see the need to marry. He ...

Together 8 months, but his insecurities are causing rows! How can we stop these petty rows!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 8 months we are very much in love but my bf's insecurity is getting to our realtionship causing arguements and fall outs. He did actually 'finish it' by text last night because he had got all funny with me for not ...

I dont feel the same way about my fiance that I once did, would this be wrong to marry him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I am currently engaged to a wonderful guy, but I am not sure that I love him like I should. Occasionally I would get butterflies but not all the time. Also mostly everything he does bugs the crap out of me. I have my days where I can't get enough of ...

We're each others first bg/gf but she likes another guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now. We are each other's first bf/gf. It's been going fine, but she likes this guy more than me, but the guy liked her for a bit but is now going out with a different girl. My girlfriend is always ...

I cant be myself around him, in case he doesnt love me, but he says he wants me to be myself or we will have to end it!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Am an 18 years old girl and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months everything was fine at first , i could be my self around him , we always had a laugh , and had loads of things to talk about but now i can't be my self around him i ...

Hes still using the call services contacting women, they text all hours of the day and night, and he says theres nothing in it!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I have lived with my boyfriend for 4 years, we have been together for about 6. About 3 years ago he started having what I consider "inappropriate relationships". He was buying calling cards to call other girls after I say numerous calls on his cell ...

My GF has just come back from a 5 week holiday, she seems to have changed, or am I being paranoid ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of one year has just come back from a five week long holiday on the other side of the world. She's changed. She seems to have something on her mind and she's not affectionate with me. Am I being paranoid or has something happened? ...

Im in love with a married man, he says it could take up to 3 months to be together!! What do I do if it has'nt happend ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - DearCupid, I am in love with a married man. When we met, I was married but very much separated (my ex husband moved in with another woman 2 weeks later). He told me he was married but separated too, and we dated and fell in love. He would al...

My husband making me feel so unloved, and unhappy, he is so mean to me and tells me I'm lazy, despite full time college, teaching part time, and looking after 3 kids!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Is my marriage over? Please help! I have been married for ten years to my husband. The problem is, I feel so unloved and unhappy. He says very cruel things to me, and acts as though he doesn't care for me at all. I go to college full time, substitu...

I dont want sex to be a chore in the future, so how do we find the right balance ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - there's a lot going on in my life at the moment and i think my sex drive suffers because of it. I can't seem to keep up with my mans demands sometimes. i think it hurts his feelings and i love him deeply and dont wanna make him feel like that, ...

I want to remain a virgin until my wedding night, my bf just thinks I'm messed psychologically, should I just give in on the sex before marriage thing ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I'm to be married within the next 5 months and things are all ok. I always believed in not having sex before marriage and held up all these years.So my fiance has tried many times to have sex with me and since I refused he has actually stopped ...

My bf doesnt just flirt with other women, he gets their numbers!! Ive told him I'm not happy but he doesnt see it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't just flirt with women, he takes it a step farther by getting their numbers too. I take some of the blame for his behavior, I introduced him to a pickup artist book I was reading. Since he has read that book he has ...

What should I do? Act like I dont care? Break up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Ok well it starts off me being with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. During this time we had to attend different schools. I found out that one night when she was drunk she messed around with another guy. After a period apart we got back ...

After all this crap and abuse I still think of him sometimes! Why am I doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Hi. I wonder if someone might be able to give me some insightful perpectives on my situation. When I was 10, I met this boy because our families lived closeby and were good friends. We liked each other a lot. I know it sounds silly because both of ...

I'm so depressed it's affecting my bf and out relationship! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - i have depression and my boyfriend mood is reflecting off mine so we both end up depressed i don't know what to do he wants the fun loving side of me. i don't know what to do? i ve tried everything...

I don't think we're marriage material..how do I tell him this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hi, ive been thinking a bit lately. Have put a few problems on here and appreciate the advice. Actually no, I value the advice I've received. But one more for you agony aunts. I'm due to be married next year, sex life is non existent, ive never had ...

I am very nervous about my b/f going away a week without me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I feel nervous about my b/f going away a week without me..i seriously believe that whether its a guy or girl..if you are away for a week with friends at bars where a lot of partying is happening--you are going to wind up crossing the line ...

I am bad at relationships! Can anyone help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - HaPpy Easter guys...I dunno how to begin or wht 2 say cos actually am all messed up! I feel so lonely cos am single and ppl around me r all couples, I've had 2 relationships in my life and they were quite recent and both of them ended badly I was so ...