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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

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I still like the guy I used to date even though I have a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - I still like this guy that i used to date, even though i have a boyfriend. Things haven't been going that well with me and my boyfriend lately. When the guy i used to date found out that i had another boyfriend, he called me and asked if i was in l...

My ex now flirts with me and claims he married his new wife for the wrong reasons

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - im 23 years old and a single mom. my sons father and i didnt work out because we had a lot of resentment towards each other during the pregnancy. now that we have gone through court and its been a few years for us to mature some we realize the mist...

My friend is in love with my boyfriend, but she doesn't know we're dating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - I have being dating my coworker for 3 months. we've told no one in order to avoid possible problems related to office romance etc. Everything works out fine, except that my best work mate is in love with my boyfriend. She'll always ask him to hang ...

B/f and I have been into swinging and I HATE it!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - About 4 - 5 years ago, me and my boyfriend of 6 years decided to finally try swinging after playing around with the idea for a while. I was scared out of my mind that I was actually going to go through with it, but chalked it up to newbie nerves. ...

Open relationship mess.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - I'm 27 and got married at the age of 19.I've been with my husband since I was 14 years old, it was the first relationship for both of us. He really loved me alot, treated me like a pricess, spoiled me and gave me everything I wanted. I loved him and ...

Why do guys always cheat on me? whats wrong? could it be me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - Please help! Any Advice is greatly appreciated. For some reason i always get cheated on! Or there is always another female in the picture. I am not ugly. To be honest, i often get hit on alot of the times i go out. I am very attractive. I sa...

Week after we broke up she was sexually active with a new guy. What does this say about how she cares about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

28 August 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I share a child together, and had plans on becoming married. Later in our relationship I cheated on her by conversing with other females when things weren't going good between us. When we got into an argument and I pushed her and ...

The guy I fancy? Or the guy who fancies me? How do I act and what can I do when they are both in the room together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - I have a problem. I fancy this guy at work,and do not know what to do. He shows some signs that he fancies me too The problem is that there is another guy who fancies me. Usually with that guy we joke around. I do not know what to do and how to re...

He's married with 2 children. But WAS very keen on me, but now he's avoiding me. Should I tell the new guy about my (almost) relationship with Manager?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I met a guy (manager) of different dept. a few months ago. We became good friends. I told him about some tragedies that happened in my life. He was sympathetic and I started having feelings for him. He is married and has 2 sons. I guess he fel...

It was his Ex who caused all these problems. Yet even though he knows that he blames me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year has changed lately. He is not now how he used to be. He was once a lovely and caring boyfriend. Now he is not like he used to be. He started changing his attitude when we had this big fight the night before I was supp...

It turns out the girl that my boyfriend hooked up with whilst we were on a break is my sister! We've only just realised this, what next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - When I was 18 I moved from my city to move to newyork to join university I have been here for 5 years now,and I'm done with education and I got a job back home and I decided to move back to my family..I love them way too much to live separately..I ...

The girl I love and my ex are going on holiday together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

25 August 2012 (M) - Where do I begin? I've recently split up with my girlfriend of 7 years as I'm in love with someone else. Everything is a mess, our lives are all so interwoven and it's been the process of many years. There has always been something betwee...

I found my mother in bed with my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I feel desperate and I really need someone's help. It happened yesterday, I came back from a holiday with my dad (mom and dad are separated). We returned a little earlier than we were going to and I found out my mother was sleeping with my...

I love my ex AND my Boyfriend. Two different guys, and both with Issues. How can I solve this mess I am in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I love my ex and my fiance.. and they're 2 different people. I was with this guy for 4 years, we had 2 kids together but he was abusive. He was pretty controlling and I took him to court and had a domestic violence order put against him. I star...

But he's had the same Gf for 4 years. So what can I do? He's older than me. There is an attraction between us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - Hey guys, i've got a situation that i'd really love some help with. So i've been getting to know a guy recently whos quite a lot older than me (im 17). However, our personalities just click.. He makes me laugh, and we just get on so well. We have ...

Is he making excuses so he can be with my best friend? Or is he just a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4502 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - This is a really long story, so I'll do a short version of it. I was in a relationship with a guy a couple of years ago, but we ended it because we never spent much time together as we were busy with university. But we recently have been meeting up ...

He's saying nothing about this to me. Am I paranoid? I can't stop worrying, especially because I'm in a LDR with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4505 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - My (not that close) friend (let's call her B to avoid confusion) is having trouble with her boyfriend. She recently asked me for advice and then I found out she also asked advice from my boyfriend, which I was okay with. This was about two weeks ...

