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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...

Was he sincere or just playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My husband told me 4 months ago that he was done with our marriage and leaving. He has left me and our children 4 times over the last several years. Each time he has come back (because I have asked or begged him to). He did not say when he was ...

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, i need advice. Ok heres my story, i have a guy friend who i have been friends since with the 9th grade. were in our early 20s now. i have had a crush on him since high school but never acted on it because i was really shy. an...

Three times I have declined my boyfriend's request for an open relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for roughly 10 months. A while ago, maybe 4 or 5 months ago, he brought up the subject of an open relationship. This isn't something that I feel comfortable with, which I expressed to him. He brought it ...

Is there a future with this married woman or am I just a fling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Greetings Aunts! I am in a place I never expected to be, which is that I am involved with a married woman and have been for almost three years now. She is in my class at grad school. The way that our school works, the grad students...

I want my ex to take me back again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on ...

He was flirting with me but now says I'm not his type

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I have this problem with a coworker of mine that I ended up really liking his name is Bryan… We have known each other since October 2010. He had asked me what his chances were for taking me out to dinner was and I had told him that his chances...

His friend gave him an ultimatum, me or the friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey, i was talking about a younger boy, in my previous question. well now his friend which is my ex, has told him that he needs to choose between me or him. does anyone know what i should do or say?...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

Maybe I should just end the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been doing a sort of open relationship for about the last 5 months. He has only been with one other girl and it was just a mindless hookup, dont care. In our particular arrangement, I told him I really ...

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very pas...

One boy wants sex the other puts me in the friend - zone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS FROM SAME ASKER COMBINED Question ONE: Okay, so I’ll be honest, I am desperate for advice because this is really my only way to get help. I’ve talked to my friends about it and they all are close-minded about it so I decided ...

He just can't shut up about his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i has been together for 10 months now but i dont think he's over his ex. we got together after 2 weeks of them breaking up, they were going out for almost 1 year and a half. after they broke up, she had a new boyfriend just 2 weeks ...

This 'happily married man' seems too eager to perform handy man favours for my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Prior to meeting my girlfriend a year and a half ago, she met this supposedly “happily married” man at a church social function. According to my girlfriend, he apparently calls her from time-to-time to say “hi,” and will always inquire about any ...

Is it alright to invite my friend's ex boyfriend to a dance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Okay so i wanna ask my guy friend to a dance and i also like him... but my friend used to go out with him but not really since it only lasted a day but she broke up with him cause she didn't see him that way. Now recently she decided she liked hi...

My ex-girlfriend and I still like one another but she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I really need help with this situation and it would mean a lot if I can get as many responses as I can, thank you. So me and my ex been broken up for about a half a year, we broke up once which was for 4 months and then we got back together bu...

My life is a mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - So I have a list of issues and I do not deny I need therapy but I am here to vent something...I would love the comments and the advice but I'm not really asking for it, I am but im not. I want guidance but I know what to do I'm educated intelligent ...

Does she like me or does she already have a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - hi im a lesbian in my 30s. i met this woman through another friend of mine and we have become friends. she does text often and i visit her once a week. we seem to get on well as mates and she seems to like meeting up. nothing happens we just chat as ...

I've been sleeping with a boy who has a G/f and I'm starting to like him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Hey, I know this is wrong but iv been sleeping with this boy which has a gf. We have been meeting up now and then for the last 4 months, and I admit it is just sex, but I'm starting to like him. I know it's wrong and shouldn't have done it but...

Poor communication, a misunderstanding and so her friends abused me for being late. Should I be aggrieved with her since she was unsupportive to me re abuse by her friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - So this is my story. I have always wanted to be with this girl and finally, she agreed. We've been dating for a bit more than a year now. We got our ups and downs but all in all, it was pretty good, except for the fact that it was "just" "pret...

This guy used me and I dropped him out of my life. Then why am I feeling jealous about his one-night stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - Coming up 2 years ago I fell head over heels for this guy I knew through a mutual friend. We became best friends so quickly and we had an amazing bond. He began purposely leading me on and generally finding fun in messing with my head. But I was ...

Husband wants me to have threesomes and I don't want to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I am married and have been married for almost 3 years now but my husband kept wanting me to sleep with girls so he can watch I was ok with that then he started wanting to do the full threesome and I was sceptical about it but felt I had to to keep ...

I am tempted to have sex with my ex. He is flirting with me and I really would like to respond! Please advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys, I'm getting tempted by my ex and don't want to cheat on my bf, what should I do? My ex sends me racy FB and text messages, and has asked for/sent me pictures of himself in various stages of undress, telling me what he would do to me if we ...

How do I deal with my bf's "step aunt?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend has a step dad, who has a step sister which makes her his 'step aunt' in a way. She's a year younger than him and ever since I first met her things seemed fishy. They used to stare at each other across the room at family parties. She's ...

Is there any hope when your new bf loves his ex and is still "grieving" her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - For the last month and a half I've spent almost every night with my new boyfriend. He seemed to like this level of closeness and it's easy for us to kick it. We both have terribly difficult pasts, but are successful people and have a lot of fun t...

I talk regularly to an ex, but he never told me he got married. Now he wants FWB with me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - I need some advice, I dated my boyfriend for 4 years, I am still in love with him but,we broke up in 2009 and every now and then I email him just to say "HI'. My friend told me he recently (2010) got married, I was shocked. I asked him if he was ...

Does he really want me back? Or is he just playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me on October 2nd. We had been together 29 days short of 2 years. After that I did not talk to him for a week and a half, then we started talking again. First texting, then sitting together at dinner and hanging out agai...

