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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I feel miserable each time he uses the "open relationship" option I agreed to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I am a gay 24-year-old man who is in love with a wonderful man. We've been dating for three years now and have been living together for two. Last fall he approached me and told me that if I wasn't willing to open the relationship, it would be over ...

Is he genuine or just trying to sleep with me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - hello i have a question regarding a man who is 48 yrs old and i am 25. So, we met on a dating website about 4 years ago. we spoke for hours everyday for two years - he works on a cruise ship and lives in another country - we both used to speak on...

What can I do to get over a threesome that went wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I've been having a real issue trying to get over a threesome gone wrong with my girlfriend that happened almost a year ago. We've been together now for 4 years and about a year ago we were talking about maybe just having some fun and having a ...

Any advice? he's been texting this other girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - hey, i would like abit of advice, see if people think the same as me. My hubby has a iphone and its not an unlocked phone, to use his iphone he jailbroke it and unlocked it that way so he can use his sim card in the phone. Doing this way causes his ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend of 6 years even though the spark has gone? Or leave him for the schizophrenic, compulsive liar who I've only ever flirted with over the phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I am falling for 2 men, I can't seen to choose who to stay with! one i have been with for 6 years we are both the same age 6 days apart even lol i loved but i have started losing my spark with him. he used to be romantic now he's not hasn't been for ...

I've been waiting for her to leave her husband for me for 15 years! Should I confront her or should I let this go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I'm still in love with my childhood sweetheart and she said she is still in love with me and we have a child togeather but she is married to another man. I've been waiting for her to leave her husband to be with me for 15 years. What should I do. ...

Crush on a guy who has a girlfriend...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I have a huge crush on this guy who has a girlfriend . Both him and me have been to the same VBS when we were kids and later after like 5 or 6 years we meet again at a friends place afterthat we met at tutuions after 2 years . And now he's in India ...

How to make a girl leave her boyfriend for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I met this girl and we talked for the day. We exchanged numbers and we have started to text each other frequently, she also enjoys my company and when i call her, but she has a boyfriend. I am trying my best to think of the best way to go through ...

How do I get him to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - sooo, im a single mother. and i should be happy for what i do have rather then what i dont. my sons father has never been there for me, and i always feel like im lost with adult company (a guy) im in my 20s, and because im a single mother i dont ...

He sent dirty texts to my bestfriend,should I give him another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months split up 2days ago. The other day which was my 3yr old sisters bday my friend (used to be best friends but kinds drifted apart because shes been seeing married men). Was calling me sayin she has somthing to tell...

I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull bac...

Boy swapping gone wrong?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...

I love him and his cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - i am seventeen and i amdating a nineteen year old boy,he loves me and i love him but i fell for his cousin eric and i dont know what to do,i love both so much and i know i sound dumb cuz i'm so young but i know what love is and i just need a little ...

My boyfriend is a great guy, and is definitely someone I can see myself settling down with BUT I really like my guy friend and want to pursue things with him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I've dated a lot of guys over the past year, but finally picked someone I could see myself having a future with. He's a great guy! We've been dating for about three months, he's really intelligent (working on his PHD), attractive, athletic, and has ...

I'm in a relationship but in love with my chiropractor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hi I'm 24 and I've been In a serious relationship for 3years with a 1 year old daughter. I love my fiancé but I'm no longer In love but I wouldn't leave him. The last 3 months I been have real strong feeling for my chiroprator...i think about him in ...

My LDR isn't very available, and I've met a new crush online

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - Long story short: I'm in a LDR, we dont see each other often and I feel like he doesnt give me the time I need (on the phone, video chat etc) he's always tired from work or going out with friends. I tried and did my best to talk to him about that ...

He told his ex he loves her then denied it with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I just saw emails that my boyfriend sent his ex 2 weeks ago, that say how he misses and loves her. There was mention that he had a girlfriend but yet he stated he love her......why? Also he lied to Me by telling me he never bought her an engageme...

My wife with another man, reality is quite different from fantasy.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hello I am looking for some help. I had the fantasy of watching my wife having sex with someone else. I read about it, found that is not so unusual, so I talked to my wife about it. On first hand, she was extranged, since I am a very jelous man, but...

