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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I hate the girl I am in love with or I am in love with the girl I hate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I hate the girl I am in love with. Or I am in love with the girl I hate. Not sure exactly how to state it. I have asked her out three times, seeing as she never says no, just that she needs more time and she expects me to be able to guess when she ...

When she goes out with me it's jeans and a jumper but shen she goes out with friends she looks amazing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi! I am 19 and dating my wonderful 28 year old Girlfriend, we have been together for around 10 months and now live together, but recently she has started to be really funny with what she wears, when she goes out with me its jeans and a jump...

She keeps flirting with me but I don't know whether she's being serious or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I have a friend who is a girl I work with, she is in a relationship but not a very good one. We have been friends for 6 years and she knows I am in love with her. I told her about 11 months ago how I felt and she said she was very flatterd and ...

I had a party a few days ago and ended up sharing my bed with my mates girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi I need help!! I had a party a few days ago and ended up sharing my bed with my mates girlfriend we had a bit of fun. But didn't go all the way and now I feel guilty cos it's my mates girlfriend and its really awkward between me and her what shall ...

We used to date but are now just friends, howeve when I talk to other girls she doesn't like it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I have a friend I used to date, we work together. Our relationship at work has always been on the proffessional level. During our fragile,(on and off)relationship, I kept my friendship with other females a secret from her. My Female friends were the...

My boyfriend has said he wants a girlfriend but does not know that I know...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6415 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - My boyfriend has said he wants a girlfriend (he does not know I know). He told this to a girl that was interested in him. He says he is gay, but dated girls in high school. He has been in a fraternity for a couple of months, so I am led to ...

Is his ex trying to come between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I trust my boyfriend with my life. I just don't understand why when his ex that cheated on him with one of his best friends calls or texts him he answers or texts her back... should I hold this over him or be worried??? She has also been to the ...

I feel that I'm going to lose him due to my sudden mood swings, crying spells, and saying hurtful things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years and are still going strong. Sadly I feel that I'm going to lose him though due to my sudden mood swings, crying spells, and saying hurtful things. I don't mean to and I cry after I yell and ...

How can I make it up with her father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I have recently had a massive break up with my girlfriend which has resorted in violence, We have both seen that there is a way through this and are willing to try but we dont know how to repair the damage that I have caused with her father, which ...

He says he cares, but I don't feel it. What can I do to make him see him from my eyes or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I am dating a guy who is very nonchalant in nature and it makes understanding how he really feels about me hard to understand. I feel like I'm trying to get him to open up and it's not working. He says he cares, but I don't feel it. What can I do to ...

I don't want my mum to be alone.........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - You may all think Im mad or that my Mum is but here goes, I'll explain a little before I tell you the problem. My Mum's been through tough times for example violent partners and Alcohol and Drug abuse. Maybe she thought that that was her only esc...

He threw a couple of cushions at me and now my friends are saying he is violent and I should leave him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hi...... This weekend my boyfriend of over 1 year and me fell out. I know this happens all the time but we're currently buying a house together (i know it sounds soon but i've known him a lot longer) which is very stressful. His previous re...

She's not his ex, she's STILL his girlfriend even though I've been seeing him for 2 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I stumbled on this site and read a lot of sensible answers to questions. My boyfriend of two months and I seem to be on and off all the time. We seem to get close physically (we have not gone all the way) and then he wants to meet and tell me that ...

Should I continue seeing this man or marry re my own culture and religion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi, ive been through alot of shit in my life and somehow have managed to come out of it all. ive been heart broken twice and hurt. currently i am livin in the opposite side of the country to my parents, i am studyuing and when im finished i am ex...

I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The ...

I have sentimental feelings with another girl but I feel pretty let down, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Greetings. For some time now I've been having a sentimental relationship with a female. We are very compatible on the most important levels of this type of relationship. However, on certain occasions I can't help but feeling about 20% let down, be...

I am 14 and pregnant and don't really know what to do for the best.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi agony aunts and uncles. im in a bit of bother and dont know how to handle the situation :S i am pregnant, i know your probably either thinking oh god another teenage slag up duff at 14 how stupid sort of thing but thats to be expected. i have ...