My friend wants me to have a threesome with him and his brother.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - Um...my friend(who I really like) wants to try and have a threesome with him, me, and his brother. I agreed but now nervous. I really like him but I don't want him to think I'm just the type whose up from anything. He told me, he wouldn't mind going ...

Is it likely that he's really cheating? Or just boasting? If true, then I feel as though I'm not attractive enough for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - My partner recently put password locks on his mobile phones, I was suspicious and managed to get into his phone and found he's frequently sending txts to his mate about all the hot women he's seeing while making deliveries. Plus how he's going to ...

So much pain. I don't know what to do now. save marriage? how? then what? Or divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - I need help. I have not been married for long. when dating my future husband, he was quite emotionally abusive, and i ended up cheating with another guy. i got pregnant, and only realised i was pregnant after i got married. I told hubby and ...

Is this for real? Or is he trolling me? Am I just a push over or is he using me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - We met three times, and afterward I tried to avoid him (i thought he was difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!) And here's a deal! He texted me " would you beg to have sex with me and my friend?" So I said "no, and y...

Can I trust my lover not to tell my Bf? Or will my Bf find out the man I slept with recently is a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since I was 14 (I am now 30) I have only slept with him and I have never cheated or thought about cheating before. I work with a lot of men and we get on while but lately I found my self flirting and then came the text...

Why did I sleep with my best friend's husband? I know I betrayed my friend. How do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - My best friend, her husband and I have been friends since the 10th grade. My friend and I both got married 2 years after we left high school. I got divorced and they remained married. Throughout the 16 yrs that they've been married they both have...

He doesn't mean that much to me -- should I tell him about the other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

18 August 2012 (F) - The names i am using in the story are not the actual names. I'm only using them to make it easier to understand. Alright so there's this guy named John that I used to date last summer and we broke up because he was moving away. Then I met another ...

Is it true,if two people are meant to be together, that they'll find their way? we broke up, but I still love her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

17 August 2012 (F) - I used to date this girl, me and her was together for a long time. It was a long distance relationship but we made it work all the way until we drifted and broke up. We was off and on with talking. I told her i'll wait for her, and we told each...

I have trust issues. Will he become too controlling later? What should I look out for?

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16 August 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in love. He's four years older than me. My problem is, I have an issue with trusting people. I don't trust people easily. I love him so very very much,but I am just a teeny bit worried that he may become possessive or abus...

He's a monster who treated me horribly, will they have a happy ending? I feel sick!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

16 August 2012 (F) - Dear everyone. I'm in bits. I have been with my ex for about 3.5 yrs(off and on) and for the past 2 months he had grown increasingly distant. I knew he had been working alot but he never had time to see me, yet he still said he loved me. I had seen...

I want him to get a divorce so we can marry. Why does his wife keep trying to get his attention? I want her gone.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - im living with a man twice my age. yes he could be my daddy. but i love him. he works hard, cooks for me, cleans. and i dont have to work. the problem is is that his wife is still in the picture. she just wont get the hint, that he loves me and n...

Is hubby into a threesome for us or for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Ok so I have been with my husband 6 yrs and loving it. Well our love got a lil boring and we spiced it a lil which worked btw. We had a lil fun with another couple and I think were both ready to just do it with a. Single girl (threesome). I like her ...

After many difficulties we broke up. Would I be right in suspecting he had this girl waiting in the wings all along?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - hi readers. so my boyfriend of three years and i have split up again. we went through this circle of breaking up and getting back. he was a bit too possessive over my internet life and would not stop spying on me blah blah blah. now he has met s...

Should I tell her i'll still be her friend or should I tell her I want nothing to do with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 August 2012 (M) - Very serious question. When I was dumped, I had a difficult time on focusing on my school work. Not only that, but, I was so hurt, I : nearly flunked a VERY important test (I didn't finish it. But, I had a second chance, and passed the test....

My ex is torn/confused between me and someone else. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My ex of 3yrs has recently came into the picture after being broken up for 7 months. It started with her texting me on my bday. I kept it short and sweet and said Thank You and that was it. I just started dating someone (nothing serious) around t...

Three months and he treats me well. But do you think his relationship with his ex could be a stumbling block?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. He's good to me, treats me well. I just have some concerns about his relationship with his ex. He works for her, plays sports with her, they have children together, and he's at her place a lot....

Love, lust, and infatuation. can you really define or tell the difference between each one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Lots of people can not tell the difference between infatuation and love. The key difference is that infatuation (otherwise known as a "crush") only lasts for FOUR months. Only four. Then your feelings like do die out and you're free to look at ...