I love my boyfriend but I think I love his brother, my ex, as well. And they both love me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I have a boyfriend that i love very much, and would die for. We've been together for 9 months and been through alot together. U would think we were normal but were not, because he's my ex boyfriends older brother. i left my ex because he messed ...

My relationship seems to be coming to an end, but there is a new guy at work complicating things! What should I do so this doesn't end up becoming a huge mess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I need help. Last February, I was assigned to this high level project at work. I met a young executive from another company who's one of the prime movers of the project. Since the start, we share the same energy and outlook. We seem to have this ...

I want to get married to this man someday, but to stand at the alter with the man who used to abuse me standing by his side, is unthinkable!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I love the man I am with, unfortunately his best friend is an ex of mine, an abusive ex. His argument is that they have been friends longer than I have known him and that everyone makes mistakes. He is a godly man and believes we need to forgive one ...

Is it weird that my boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends mum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Is it wierd that my boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends mum about how much he misses the family? Let me give you some background.. He was with the girl for about a year and a half and, as it was a long distance relationship he would often go...

I love my friend but he is married!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm in love with my friend and he loves me as well madly! The problem lurks in the fact that he's married !! First of all, regard the fact that we are muslims while analyzing our story ( as for the traditions, customs, etc..) Las...

How do I get over this worry? I keep thinking he cheated on me with those girls

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Hello I wonder If anyone has been in my situation or could give me some advice what to do? I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now and at the start of our relationship he was out all the time and once he stayed at a girls house ...

Why is this lesbian flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - im a lesbian in a relation ship of 5 yrs,and im flirting with another lesbian in a 11yr relation ship she doesnt love her partner and says she wont leave her they dont have sex anymore so why is she flirting with me? ...

Why does my ex try to get my attention when I'm with my b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4586 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - Hello, recently ive had a double guy problem. I have this ex who I fell in love with but is kinda a jerk and comes and goes as he pleases and breaks my heart. This has happend 4 times already in the past year, he leaves then begs me to come back. ...

Still sleeping with my FWB when I have an amazing guy waiting for me....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - The man I love (M) lives across the country from me. We have decided that when I move back we will be together but it's really hard for me to cut the ties I have here. I was with M for 1 1/2 before I move and we were on good terms when I left. He ...

What did I do wrong? How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been together for 3 years. We are currently in a long distance relationship. This past weekend, my bf came to visit. As we walked into my dorm, we both noticed a girl staring at him for a long time. After a fe...

I've developed feelings for the guy I'm hooking up with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Okay so this is kind of a long explanation so bare with me guys. Alright so about a month and a half ago I got out of a two year long relationship, basically the guy was really controlling and I was just getting fed up with it. Anyways, about tw...

Is he trying to push me away so I'll fight for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Please help aunts and uncles So ive been talking to a 21 yr old guy i went to school with. We never talked until about a week ago he msg'd me on facebook bc he saw me at a friends tattoo shop and thought i was nice, and pretty. So here's my ...

How do I get my boyfriend to love me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i are together 3 years he is 44 and i am 42. Basically he became good friends with a woman for about a 2 years ago. he helped her settle into our country they were friends and now he is telling me he is in love with her and he c...

He got another girl pregnant when he and I first started seeing each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - Basically its a long story but I met this guy about 6 months ago now and at first i didnt think anything would happen. But as time passed I gradually fell for him. You could say we've got a "thing" going on. I probably like him much more than he ...

This four year relationship has worn me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - I've been with this guy for about four years, we have had our ups and downs. He has always been extremely controlling and I have changed into this person I'm not sure is me. I used to be outgoing, fun, successful, and felt like I had things going ...

Is there a place in her heart for me? I love her but I think she wants to go back to her abusive guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - Ok, so i'm bisexual people. Yesterday i realized that i was in love with her, after she found out that her boyfriend had been cheating on her. Now i've met her online, but i feel a connection like no other when i talk to her. I was scared for h...

Can you love someone but miss someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - Just like some thoughts on this,can a person be in love someone, yet be missing someone else?I find it hard to believe that you can but?????...

