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writes:The names i am using in the story are not the actual names. I'm only using them to make it easier to understand. Alright so there's this guy named John that I used to date last summer and we broke up because he was moving away. Then I met another guy named Keith and he just graduated and we just recently broke up because he's going into the Marines. I love Keith I mean he's unlike any other guy I've ever met. Now, John just moved back down and he wants to get back together. Since Keith and I were over, I saw no harm in that. So I said yes. Now, Keith isn't going into the Marines for a while because of personal issues and we're starting to talk again. We hung out the other day and ended up losing our virginities to each other. This is going to sound horrible but John just doesn't really mean much to me. I love Keith. I'm just wondering, should I just tell John about Keith? He already knows that we used to date and we were very serious. But should I just tell him what I did so that we can be over for good?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2012): I think you should let them both go. Its not fair to go from one to the other as and when it suits you. If you had no genuine intention of getting back with 'john', why agree to him when he asked, and then go and lose your virginity to a guy you finished because he was leaving...
That's my opinion.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 August 2012):
 Yes the best thing to do is to let John go, it is not fair to lead him on, and you should never have said yes when you knew you where in love with Keith. So it is now time to be honest with him, just tell him the truth that your heart belongs to someone else and you are sorry.
Also what worries me is you have lost your virginity and your age on your post is 13-15. What age is Keith? I am assuming older when he was going to join the marines. If he is over 16 he could actually be arrested for having sexual intercourse with you as it is illegal. I am not sure what the legal age is in your state but I am using 16 as a template. I would advise against you waiting before it is repeated so that nobody gets in to trouble, and also I hope you where safe as I am sure you do not want to become a teenage mother.
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