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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi im a lesbian in my 30s. i met this woman through another friend of mine and we have become friends. she does text often and i visit her once a week. we seem to get on well as mates and she seems to like meeting up. nothing happens we just chat as friends. she says she has a girlfriend who i have met and the girlfriend told me they are just mates and not together. my friend gaby who i like tells me she is with this other girl but this girlfriend of hers likes a private life and wont tell people there together. its odd as they only seem to meet up once or twice a week. anyway so thats why im unsure if they are together or is she single and maybe just saying it cause she may want this other girl maybe but i have no idea. anyway she texts and we meet once a week. i fancy her but wont say anything. unsure if she likes me or not. she has said im small and she likes bigger women then laugh about it as tho she didnt mean it. she was play fighting with me on the floor but unsure if that means much. we are meeting next week but does she like me, and is the other girl in a r.ship with gaby or what.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012): i saw gaby today and she kissed me and told me shes not really with shilry. we are just gonna take it for whatever happens tho as she has always loved shirley but that girl dont want her and there mates. she likes me and we stay as we are and see as each day goes by.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 Could it be that she just doesn't see you as someone she would date and that's why she says she has a girlfriend? That's what I might do if I didn't want to hurt someone's feelings.
If you are growing closer, you could ask her how her relationship with her girlfriend is going and see if she will give you some more detail and you may be able to puzzle it out.
I think things will become clearer as you get to know her better.
Someone here once said that there is no such thing as mixed messages. If you aren't getting a clear and open "yes I want to date you" then the answer is "not interested." So in this case, I'd assume she's not all that interested and go with that, until she CLEARLY and openly lets you know otherwise.
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