My first cousin and I are in love, is this so wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - About two months ago I admitted my feelings toward a first cousin (after a few drinks, son of my aunt, we are both 42). He confirmed that he felt the same way. we have since been talking and admitted that we have both felt like this for as long as ...

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about this married guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I am having same feelings for two persons...one is my boyfriend and other guy was one i flirted with, other guy is married but i cant stop thinking about him, what should i do ya...how can i stop thinking about other guy...please suggest...

What makes a person in a relationship feel insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - what makes a person in a relationship feel insecure,as my boyfriend says im just jealous of his past relationships...

At times I get scared my bf has gone off me--how do I deal with my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - i have shown insecurities to my boyfriend,i dont think he is cheating or anything like that,but i some times get scared he has gone off me or isnt coming round anymore.he says i'm being silly and stop worrying.how can i show i am over this,as i dont ...

Do you believe it is possible to be 'just' friends with your ex without any feelings of jealousy when either of you move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - OK, here are a few questions for you all about ex's. 1. Do you believe it is possible to be 'just' friends with your ex without any feelings of jealousy when either of you move > 2. Should you both just make a complete fresh start from ea...

Girls, is it okay to be in love with someone but have a soft spot for his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi i wonder if you guys or girls can help with this question. i have asked questions about this before. Basically, i am living with my partner of 3 years, we have a big group of friends who my partner ha been friends with for year and they are now ...

Is it love when you fight all the time and want to get back at your bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi im 16 in june and ive been dating this guy for almost 6 years but he is 22 in june and we have been fighting alot for the last 2 years i dont know if im in love with him.... when we fight i always hurt my self or get really upset and do anything ...

I lose interest in guys that show how they feel about me, I just end up being compliant!! Anyone any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Lately I've come to realise that I tend to lose interest in guys who show too much interest in me too soon, whether that be sexual interest or in terms of wanting a relationship. Like I'll be flirting and having fun getting to know a guy and t...

We used to have sex twice a day and miss it now we dont, what can I do to get it back!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I am 21 and my husband is 23, we have two kids and a wonderful marriage BUT..... We barely have sex anymore. We used to do it up to 2 times a day. Now he says he is tried and no in the mood. I know he isn't cheating so what do I do to help him get ...

Just discovered hes been looking at child pornography!!!!!! I dont know what to do!!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - i need some help. two days ago i found out my b/f has been looking up porn pictures of young girls on sites and downloading pictures (between the ages of about 8-13). i feel soo angry. i dont know what to do, we've talked about it and he apologised. ...

Living together 2 yrs and I want to get engaged, not to marry yet, but for him to show his commitment to me, is pushing him a good idea ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - im 25 years old me and my boyfriend have been dating 3 years and living together for 2 of those years. Im currently in school to be a Physicians assistant because this is a masters program I still have quite a few years to go. The problem I'm having ...

After we sleep together she says she doesnt want a relationship... Im confused!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I've just got involved with a girl. We slept together for a while but didn't do anything sexual until just 2 weeks ago. Then she tells me she doesn't want a relationship and wants it to stay the same. Last time I saw her she didn't c...

Im worried my GF may have stopped taking the pill as she wants children!! Im only 17!! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - hi im 17, nearly 18 and i've been seeing this girl since we were 13, she is the same age as me. recently she has been dropping hints about children. We have been having sex since we were 13, i have always used a condom until she was 16 wen she ...

I dont think I like my Bf's past or his antics, but we have a child together, should I stay with him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6413 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i are together for 9 years we share a daughter and he got a son which is older than her which he got a girl pregnant in the early years of our relationship and i am still insecure because i found out that he has other girlfriends ...

She's talking about leaving my best friend for me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - I Like This Girl(Emma) But the only problem is that she's going out with my best friend (Carl). Recently Carl's been treating Emma really bad. Carl's Moved to the other side of the country and they're trying at long distance relationship. But lately ...

I can't get him out of my head and he hardly talks to me, except before and after sex! Is he just leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - HELP!!! i really like this guy im living with, and we are in a sexual relationship. over the easter holidays he was texting me all the time and we arranged to do a few things, like watch a film and go for a drink. when we got back to uni, he's been ...

I love my guy very much but his family is coming between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Been with my bloke for 5 years. Engaged for 4 1/2 years. Problem is his family. They are always after money from him - they do it behind my back - and he gives into them everytime. They normally only want him or get in touch when they want something ...

