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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...

Both of these men are crazy about me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - im so confused and i have to make a choice soon. i have found myself in a bind dating two awesome men at the same time.the 1st guy is a recently divorced commander in the us army(i live in clarksville,tn-right next to ft campbell,ky). he treats me ...

My wife wants another man on the side and still be with me as well.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - me and my wife have been married for about 6 months and she tells me that she wants a little something on the side .so i asked her what she wants on the side .she told me that she wanted another man and still be with me as well. what should i do?...

Can u sleep with someone and have no feelings for them and still be in love with your wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Im lost...I've been married to my husband for over 8 years ( and we have 2 kids tog) and i found out 2 weeks ago from a womans husband that my husband had been sleeping with his wife for the pass 5 months while he was in kuwait..hes home now and ...

My husband is having an affair. How do I handle things now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't ...

Threesome gone really bad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Threesome gone really bad. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. She had a threesome with her boyfriend and her best friend that was a girl, about 5 years ago and they were dating for 2 Years. She told me early on in our relation...

He doesn't show me off to his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - We've been in a relationship for almost two years, we're very much in love we're about to have a baby and get married, but there is something ive never been able to get off my mind. When we first started dating he would mention his a little s...

Why did she have sex with me when she has a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - i recently met up with a girl i knew from 5th grade and been hanging around with her the past couple weeks and i am really starting to like her a lot the other night we had sex but heres my problem she already has a boyfriend i want her to be with ...

Betrayed by two people I love

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Im 48 and have been with my husband for 23 years..we'v always had a loving relastionship and our sex life is excellent..iv never had any reason not to trust him and love him deeply..after a night out with my best friend of 30 years we went back to ...

I'm having an affair and he ignored me at the bar!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a co-worker for 3 years. I'm separated and he's married and we enjoy each other's company. Recently we met other co-workers at a bar for the holiday. I was there before he was and when he came in he basically ignored me. He walked ...

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a...

My best friend and I like the same guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy at a birthday party and I liked him immediately! Later I found out that my best friend really likes him as well, eventhough she never really talks to him. Me and him became friends right away and had fun, which made her mad. Later me...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...

How can I convince my girlfriend to have a threesome with another guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP My sexual fantasy is to have a threesome with a hot guy and my girlfriend, but I am too shy to tell her, she is very religious... but it turns me on the idea of she being with another man...

Will my boyfriend become gay? Why was he intimate with his gay friend in the past if he is not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has had some expiriments with his best guy friend in the past before we dated. He had another girlfriend at the time, and while he was dating her, continued to have this sort of 'secret relationship' with this friend. His friend had ...

How do I make him fall in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - hi my name is noni,i am in love with this guy,but he loves my cousin and he proposed to her behind my back,how do i get him back because i am deeply in love with him.help!!!! ...

How do you choose between two guys that are a little alike?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - How do you choose between two guys that are a little alike? I'm dating one of then but I'm really falling in love with the other guy as well. The guy I'm dating hardly has any time for me and the other guy would have a lot more time for me. The ...

My ex won't leave my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now but i cant seem to get over my ex boyfriend(lets say A is his name). well A and i try to stay away from each other cause as long as we are together we both wanna be in each others arms, but i have ...

Is she wrong to begin a relationship with me again when she still has feelings for another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - five years ago I began dating a wonderful woman, after 1-2 months, she dumped me to be with another man. Five years later, she asks me to take her back, we begin a serious realtionship and even talked about marriage. 6 months later she dumps me for ...

I'd never cheat, so why can't I stop thinking about the girl at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Hi, i've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and i am happy and so is she. I recently got a job that involves working with the opposite sex which she isn't bothered about. But recently me and this girl who i work with ...

Torn between room mate and boyfriend in jail

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME. I have a boy friend in jail he's been in jail for two years, he comes home in three months. this guy supports me and we have a understanding. the thing I fear is him doing illegal things again. then theres this other gu...

Being the third person in a relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - I'm in love with a girl, the first time in my life of 21 years. She's wonderful, but also taken. When we started chatting a lot she had a really bad relationship with her BF. By the time we first slept with each other she was thinking of finishin...

Both of these guys want to marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I am in a serious problem in my relationships. I am in love with two guys that both love me and want to marry me, I really did not want to go out with these 2 guys at the same time but I really dont know what happened and now i am in real dee...

Is it wrong to have a " special" friend while in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I am involved with someone and so is this man that I am asking about. We met thru work 2 years ago. He has reached out several times to me thru calls and text which I thought was strange as we are both in long term relationships. Our communication ...

Is it cheating if he's separated but waiting for divorce finalisation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce and has been separated from his wife for several months. The only reason his divorce is taking so long is because of financial issues. We have a pretty healthy relationship so far. He is so ...

My Boy Friend wants sex but I want kisses too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - My friend and i have been messing around for about two years now. I'm bi. We both have had girlfriends in between us fooling around. i really like him and feel like we should be together. We have amazing sex. But he doesn't kiss me. i mean it's not ...

Is he serious in his long term commitment to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Alright, so I'm kind of stuck on what I should do, so I need some advice. I'm a 25 year old gay male who has been in a 4 month long relationship with a guy who I met on a hook-up site over the summer. We decided to start dating and I've been pre...

