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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

What do you think she's up to?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - So I dated my ex for 5 months, and everything was great except for a few really bad arguments. I wasnt committing to her, because i thought it was too early and wanted us to take our time, and she wound up breaking up with me. I realized i really w...

Feel like I married both my husband and his sister -- and she doesn't like me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I have been married for two years and was blindsided by a problem that he has: his sister. She was very friendly before the engagement and wanted to be my best friend. My husband and she are very close. They talk every day on the phone, lived ...

My g/f isn't "the one" -- but her best friend might be

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - so ive got myself in a bit of a jam. im 25 and have dated around a lot trying to find exactly what im looking for. I started dating a new girl about 3 months ago and a few red flags are up...I know she's not the girl for me. The problem becomes ...

My longterm boyfriend wants to sleep with someone else but doesn't want to cheat. Is a threesome the answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and we have both only been with each other during our relationship. He has suggested him sleeping with another woman, but not wanting to cheat on me, suggesting a three-some. His ex-wife ...

My boyfriend asked me if he could be friends with his ex girlfriend who he was deeply in love with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - We are engaged to be married and have been seeing each other for 3 years. His last ex-girlfriend dumped him badly. He was deeply in love with her. When we got together after their break-up which was only two months later, he called me her na...

Best friend's new boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I am 40, and have a best friend 32, who has just got a new boyfriend who is 20. This is quite a long story so bear with me. The relationship between me and my best friend is purely platonic, but a slight complication is that he has limited money so ...

I recently met two great guys and can't decide. Should I just date both of them at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4434 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I don't think i'm doing anything wrong, not yet anyways. I need to make a decision, which I think deep down I know I've already made but it's the wrong one. So i'm hoping someone can help out. I've never been a girl to care for dating more than...

Struggling to forget the threesome she had in the past....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now and we are still and I hope will always be together. I actually am wanting to marry her some day. In the beginning through general conversion we found out something about each other such ...

I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend's friend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hello. I have developed strong feelings for a friend who I have known for some time, and he is a friend of my boyfriend for years. I met him the same day I met my boyfriend before we were dating. He was obviously interested at the time and is still ...

Asked out a guy but had no answer, and now my ex wants to get back together with me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - OK, so I asked out one guy. Lets call him Harry. Its been two weeks. I have no answer. But I still really like him. Then there's another guy. Lets call him Louis. Louis is my best friend's little brother. (Aimee is two years older than me, ...

The love has faded in my current relationship, and there is a new guy who I am falling for....what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship of seven years. We live together and have dogs. A few months ago my boyfriend told me he didn't think he wanted to marry me (maybe anyone) and it really upset me at the time. However now I feel like maybe he...

Serious Trouble with Two Guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I am in high school and have been dating my current boyfriend for roughly 10 months now and live about 30 minutes away, but during the summer we saw each other everyday. I believe that I truly love him and can see us getting married in the future. ...

My girlfriend warms my heart and she's possibly the coolest girl ever, but there's this lingering "what if" about the other girl who I've had a crush on

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

24 September 2012 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. She is pretty amazing. We had a bit of a rocky start, but things have smoothed out and we have a lot of fun together now. My problem is that there is a girl I've known for many years, an old friend at...

I have a crush on my boss' wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 September 2012 (M) - i am a male, gemini, married but not happy after 5 years and i am in love with my boss wife who have problems with him ever so often and i think she has a crush on me and now he kind of suspects us any help ...

I've given her an ultimatum, him or me. How can we move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - folks in need of some expert help basically giving my gf a ultimatum. Choose him or me. il make this quick basically i made the first mistake by flirting with a girl online, but let me explain, this flirtation ment absolutely NOTHING...

Despite his flaws I can't get my ex out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - So I have a new boyfriend and he is the most amazing guy I have everrrr been with personality-wise and I really LOVE who he is, because he is caring and he supports me (even as far as going to auditions just to help me have the guts to follow my ...

I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and af...

Is an Ex and Ex? And should it stay that way? I think my Bf may be in contact with this ex again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I suspect that my boyfriend might have added his ex-girlfriend back into his phone, I am not entirely sure. I just have a feeling he might have. Should I just ask him if I can look at it? I don't know if it seems odd. I really hate his ex and h...

