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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I married at 20. Now I've fallen for a colleague. He has a Gf. Is my colleague playing mind games with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hi all. I 30 years old and I am madly in love with my colleague and we are having an affair. When we met it was a moment where I took one look at him and felt electric heart-pounding it felt like I knew him already. We hit it off immediately but ...

Cheating:( How do guys keep their girlfriend from cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - How do you keep your girl from cheating? Please i am asking for a range of different answers, so please give me your opinion on whats the best way to keep a partner faithful, or atleast, what actions can a guy do, to keep her girl from seeking ...

Hate my toxic work place, where cheating is the norm. How can people cheat and not feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am really hating my workplace at the moment I feel that its really poisoness. Everyone seems to be cheating on everyone else and I am the only who seems to think its disgusting. One girl at work was giving me all this relationship advice with my ...

Everything things my guy and I have the perfect relationship. But I feel confused and I'm thinking of breaking up or cheating. I already talk online to a guy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4304 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - Hey, sorry for being dramatic about this but I didn't know where else to go for help, thanks for reading. I've been with my boyfriend since 2009, and he is 3 years older than me. I came out when we started dating, and it was hard, very difficult w...

My boyfriend watches an inordinate amount of porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I feel like this is a question that's been asked over and over again, and will probably be asked again many times in the future. My boyfriend watches an inordinate amount of porn. He's 22. While the fact that he's watching porn seriously bugs me,...

Trying to make my marriage blossom, but I can't last 5 minutes without thinking about my lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Married for 23yrs I met the love of my life who has been married 24yrs. We had an undeniable connection, and made love 24hrs after meeting. His first time and my first, since our weddings. We live in different states. I returned home and ...

Is my G/f still in love with her ex? Why is she keeping their sexual photos and is she just using me for the life I can provide for her ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Hi there, I just need some advice I've been with my girlfriend now for nearly 3 years n it's really good, we're both in our early 40,s Before me she was with someone just for sex she said but she got attached to him but he left and lived hundre...

He said he'll start seeing me again if I'll do a threesome

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - From the beginning he was already involved with this older lady. And there was one more other girl staying at his place for a week just to travel around. And there was me. So it was more of a friends with benefit thing. And I know it was immature or ...

On off ex boyfriend won't stop contacting me even when I've told him to stop. There's another woman in the picture. What's he playing at?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - i was in a relationship with this guy. at first things were okay.. then we started having fights because of various reasons. i had also been talking to my ex - just talking btw... could that have also messed the situation up? ( because he kinda ...

It's a secret, he doesn't want the baby momma to know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Im a single divorced mother of four kids. I work a full time job, raise my four kids on my own. Along with that I take online college course. I try so hard to do the best I can to take care of my kids and along with everything else going on. I don't ...

He didn't tell me I was his stop gap live in lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - We lived together for about 7 months. He had an old friend. He slept with her once, if he's not lying, and she got pregnant. Then she left to her country which is Russia. He's divorced 33 year old guy and he always wanted a baby but didnt grt one in ...

My boyfriend is another woman's 'back up guy' in case they're not married by 40! How would you feel about this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Dear All, How would you act if your boyfriend told you he was another girls back up guy and if there both still 40 they would get married as his rich and reliable? I feel this is disrespectful and it"s upset me but he can't see why? Opinions p...

I'm married but it's a LDR. I cheated with a friend who's also married. I don't want to break up our marriages. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I need some advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. We've seen each other every 5-6 months for about one or two months. Got married a few months ago and now living apart again. This will keep continuing for a...

What can I do? My husband talks about this woman he works with all the time. Yet he can't take two minutes to speak to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - When my husband is at work he can't take two minutes to talk to me on the phone but I hear from his co-workers that he is in their offices and about all the good times they have. I told him it hurts my feelings that he can't give me the time of ...

I think my wife is cheating on me. We have 3 children together. What's my next step to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

25 January 2013 (M) - born in 1981 met her 1996 married her in 2004 we have three kids oldest is 11 years old it is now 2013 next month is our meeting each other anniversery. I suspect and i think she's cheating on me. Anyone care to conversate on the matter? i ho...

Who could care and have feelings for 3 year affair?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Is it easy for a man to have a 3yr sex fling with a woman and care nothing for her? My husband has been sleeping with this hoe for 3yrs.I know its only sex. She now has feelings for him but he cares nothing for her. She can't get that through her ...