Do I have a right to be angry with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I need to know if I have the right to be angry. Whats Happened: I was supposed to be going my boyfriend's this weekend to spend some time with him. Friday I would go to his, Saturday we would go bowling with friends and then back to his and the...

How will I face my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advice on what to do. I feel guilty and am plagued with sin. A few days back my friend and I hung out together but as we were talking, he suddenly hugged me and even planted a kiss on me. Although I pushed him away but he ...

I saw him kissing another girl before he kissed me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - Really could do with advice, so please be honest guys and tell me what you really think of the situation. I've tried to put it as short as I can, so it doesn't sound like an essay of a story.. This guy I met in a bar just over two weeks ago, we've...

What should I do to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - I love my best friend. But I'm not sure if he does or not. But I can't tell him, I'm afraid of loosing him. I just wanna forget this feeling, I'm tired of getting hurt again and again. Please can anyone tell me any way of getting out of this pain. ...

This is long but very important. I need your help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

19 January 2012 (M) - In order to get my point across I have to tell the whole story, sorry if this is long:/ So I come from a history of girls ruining me. Well, just one actually.. She was my first and i had strong feeling for her. In short, everything she t...

Boyfriend contacts suicidal ex-girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - Long story short: my boyfriend regularly contacts his suicidal ex-girlfriend to make sure she is not going to kill herself and he lied to me about this contact for a long time because he didn't think I would understand and it hurts him to talk ...

Should I tell his fiance he slept with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

18 January 2012 (F) - Two years ago I met a guy on holiday and slept with him. I was with my friends and he was with his girlfriend. Yes thats right people, his girlfriend! He befriended me and my group of friends and flirted with me from the start. Then one night, all ...

My ex has been going through a lot and I feel somewhat responsible!

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18 January 2012 (F) - So im not going to lie, I'm sort of confused. I recently broke up with my bf of almost 5 years about 5 months ago. We do have a 3 yr old daughter together which makes my situation so much harder. We still live together and work together. I did move ...

Why won't he put me first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

18 January 2012 (M) - I'm a 25 year old gay male (if you hate me already, please move on and don't leave me mean messages!). I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. He is two years younger than I am. We fell in love at first sight and it was amazing and still is ...

I'm engaged, but still in love with my ex who has got back in touch and wants to see me! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 January 2012 (F) - I'm in love with and engaged to a wonderful man. He is everything and more that I've ever wanted in a partner. It would take me centuries to share how amazing he is and how he worships the ground that my children and I walk on. But there's a problem ...

I'm married and now my lover has got married I have lost my trust in her....what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 January 2012 (M) - I am married and I have been in mutual relationship with a co worker for few years now. She recently got married and it was mutual decision that we shall continue working post her marriage and we both wont change our feelings for each other and ...

I think I love my girlfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 January 2012 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and everyday I hang out with her and her friends. I think that I'm starting to have feelings for her best friend. No matter what I do I can't stop thinking of her. I'm not sure what to do or if this is ...

What is my boyfriend's friend up to, when he does these things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

17 January 2012 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend 7 months now. Im 17, he's 18. We attend different schools but in the same district. He's fairly popular, lots of friends, parties and what not. And i tend to hang out with people from his school more than mine. But usually ...

I am in a serious relationship with a man I love and can't get enough of, and I am starting to fall for my friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

17 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years now. I am happy and complete and we are planning a life of marriage and kids. Things are perfect between us. He still gives me butterflies everytime I see him. We have an incredible ...

I'm distraught. She's pregnant with the baby we have longed for. But she's not sure who the father is. Do I stay to father a child who may not be mine?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

16 January 2012 (M) - Any advice would be great because my head is fried, I'm not sure I even want to be with her now. Hi not sure where to start so will start from beginning, me and my fiancée have been together for 4 years. 19 months ago we had a little girl who was ...

We have strong feelings for each other but seem to wind up with others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - I have strong feelings for someone i met over two years ago and its clear we have strong feelings for each other. Although, we have never bee able to be together because of always having someone else and not wanting to hurt them by leaving them. He ...

Should I accept my boyfriend's idea as a one-off or should I tell him it's not a good idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been going out now for 4 years and everything is going great. He went to uni last September and I took a while to get used to it but after being apart then spending one month solid together and being apart we have ...

His friend was there before we married, and I'm not sure she isn't still first for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - we have a friend who is in the hospital.my husband and this friend used to depend on each other since they didn't have anyone else until i came into the picture. i feel like things were fine when we were dating but deteriorated after marriage-he ...

He didn't tell me the truth because he said I wouldn't believe him ... and I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys and girls I need major honest opinions on if my boyfriend is lying to me about cheating. Okay so in september when I was at his best friend house named (Steven) two girls came over and knocked on the door. Steven goes outside and about ...

My partner tries to 'edge' a past event into our lives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - My partner had a 3some with his wife and her female friend years ago. I was uncomfortable with this for most of the time we have been together. My constant struggling with it resulted in regular arguments and discussions. But, not any more, I ...

Between two guys, shall I tell the one near NYC how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - The thing is i have two penpals. Yeah, two. They are both american (same as me) but i am actually living in Perú. I have been writing to the first one 4 months ago everyday (6 hours each day) and i felt i was falling in love with him until i met my ...

We started dating and then I find he's seeing another girl?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - Last week I found that the guy I was dating (we hadn't gone public yet though his decision) was seeing another girl. When we first starting becoming more than friends I knew he was talking to her but didn't think it worth mentioning as we weren't ...

What advise can I give my friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, my girlfriend has been in an relationship with a married man for ten yrs. now she's also married. 2wks ago they were out of town together in a hotel. The guy paid for the room with his credit card and his wife tracked the hotel and ...