Have you ever split from ex, one or both of you moved on, but later got back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Question for anyone whos been through this........ Have you ever split from an ex where one of you has got into another relationship , engaged even, and then ended it because you and your ex were meant to be together? and then got back together? ...

How do I approach our married female friend so I can explore my bi-sexual curiosities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have been with my BF for over a year now. We are both in our early 20's. We are very open and he know I am bi curious, and he is even willing to let me "explore" those curiosities, if an opportunity happen to present itself. Well, we are friends ...

Can I expect some kind of commitment from him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have dated this guy for 2 months. It was a mess at first. Basically he dated me and my friend at the same time. I didn't know about this until my friend told me after a week. I talked to him and he said because we were not BF and GF yet so he...

Is his recent interest in seeing me with another woman a sign he's losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together over a year and have a great sex life. He used to be very against porn and the idea of girl on girl or threesomes. Now he looks at porn every day (even after we just had sex) and brings up wanting to see me with ...

My threesomes have come back to haunt me

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I am really in a bind and I don't know what to do. A little over a year ago I met my now fiancé. When we met we clicked instantly and became an item right away. He is charming, intelligent, attractive, educated and an all around great guy. About...

How do we solve our trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

21 September 2012 (M) - I need abit of help and advice on what are the best methods to do in 'fixing trust'. Basically our trust issues comes down to facebook, and i messed up chatting up a girl (ALTHO please understand, i did this purely for boredem and would never EVER ...

Ever since my attractive friend moved in with us, my boyfriend has asking me for sex every night! Should I be worried about him suddenly being so aroused? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - Hello! So my bf and I needed a roommate for financial reasons and, due to extenuating circumstances, my very attractive friend moved in with us. It's a weird situation that I really did not want to get into. Before he and I started dating, ...

What if he goes back to her? He is delaying signing the divorce papers served on him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I've been dating this guy for a couple of months, I have never been happier..he keeps me happy..but now out of nowhere his wife comes in the picture he never told me about him being married..I was upset,I cried I broke things off and ...

How can I fix this? My husband speaks badly about me and flirts with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - My husband talks bad about me with other people about me. At first, he would let his friends make disrespectful comments about me. Then it went to him telling his relatives bad stuff about me whenever we differed, and some of his relatives would also...

I need to stop! But how? I can't stop contacting an abusive ex boyfriend. Any tips on how to get stronger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I can't seem to stop contacting my ex! Any tips? I was with him for 3 years and he turned out to be verbally and emotionally abusive that recently escalated into physical abuse on more than one occasion. We had a condo together and he stil...

Pregnant and in love with someone else ..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I dated a guy for almost 2 and a half years , he was my high school sweet heart. I literally love everything about him. We've been through so much an supported one another through many many problems. Unfortunately a few months ago we broke up. One ...

Does this sound like a double date? And how can we stop getting angry with each other so often? General life advice needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

18 September 2012 (?) - hey so i have been with my amazing boyfriend around 5-6 months its been so great we really do love each other and i cant imagen my life without him, we get on well but we bicker in a kinda married cuple way and well its fine but now it gotten wrost ...

My boyfriend is a bit too friendly with his ex wife whom he cheated on before we met

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - i have been dating a wonderful man for 6 and a half months. when i met him he was still living his ex wife in the basement of their home because he was waiting for it to sell. they had a very rocky 17 year relationship that he was never happy in...

Boyfriend feels neglected because I'm spending time with another friend. Views please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 26 nothing significant there but I thought of mentioning it cuz my boyfriend has been acting really immature these days.. I have a best guy friend we go bowling,dinner's lunch we have a lot of fu...

Dating 2 guys but I want to stop, how do I choose which one to keep dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - I'm a complete idiot and that girl I didn't want to be. I know guys and girls do this and maybe to some it's no problem, but i'm treading very thin ice now. I met two guys who I went on a date with, only because I liked them both. That and m...

I like two best friends and they like me, I don't want to come between them but they keep chasing me! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Ok so i have a very big problem. Im a virgin so this brings my problems down a notch but I really really like 2 guys whom are best friends. Its very complicated on how it managed to get as far as me actually liking two best friends. basically they ...

The one guy, I really like him but I don't get 'that feeling'; with the other, wow

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - What would you go for in a guy, I met these two who are both amazing guys in very opposite ways! But yet, some how they are perfect of what I want in a guy, looks and personality wise. The problem is, one of them when I kiss him, or when he touches ...