I want to leave him but don't know if I could manage on my own financially.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - i want to leave my husband but im so afraid i wont be able to cope on my own.we own a buisness together and live at the place of work, we moved away from my family ,so i feel even more isolated, which means if i leave i wont have a job or a place to ...

My bf told his friends he hates me, he lies and he has cheated! I am heartsick..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore...HELP! I have been with my b/f for 3 years march 2007, and we have a gorgeous 8 month old son Seth. We broke up Nov. 2005 b/c he didn't pay any attention to me and got back together in Feb. 2006 I found out I was ...

We plan on living together, soon..so why didn't he tell me he was going to try and get custody of his little girl?? I think I had a right to know about this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I’m in a state of devastation right now. I’m in a relationship with this great guy for 2 years. I love him very much and he loves me very much. When I thought love can solve all problems in the future, I found out that I have doubts. We are looking ...

He hide his porn habit from me...how can I trust him when he does that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years now and I feel like were falling apart everyday. He has a major problem with porn. He looks at it almost everyday on the computer and tries to hide it from me. When we first got together I told ...

If he's no longer my bf, then is doing things with him sexually..a wrong thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - My ex bf and I broke up about a year ago because he was moving to a state up north and I live in the South. We really loved each other and now he goes to school in the south (still not in my state tho) and we have met once since to hang out. We ...

Our insecurity issues is really affecting our relationship. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Hi ive been with my bf for about a yr and 8months i love him too bits but we have had our fair share of problems. Anyway hes got a lot of insecurity issues that it has sort of influenced me in a way. Well the problem is we just seem to hurt ...

I love my new girl but sex is boring. How can I get her do new things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - y isn't things like my first sexual partner? when i first started havein sex with my first sexual parnter things was great till she had a misscarriage and then she got unhappy but still unhappy she would do things to me my new girlfriend doesn...

My gf misses me when we are apart, but she acts like I don't exist when we are together! What's up with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6423 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - I will start off by saying that I am very kind to my girlfriend. I treat her with respect, because that is how I believe women should be treated. When I am away from her, she tells me how much she misses me, and wants to be with me, loves me etc...

I have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but I'm curiously attracted to him but he's not interested. Help!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

28 April 2007 (M) - i have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but every time i visit him at home when his girlfriend is out i tend to talk male sex and i feel that i'm curously attracted to him and would like to kiss him but he's not interested. help! ...

He says he likes me like a sister but I want more than than from him, I want a proper relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6423 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - okay..i like this guy hes only 9 days older than me and were extremely close. we always talk to each other online and hes been to my house with friends. A few days ago he said you're like a sister..and im like your brother, that really hurt me coz i...

My girlfriend of 4 years has been acting really unusual lately!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

28 April 2007 (M) - pls.help, i need to know whats really going on with my gf. we've been dating for about 4yrs and lately she been acting unusal, for example she just cut her hair very short and added a dye, and during sex, which has decreased dramatically, she tries ...

What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving ...

My boyfriend texts me and I know he loves me but he never tells me how he feels on the phone, only in texts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - hi every one i just want to know if any one out there can help me with my bf the thing is my bf dont talk that much and i dont know why that is really he will text me all the time and tell me how he feels about me but when it comes to talking to me ...

This long distance relationship didn't work due to costs! But I still feel I was just dumped..can anyone help me with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I was with this guy, in a long distance relationship, he said that it wouldn't work i knew it wouldn't. He said that we couldn't afford to see each other, which is true. But it doesn't seem much of a reason. I feel so weird about this i miss him ...

I'm prideful, but I'm far from selfish, and I never want to see her hurt this bad again. How can I make it up to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

28 April 2007 (M) - I made the mistake of thinking my girlfriend was doing a few things as a cruel mindgame on me, only to find out later that it was a few series of consecutive mistakes. Problem is, I had already yelled at her thinking I was in the right, which ...

Mom seems critical about the way I live my life. I know she loves me and wants to help..but I need tips on how to deal with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I feel my mon is real nice to me but too critical sometime and insists on me putting up with people I dislike to be more sociable and to try dating guys I do not like just to see if they can be an interesting boyfriend or somethig, she always puts ...