He was like my dream guy. But I feel wounded by his actions. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I met this guy at a club. I liked him at first sight .I thought he liked me,too. he thought I am good looking and show me off in front of his friends. He was like my dream guy. I am afraid I can never meet someone just like him again. He...

Why is my partner even considering her ex? Why did her ex show up now after four years of being away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - I need help any body please. my problem is im with a great person who has helped me get through alot and i helped her through alot in the last 7 months. we have been dating since march and out of the blue her ex husband calls her asking for f...

My old flame. We got back together. When he went back to his wife. When is enough enough? Is he lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I'm not sure where to begin. I apologize now if I'm all over the place, but I'm going to try.. I met this guy when we were 15, so we have a bit of history. The jist; Instant love, we were inseparable, I got pregnant, our parents forbid us to see e...

But should I feel guilty about him paying me alimony still? When he seems to owe money everywhere? We are still married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - hi agony aunt, i wrote on this site about my 48 year old husband leaving me for a 24 year old. I want to thank all of you for the advice that you gave me. it helped, although i have my good days and bad days. im still in that i wish he would wa...

What can I do to overcome feelings I have for a friend I met during a break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

12 August 2012 (F) - Hey guys :) , i have been dating a guy for over 3 years now but we had a break up for a few months awhile back. We're now back together and very in love. While me and him were split i met this other guy kinda as a rebound thing because i was so u...

About my brothers gf

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4514 days ago

12 August 2012 (M) - I really like her. I don't know why I feell this way towards her, but last night we had a party and got a little drunk and we like to hang out with each other always joking around saying we love each other like a brother and a sister but here is ...

My girlfriend is still talking to her ex, I think I'm a rebound!! what do you think I should do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4514 days ago

12 August 2012 (M) - I have been dating this girl for about a month and a half now, and it was going pretty good until recently. First things first, I want to make it clear that I met this girl two days after she broke up with her ex, and started dating her about a ...

To wish impossible things, What do you think of this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

12 August 2012 (F) - Love is a fickle thing sometimes. I love my friend, have for the past 7 years, but he doesn't love me. Recently, I introduced him to my best friend since childhood; they get along well together. Too well, as I found out about a week ago. A...

Ignored a text from my fiance because I wanted to keep my dream of another guy going, Is that wrong?

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12 August 2012 (F) - Okay before I post what I need help with let me give you a bit of info. I have been with my fiance' for 4 years and I do love him. I could not picture my life without him and I love our family with our son. Now, there was this guy who I liked in...

Am I crazy? Or is this evidence strong enough that my girlfriend is indeed developing feelings for JOE?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

12 August 2012 (M) - An overwhelming instinct that my girlfriend of over two years is developing feelings for a coworker has led me to snoop, and the snooping has led me to believe my suspicions are true. Help. What do I do? She's been at this new office for thre...

We broke up but are still FWB. So why was he so outraged at the thought of me dating others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

11 August 2012 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I have not been in a relationship together for about two months, but we continued to sleep together and hang out. Technically since I’m single I thought it was ok to sleep with other people. I mentioned it to him and he was furi...

My timing has always been off. I think my married friend has feelings for me. How can I best handle this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

11 August 2012 (F) - I find myself in love with someone who is married. he and I have known each other for 15 years and I felt something the first time I met him, but I was engaged. When I got separated he had just gotten married....and so on...timing is awful. I wa...

His FB status says married. Do you think this means they're together? He is a joker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

10 August 2012 (F) - There's this guy I met at the very end of my exchange and we hooked up on my last night there. It's been almost 6 weeks now and on Facebook he's just put that he's in a relationship with some girl but it says "Married". I know that he is de...

Things have gone from bad to worse since I told the truth. What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F) - I hurt my husband badly and I apologised for that, but his reaction makes me feel like withdrawing my apology. We have been married for a year. We dated for two years before marrying. It was a terrible time for me. During this time, I did the begg...

This guy is treating me really coldly after I told him I have a boyfriend, What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F) - hey, i have a relationship question. i have a boyfriend that i just love,we have been together for over that 1 year 9 months and now we are doing a long distance relationship. and here i met with this guy, who obviously like me but he did not say ...

My boyfriend isnt talking to me any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

8 August 2012 (F) - Hi. I have internet boyfriend troubles. I know all of you will go 'Not again!' but just listen to me. So once I downloaded this app and I met this guy. He is very sweet and we have a lot in common. My friend decided to see what the fuss was abou...