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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My (not that close) friend (let's call her B to avoid confusion) is having trouble with her boyfriend. She recently asked me for advice and then I found out she also asked advice from my boyfriend, which I was okay with.This was about two weeks ago and now I've found out they've been talking a lot lately. She HAS told me about it but my boyfriend hasn't.She is very innocent and I know she wouldn't do anything to hurt me or break me and my boyfriend up but I'm feeling very jealous and insecure, especially because he is liking her pictures on facebook, commenting on her statues and stuff. Am I being paranoid?! I'm having other issues with my bf currently and I'm scared that they will start liking each other because they are asking each other advice on how to deal with their relationships (AKA he asks her advice and tells her we are having trouble, I found out about this because a friend of mine who is also friends with B told me about this).I've also noticed that my bf has started using expressions B uses, so maybe that means they're talking frequently...I feel really paranoid. I can't stop worrying, especially because I'm in a LDR with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012): hey, i think that you have to ask your self . do i trust him and her if the answer is yes then move on. or you could hurt your relationship with both of them. i also think that if shes your best friend you should have trust enough with her to speak to her about it. im sure that if you do youll feel better. but hey is it really so bad that your best friend is friends with you boyfriend.ill say this a have a best friend and im close to her boyfriend becuase we have alot of the same interest, but truly most of the time when we talk to ourselfs we talk about her. maybe they do the same.
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