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writes:The thing is i have two penpals. Yeah, two. They are both american (same as me) but i am actually living in Perú. I have been writing to the first one 4 months ago everyday (6 hours each day) and i felt i was falling in love with him until i met my second penpal and i also have been writing to him 3 months (6 hours each day). The problem is that i have a lot of common with the two guys and i am so confused about my feelings. With the first guy (that i know more)i have more confidence to talk to him about whatever is on my mind but the problem is that everytime we talked i used to be so nervous about acting like a fool with him or saying something stupid. But with the second guy (that i don't know so much) i feel so relaxed and i definetely have a hunch with him. So, in this past days.. i thought a lot about both and i have my feeling now clear: i am falling for him (the guy that i know for 3 months) so i am flying to New York in two weeks for job circunstances and i will meet him there (he lives in Connecticut). The problem is, he loves someone else (another girl in Australia) and i am not so sure if he likes me or if he is starting to fall for me too. In spite of that, he has already told me he likes me and that i am pretty, etc.. but i am not so sure if he was joking or if he really means it. Should i tell him my feeling in NYC?
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (16 January 2012):
 Yeah well baby im almost single, my girlfriend is on death row.. Ill steal a fraction of ed murphs line there while I tell you that you are wasting your time chasing a guy who has already made his decision to be with someone in australia. Doesnt matter how many messages he's written or what he has stated in those messages... in comes to down to what his actions are and those are clear that he desires another woman. Stick to peru doll... better chances of things working out local vs international.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2012): Go for him! He is NOT in a relationship with that girl in Australia and you are also single.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 Don't go for the guy who is supposed not to be free to love you.
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