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anonymous
writes:Hi, I need some honest answer!This guy I kinda like... asked me for a threesome..( two guys and me!)Yes, I was hurt by this proposal and really offended.I thought he might like me as well... but I guess it's not.But still I desperately want to meet him.He is kinda my dream guy I feel really good even I am just looking at him.Am I stupid like him who asked me for a threesome?\Afther that, He asked me to have dinner.Should I go?He does not like me right? but why he asked me out?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 September 2012):
 oh honey he sounds like such a keeper...
he wants sex
you mean NOTHING TO HIM... if he has not even met you and asked for a threesome you are nothing but a sex object.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 September 2012):
 He wants you for sex. Hoping that he can ply a good dinner and you will be so thankful that you will agree to a 3-come.
Honestly, honey.... stop being so desperate.
And no you are fooling yourself if you think he is YOUR dream guy. He a horny dude hoping to get him and a friend laid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): If you have any doubts about his motives for wanting to date you, then I advise you not to. Chances are he will most like try to get you drunk, take you to his place and try to get you to do something you don't want to do.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (13 September 2012):
 Is your dream guy really a guy that would ask for you for a threesome? Maybe you should rethink your feelings for him and thoughts about what he's really like.
He likes you enough to want to have sex with you but not enough to think of you as girlfriend material.
If I were you I'd avoid him. Aim higher.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (13 September 2012):
 He asked you out because he's going to try again to get you to have a threesome, or if not just have sex with you.
He likes you... for sex only. It's clear that because he asked you right out for a threesome, he does NOT see you as girlfriend material. He probably senses you are really into him and is being a player.
These are your options:
1. Say no. He offended you with the threesome comment (understandably). He's lost the right to date you.
2. Say yes. Go out with him. Get drunk. End up having sex. He might repeat that a couple of times but then he'll ignore you.
3. Say yes. Get really drunk. His friend shows up and you end up having the threesome anyway. You'll hate yourself after that.
I don't see any other options.
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