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writes:What would you go for in a guy, I met these two who are both amazing guys in very opposite ways! But yet, some how they are perfect of what I want in a guy, looks and personality wise. The problem is, one of them when I kiss him, or when he touches my leg or lower back, I don't feel that feeling I do when I really like someone, it's hard to describe but you just know it. What I can't understand is that I really like him, but I just don't feel anything, it's just like i'm emotionless with him. I've tried to see if it changed, but nothing still....Where as, with the other guy when I kiss him, I can't get enough, he somehow makes me feel on a high and in bliss that it makes me want him badly and not to leave him. And when he puts his hands on my waist, or back of my neck I get that feeling! I just don't know what to do, I like them both but do I chose the guy who I feel that feeling with, or the one I don't and hope that maybe this will change as time goes on? I mean, is that 'feeling' even important, any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2012): This is easy. You ought to be with the one who you have NO doubts or complaints about... Simple really.
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reader, nat1972  +, writes (17 September 2012):
 The feeling of total bliss is awesome, Go with the guy you have the feelings for. As your chemical balance works out in favour with him. When you feel emotionless that is not love. The feeling of love is what you describe and more.
Let the first guy down gently as you can. Be honest as to not hurt his feelings and ego too much. You could even remain friends with him if he feels the same way, don't lead him on though as this hurts more than words can tell.
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