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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I don't think i'm doing anything wrong, not yet anyways. I need to make a decision, which I think deep down I know I've already made but it's the wrong one. So i'm hoping someone can help out.I've never been a girl to care for dating more than one guy, i actually despise those girls because it's just hurtful and i know how i've felt when someone did it to me. But somehow i've gotten myself into that predicament! I met this guy ages ago and we met up recently and got along so great, almost too great how easy it was to talk to him and i know i'm stereotyping here. But he is beautiful, one the best looking guys i've met and yet he's so down to earth and nice i didn't expect it. Everything I want in a guy, he's is down the t. But I met this other guy as well one day and he's also the same, i mean what are the chances of meeting two great guys at once! They're so genuine and I don't know who I like better, when I'm stuck for choice. They both asked me out and i'm seeing them soon, my friends said going on a date or two with them isn't bad, it's only when it gets more serious or physical then i'm doing something wrong.But fair enough, i know i need to go on a few dates to see who i am more suited to since i can't base it off that one date. But what feels wrong, is knowing that me going on these dates, is probably going to make them like me more and knowing one of them i will have to let down. And although I haven't gotten physical with them, i'm careful not to do so yet... when i'm kissing them both, i feel guilty for it even though it's just kissing. So all i'm asking is, am i doing something wrong here, should I just not go out with either of them, or what would you do? Even though everyone says i'm not doing anything bad it's just dating, I just feel like i am and i need other opinions other than my friends or people who know me on this one....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012): Um I don't know, would you be fine with it, if a guy that you were interested in and started getting feelings for started sucking face with another girl on the side?
From a guy's point of view, your that girl that are wise friends tell us to avoid cause she's nothing but trouble, you don't wanna be that girl.
I was in a similar situation except I was aware, we both ended up leaving her, she got no one but her sad self.
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