If she would go behind his back, she would mine too, Correct? Or should I wait for her to choose me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4310 days ago

24 January 2013 (M) - This is a messed up one. I finally found my soulmate. She has a child. We were together for a year. She hated her child's daddy. We have been apart for 4 months now. She has started texting me, wanting me to come see her. Here is the exciting stu...

The EX factor is over-shadowing our relationship. She'll always be in our lives so how do I cope better with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - I’m currently in a relationship with the most wonderful guy and have been for 10 months now... Everything is near enough perfect, except one thing, his EX girlfriend. My partner has a daughter of 2 years with his EX girlfriend, and she ...

Should I ask my friend for permission to sleep with her husband?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - Apologies for the length of this but I think it's important to have the details.. the devil is always in the details... Me: I'm single and approaching 50. It's been a few years since my last serious relationship but I'm fine with that. Having see...

Do people somehow get a free pass to behave less well because they have an ex and kids? While those without an ex and kids are expected to come second?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hi aunts. Can I have your opinion on this: If one partner in a relationship is divorced with kids and the other never married no kids, what responsibility does the divorced partner have in the relationship? Is it less than if he had no kids or ...

How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving ...

How can I stop caring for this guy who obviously doesn't care for

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I started dating this guy 3 years ago. At first he seemed so sweet and trustworthy. After a few months we started to fight over the fact that I was still friends with my ex boyfriend. We would fight a lot because I could tell he didn't trust me...

So what's my next move? The guy at work I'm very very attracted to? Or my Bf of one year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - hello, i work in a medium sized company, 7months ago a new guy joined our team of 6. He is really good looking, attractive, polite ect ect. we do get on really well and i feel attracted to him, he is very much my type to be honest. The thing is ...

Don't I deserve to be treated right? Just brokeup with ex and am pregnant by my ex. But like this other guy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - Not even a week a ago I got out of a long relationship with someone who was using me for everything like money and sex it was a 9 year off and on relationship. He is the father of my seven year old and now my unbornchild. I know I am already over...

I like a girl who's in a relationship. How do I find out how she feels about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - I met this girl, she has a girlfriend, but we went on a drunken night out and ended up sleeping together. We then have had a couple of times where we nearly slept together again, but both stopped it as it wasn't fair on her girlfriend. Problem is, ...

3 friends, we both like the same girl and want to ask her out. How should this be handled?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4314 days ago

17 January 2013 (M) - This story revolves around 3 people - a guy, a girl and myself. Lets name the guy Neil and the girl Natalie. Neil and Natalie have known each other for around 6 years and know each other very well. 2 years ago, I became friends with them. Now w...

Guy I've been talking to has a girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - Well I have been talking to this guy for about 3 months now. We phone each other almost every night. He is really funny, kind and we share similar interests. I really enjoy talking to him and he says the same for me. Everything was great until ye...

Couples in Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4310 days ago

16 January 2013 (M) - Couples in Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Couples who are experiencing a transition in the status of their relationship may sometimes look to explore new ways of redefining their sex lives b...

I love 2 men and don't want to hurt either of them

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - I am in a very weird position. I love two men! I was dating a man in the army who was just about to deploy, he said he really likes me etc etc Then he went away and we decided to talk about taking our relationship further when he comes back. He is ...

I'm confused by his actions. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - Hi all, I am a 30 year old woman who has been talking to a 43 year old guy for around 3 months. Initially, he pursued me but after a couple of weeks things got heated and we were intimate twice. Since then, He has texted me less, sometimes not he...

He wants to be faithful to his girlfriend, but I want to tell him how I feel. Is this a good idea?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago and recently, in September, we began to hang out and we became "close" like intimate. I liked him and I still do. The problem is that he has a girlfriend now. For about two months, we fell off because of a conflict ...

How can I deal with my housemate's partner who almost lives with us, but won't pull his weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - Need honest advice.. I've lived with my boyfriend in a small 3 bedroom share house for over 2 years. Just under a year ago, we found a third housemate who was great. I introduced her to one of my male friends and they soon started dating. Sin...

Will this work? I'm married and I recently accepted the offer of my (separated) boss, to be his Girlfriend/mistress

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - I recently accepted the offer of my boss, to be his Girlfriend/mistress. He is separated with 3 kids living with his wife and family. I'm married, with an understanding husband and a 3 year old daughter. We hooked up 2 only and 1 to 2 hours only ...

I love my friend and want to stay friends with him despite him having a girlfriend. Why won't he open up to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - im friends with a guy and last summer we grew close as in a few kisses nothing else. hes been with his girlfriend 5 years. he says shes domineering and threatens suicide. i fell deeply in love with him but he said due to what was going on he couldnt ...