Three Months and this crush is the hardest game I've ever played. Why does he ignore me so often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - I have been carrying on a from what seems on the outside a professional relationship with a man I know from college (not a Professor, in another capacity). Yet, I know deep inside it is more than that. The long gazes he gives me that are too inte...

Despite a new love she can't get her 'first' out of her mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - emergency!! Basically friend A is in love with friend B but friend A lost her virginity a few months ago to another guy (she was not with friend B at this time). She is deeply in love with B but can't help but think of this guy now and again. She ...

My boyfriend slept with his ex on the night of our first kiss, do I forgive him and how do I forget about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - hey, so im in need of some advice. I started seeing this guy (we'll call him guy) in december around the 15th. He bought a car off of me and after that we continued to text a lot, like at least 6 times a day, really long texts talking about our ...

I still compare myself to my boyfriend's ex and dream about her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - I started dating this boy 3.5 years ago. Things were a bit rubbish for the first year. He saved pictures of his ex semi-naked on a hidden folder on his pc, he text and rang her lots and he even met up with her secretly. He did not sleep with her or ...

4 women that want me, but if I'm honest I only want my ex! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

17 April 2012 (M) - A few months ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We talked about it and she told me that we had grown apart. She said that there is no chance of us getting back together. It sucks, but I've come to except it and I've put it in my mind that I've ...

Am I being reasonable about this or just making a fuss about nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

17 April 2012 (M) - Hey there, this is my first time using the site. It seems there are some genuinely kind and helpful people on here so maybe you can help me out. I have something that it playing on my mind. I am in a relationship of 3 years. Recently I haven...

After all the hurt and insecurities and trust issues that my boyfriend had with his ex, I don't understand why he still is in contact with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

15 April 2012 (F) - A saga, srry: A few years ago, on the first day of school my boyfriend "mike" and I met. He pursued me from day 1, and i turned down his efforts for three months becuase I was suffering from depression and was also in a quasi relationship at the t...

Who's the one for me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

15 April 2012 (F) - hey guys,i'm with my bf( or my ex now ) almost 2months,but i brokeup with him yesterday cuz i cheated on him but he doesn't know,at the same day ,my friend x kissed me and i kissed him back,i did love it cuz he was my first love and the one who gave ...

I arranged to go away with husband but now he is hedging about me going!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

13 April 2012 (F) - Several months ago my husband invited me to attend an out of town meeting with him, in another city for a week. He has invited me lots of times because it's like a mini-vacation. I enjoy the hotel gym, the pool, and go shopping while he's in ...

How do I end things with my friend with benefits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

12 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone this is a bit complicated my fwb lives 1 minute away from me its how we met by living in the same place I have met a man who knows my fwb and they cannot stand each other this man I met wants to come to mine he doesn't know that me ...

Girlfriend goes to 19 year old male friends apartment and believes he wants to be "friends"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

11 April 2012 (M) - Dear expert, My name is James and I'm a 16 year old Irish lad from belfast. I've been going out with a girl called shauna for the last 6 and a half months. I met her in a girls school/boys school exchange that we had every week, someo girls would co...

He broke up with me because he saw me talk to another guy! How do I show him it was just a conversation and that I only love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

11 April 2012 (F) - hi dear uncle and aunts, im now in a lot of trouble and my rlationship is now on a verge of breakup. yesterday my bf sees me talking to another guy and broke up in anger .he is neither receiving my call nor coming online .he abused me and said you ...

Found out he was married, he eventually left his wife and claims to want me.....but could this ever work out after everything that happened?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

11 April 2012 (F) - Hi, I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for four months when he arrived at my house in the middle of the day to tell me that he was married and that his wife had just found out about out relationship. I'm not squeeky clean in this situatio...

How can I trust that she has moved on from ex's habits or she is just pretending for my sake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

11 April 2012 (M) - I have a wonderful girlfriend, and things are going really well between us. A few years ago, she came out of a bad relationship where the guy she was with would insult her, call her 'stupid', a 'whore'- that sort of vile language, and slapping...

Am I being petty over my husband's friend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with tha...