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writes:Well I have been talking to this guy for about 3 months now. We phone each other almost every night. He is really funny, kind and we share similar interests. I really enjoy talking to him and he says the same for me.Everything was great until yesterday I found out that he has a girlfriend all this time. I feel so fooled right now.What should I do now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013): Thank you all on your advices. You are right. I can't even trust him now anymore.
It's best for everyone to stop this while it's not too late. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2013): Break contact with this guy. He has a girlfriend and is talking to you behind her back.
Even if you and him got together, you would never be able to trust him. If he's cheating on the girlfriend he has now, who's to say he wouldn't do the same to you?
Please, save yourself and his girlfriend a lot of heartache and walk away.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 January 2013):
 Did he lie and say he didn't have a gf or did he just never tell you?
Did he imply he wanted YOU to be his gf?
see unless he was trying to date you, all he was doing is chatting with you and there is nothing wrong with that.
the problem may be that you THOUGHT he wanted more than just chatting...
have you met in real life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2013): It's time to walk away.
He's playing with fire and so are you. It's not your fault in any way, but you will be just as responsible if you continue this relationship with him, NOW, knowing what you know.
Can you imagine if you were his girlfriend and he was doing this to you with another girl?
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having friends, but if this guy was really your friend and really true to his girlfriend, he would have told you right from the start that he had a girlfriend, but he didn't.... which tells you that he is trouble.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (17 January 2013):
 If you are interested in dating then it is time to walk away from this. On the other hand if you want to be friends there is nothing saying that you can't do that. Keep in mind he may be looking to cheat but there is a chance that you two could end up being friends. If you do persue this route it is important that the friendship isn't hidden from his gf.
With that said I do emphasize that if you are interested in dating this boy now is not the time and it is best not to get involved in what mess would come out of that situation. I've been there and it is not fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2013): well the guy proves to be cheesy. a sweet liar. if u have a friend who is in the same situation as yourself, what would you advise her? stick with him, understand him and just have fun and then face the consequences later? or. be smart and get rid of him pronto, cuz he's a cheater. How sure are you that if he choose you to be his gf he wont do the same as what he is doing right now with his current gf?
I mean, the probability of cheating and lying is 100% guaranteed.. Thats how he was all the time to you and his gf.
Sorry, you just have to face the truth.. but the decision is all yours..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2013): What you need to do right now is walk away. Do not let your heart get involved any further. You will be asking for a world of hurt. Men will try and try again, relationship or not. It is up to the woman to have some self respect and realize she is not somebody's leftovers or second best... He will use you if you choose to let him. Make the wise choice. Yourself. Your sanity. Your dignity. Your heart. Don't be played... Take it from someone with experience.
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