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Ignored a text from my fiance because I wanted to keep my dream of another guy going, Is that wrong?

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Question - (12 August 2012) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Okay before I post what I need help with let me give you a bit of info. I have been with my fiance' for 4 years and I do love him. I could not picture my life without him and I love our family with our son.

Now, there was this guy who I liked in my past but we never dated. While in my current relationship, I did talk to this guy off and on and got my feelings messed up and thought I liked him but in reality I really believe it was because we had so much in common like we were both going through ocd so we had that kind of connection. I even think I found myself flirting with him and I believe that was due to wanting attention. Could I picture my life with him instead of my fiance? NO WAY. Anyhow, now that you know this.

This morning I had a dream that I caught my fiance' looking up other girls and I was going to have this other guy come over I used to like and we were going to be together. It was just a dream I know but the thing that bothers me is while having this dream I woke up by having my fiance text me and I know it was him due to his ringtone and I ignored it because I wanted to keep the dream going of this other guy. Am I a bad person? Do I deserve my fiance? Thank you

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