Where do I from here? Unhappy marriage. I've fallen for a married man I met on a dating site.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I have been married for over 23 years , with 2 kids and have been unhappy in my marriage for over the last 15 years as my husband had a drinking problem As a result I have lived in an abusive relationship. He gave up drinking about 4 years ag...

Can I continue as his wife? How could he preach to me about principles? When in reality he was continuing with his best friend's ex partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Am 34.I have been married for a year and half. My husband cheated on me three months ago with his best friend's ex. I WAS REALLY HURT. But believing he was really sorry, I decided to forgive him and we moved on. This was the THIRD time he wa...

My BF's ex still has feelings for him. Is she a potential threat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

12 January 2013 (F) - Hi guys. Something has been annoying me, as a... potential threat. A girl gets feelings for my BF. She often posts on her Facebook page with heart broken words, and says missing "someone" for a few months till now, since me and my BF have been ...

Is he still my guy? Or is the new girl in his sights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

12 January 2013 (F) - my guy and I were doing nicely. he is 4 years older than me. we work at same office, travel by the same bus. i met him 6 months ago. Soon we were so close(went for shopping,movie, beach and restaurant together even made love). He had even told ...

In love with a girl who has another boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - I'm going through a very complicated relationship... I love her a lot.. I have been there with her for a quite long time about 8 months now.. She was my friend at first but I fell in love with her later on.. She had a bf and she loved him a lot.. bu...

Why did he string me along for 2 years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I started dated this guy 2 years ago. In the beginning everything was great. Then after couple of months he said we are taking it slow. So I have been patient. Then after 9 month dating I got a letter from him saying that he never broke up with the...

He met me, we've been friends for 7 months. The same day he had sex with her. Do I confront him? Or what else should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

10 January 2013 (F) - okay this kid and I were talking for about seven months but we werent exclusive! a few days before my birthday we hung out and remind you we barely see each other, but when we do we dont waste a minute, but the last time we hung out we didnt ha...

Am I overstepping my bounds with my friend? He has a GF and I'm struggling to understand his actions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

10 January 2013 (F) - I just want to make sure I'm not over stepping my bounds here, and I need a little help interpreting someones actions, as I'm afraid my interpretations may be a little off. I have been hanging out with one of my friends a lot more now. He's funny,...

A needy, clingy woman got my man. How come this happened?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I am so through with relationships and men. I am an independent woman, smart, beautiful and keeps myself busy never clingy. Met a good guy and helped him, even when he didn't have a job and no money, but now he's run off with a clingy girl. What ...

Am I not good enough for him? I'm pregnant but all he does is talk to his ex. Am I crazy wanting him to leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I am currently pregnant and since I've gotten pregnant all he does is talk to his exs. I feel like I am not good enough for him and that he is looking for someone else. I don't wanna lose h...

Still in contact with his ex! Am I overreacting? Should I let it go? I am quite convinced he is serious about us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I have had a beautiful relationship. We we met while we both were in London due to our work responsiblities. The four months we were together it was nothing less than heaven. He had to move to US after that and I had to return to India.Two days...

I'm a mess. What can I do? I've been in love with my Gf for a long time. But I've fallen for a second girl at college and now this second girl is pregnant.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - Guys, I'm in a pickle. A very large pickle. I've been dating my very lovely and intelligent girlfriend for six years, since we were 14. Before I continue, I need you all to know that I really, absolutely and unabashedly love my girlfriend with all...

I was OK to sleep with. But he said he could'nt give me what I wanted. How do I cope with this, and the fact he now has a Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Back in September, I moved into a shared house with three other people. Two of them I didn't know before, but there had always been chemistry between me and this other person. This other person and I have been close ever since we me...

Should I leave my BF of 6 years for someone I've known for 2 months?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend of 6 years recently asked if it's ok if his sister could stay with us for a few weeks until she finds a place in the city.. His sister is a model, she's a gorgeous woman and is currently working with the top fashion companie...

When my boyfriend has any problem, he goes to his best friend (a girl) and not me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone,I'v been dating my boyfriend for over 4 years,my boyfriend has this best friend who is a girl and they have been friends since kindergarden and over the years I'v become friends with her too,we hang out together..BUT I really feel bad ...

Girlfriend cheated on me but I want her back! How can I persuade her I won't hold this against her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for last four years with my girl. We did everything except sexual intercourse. Recently, when she was drunk, some random guy took her from bar and it seems he had sexual intercourse with her. Now she feels that she is ...