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writes:OK, so I asked out one guy. Lets call him Harry. Its been two weeks. I have no answer. But I still really like him. Then there's another guy. Lets call him Louis. Louis is my best friend's little brother. (Aimee is two years older than me, so Louis is older than me). We dated a year or so ago, we broke up, and now Aimee told me that he wants to get back together with me. And I'm finding myself falling hard for Louis again. So I've got Louis and Harry. Harry is closer in age, really outgoing and sweet and funny, and I really think we could be a good couple. Louis is more shy, but is still sweet and funny. And he for sure wants to be a couple. but I'm worried we would just fall apart again. What should I do? I'm so confused.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 September 2012):
 you asked harry out... harry has said no by not replying...
age means nothing much... so do not base your choice on age...
if you are not sure about louis.. then say thanks but no thanks we tried it once and I dont' want to risk it again... besides it could make things hard with Aimee...
but do not pin hopes and dreams on Harry as he's clearly not into you like you want him to be.
how about being solo for a while?
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