Will you fight for a man who is in love with you and another women and can't make a decision

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - I broke up with my LDR boyfriend 6months ago. It was a no-contact breakup because I was hurt and I truly wanted to move on. However, three months ago, he cut himself really bad and had undergone surgery. Several people reached out to me to call him ...

Confusion! In love with 2 men, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - I am inlove with two men. Me and Steekie had been together before for about 6 months then we broke up, because we weren't ready. We both went on and seeing other people, but we were still seeing eatchother as friends and during 4 years we became ...

I scared her with my anger and now she won't take me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

16 September 2012 (M) - Dear Aunties / Uncles, Where do I begin? I've been seeing this AMAZING LADY for about 4 months. I won't lie. We totally fell for one another and I know I am in love with her! I have never ever felt like this before! Anyway, a few weeks a...

I have a boyfriend but I love this other guy. What can I do to make this right? I am so worried for the other guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Wow Im surprised myself how much i love this guy(2 years older). We were friends for 4 years until yesterday when he told me(via the internet) that he had feelings for me and that he cant hide them anymore. I already have a boyfriend and he knows...

Does he hate me? Will he ever come back to his old self and realise how he's behaving re his stupidity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4446 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I need some advice on what to do about my friendship with this guy. Everythings been blown far out of proportion. Basically these past 5 months hes changed loads. I know people change and move on but some come back and realise and others d...

My boyfriend has been having sex with another girl behind my back.Am I a fool for wanting to stay and make this work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend has always treated me like a princess. He is one of my best friends; we have the same friends, the same beliefs, and have known each other for a little over four years. We've been dating for 3 months short of two years. We moved into a ...

We had a threesome and my husband completely ignored me! I feel our marriage is over...

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - I am married for 5 1/2 yrs. My husband and I have useId talking about a 3some several times during sex for excitement. Me being bi. But he has always said he doesn't really wanna do it. But the opportunity presented itself. And he asked and asked if ...

He wants to be with me but also wants to be with his ex. He says its to help her move on. What?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - ok, so… I'm starting a relationship with this guy we've been friends for almost 2 and a half years. He has this huge amount of trust with me which makes me feel kind of guilty because I'm not that kind of people who talk about themselves a lot. A...

I like this guy but he asked me for a threesome. Should I still do on a date with him anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I need some honest answer! This guy I kinda like... asked me for a threesome..( two guys and me!) Yes, I was hurt by this proposal and really offended. I thought he might like me as well... but I guess it's not. But still I desperate...

His jealousy is starting to put a damper on our physical relationship. And now a new guy is showing interest. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I really really need some advice... I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When we first met I lived in a different city. After I finished my degree we decided to be together, so I moved to be with him (I do have family here as well)In ...

My Co-worker has a Gf but keeps on winking at me. I'm interested, but how should I indicate that? Or could I be mistaking his intentions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (M) - I have a coworker that has been winking at me for sometime. I didnt really pay it any attention at first because I thought that he was just friendly. However,I really noticed it this last time when he winked really slow and pointed his finger at me ...

I'm sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend. I want a bit more but not a relationship, I don't know how to tell him without scaring him off. What do I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

11 September 2012 (F) - I just got out an 8 year relationship about 6 months ago and I cant separate my feelings from sex. Ive always considered myself to have a high sex drive, but majority of the time I was in relationships, so I didnt have to have casual sex but I have ...

He says he loves me as if I were a wife, but he won't marry me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend are seeing each other for 5 years now why doesn’t he want to marry me I ask him why? He immediately says it’s just that I can’t marry you he told me then I ask him do you love me. And he said yes; what the matter ...

I'm troubled by my boyfriend's new female roommate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - Should I be worried about my boyfriend's female roommate? My boyfriend of 15 months has a new female roommate, she moved in about a week ago. He's had female roommates before and it has NEVER bothered me. BUT this girl is different. She's a flirt (j...

I don't know which one needs to be set straight: Ben or Jack

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - Hey, so I'm going to get right into it. So I have a male best friend, lets just call him Ben. He's 21 and I'm 18. We've been as I would call it the best of friends rather than "best friends", for the past four years. To me the idea of calling ...