Is there hope for my ex-fiance and I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - My question is very simple. I am in love, deeplyin love. I went through a rough break up. and usually I handle breakups well, this guy was going to be someone very special to me and a few weeks before our engagement planning he broke up. I was very...

I'm married but I want my mistress back in my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend/mistress just(september)ended our 4 year relationship because I'm married. I'm 20 years older than my mistress. She has known this all along . We both admit the past 4 years were fabulous in every way for both of us. Danc...

My attraction to my girlfriend's sister is getting more every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - i am with my girlfriend we have 4 children together, but i find myself falling in love with her sister. My girlfriend's sister is exactly like me. In every way we like the same things. Want the same things in life, even my girlfriend said i'm with ...

He has a girlfriend yet he flirts with me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Hey guys, so im 18 and recently started a new job, i really enjoy it and get on with everyone, especially this one guy. We started talking alot recently and i have started to have feeling for him, i think he feels the same as he majorly flirty, we ...

I'm jealous of this girl who proposed to my b/f

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - i am in a relation since past 4 years,my boyfriend is having a female frn who proposed him last year,but he rejected her proposal coz he loves me,but she is a gud frn of him. I dont lyk when he talks to her,n he says that they are just gud frns n he ...

Situation leaves me at wits end. My 8 year gay marriage failing, partner cheating, and care for adopted son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I am in a bad situation-help I am a gay male who is in a gay marriage,for over 8 years. Just recently he started cheating on me. I followed him to a bar. His new friend was there they were kissing, very passionately. I walked up to them, and left. ...

Should I stay with BF or go with my mutual attraction with his best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I am soon to be 14, and I have a bf. We r somewhat in "love" but I don't think it's working out. My other guy friend, Garrett has been acting weird around me lately also. Like in band me and Garrett both play percussion, and whenever one of us ...

Lost love contacted me after 10 years, I love him, but we're both in relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - my ex-boyfriend got a hold of me a few months ago.he tells me he loves me and i sitll love him too.we broke up ten years ago and lost contact.i moved out of state.he recently found me on facebook and we have been talking over the phone and texting. ...

Please don't judge, need advice. I'm crazy for him. He has 5 kids by 3 women and his wife is pregnant. At wit's end

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I need help. I've been in a relationship with this man for over a year now. He's married. In the begnning I idnt know he was married. His family lied to me he lied to me. I got pregnant and we now have I child together. She is 5 months old. He and ...

Guys should I tell my ex that I really like him still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Ok this question I mainly for guys but girls can answer too:) so I really really like my ex again... But he started dating this girl recently.. He only asked her out because I said no..(he was in love with me) But now he really likes her. Me and ...

I have a new guy, BUT keep thinking of my ex, even though my ex bullied me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I am extremely confused with my relationships at the moment. My boyfriend of two years split up with me two months ago and then a month ago, after becoming close with another boy we got together. My problem is I keep thinking of my ex and I'...

She's still in love with her baby's father. Will I get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - I met this girl about 6 weeks ago and right now we are in a friends with benefits type of relationship but it's really complicated. We go to school together and hang out a lot and we feel like we have a lot in common. The problem is that she just ...

How do I get through this? He called to tell me to forget him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I traveled from my country to another one, for a job, leaving my parents, my friends and everything. I met a guy that i loved so much. I liked the new country. Because of him and we spent a lot of happy times and great moments. But I found out,...

I kissed my boss! Should I tell my fiance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

24 December 2010 (?) - I'm in love with my boss im engagde but me and my boss spents more time together then me and my bf i really dnt know what i must do we kiss this morning for the first time do i tell my fiance or do i just make if it never happend i realy do love him ...

He has a girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - hey, well i recently moved countries, ive been here for about 4 months now, and havent met alot of people, i live in an apartment, and about a month ago a nice lad moved into the apartment downstairs, hes nice looking, and hes a really nice guy, the...

Stuck between my daughters father and my boyfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I am currently living with my boyfriend we bought a house last year, I am also seeing my daughters father on the side we have been doing this on and off, now here's the hard part my boyfriend is a great guy honest, trust worty , good provider and ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend's housemate not liking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has just moved in with a lad mate of his. Problem is, the friend doesn't seem to like me. I am a really nice person and have never done anything to him that could possibly upset him. However he ignores me, invites my bf to big group ...

My LDR girlfriend has just logged off chat and went off to be alone in her room with a guy she has kissed before!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - what does it mean when your long distance girlfriend goes offline on msn so she can watch a movie with her male bestfriend that she kissed before?!!! I was just talking to my ldr gf and she left me for her best male friend to watch a movie in...

Her ex is still a big part of her life, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Hey, I have been going out with my gf for almost 8 months now, and have been bugged for a long time about her still being friends with her ex. She went out with him for around 2 years and they definetly didnt have the best of relationships. H...

Should I tell my husband I still don't think this will work and try and figure things out with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I could ramble on about a introduction about my life, just like everyone's life... there is always drama. You cannot prevent it. Unless you just are immaculately great at keeping out of trouble. Here is a half India half English girl by blood. 2...

How can I break this relationship between my husband and his colleague so I can get his love back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) - my husband has a female friend.who want to share everything personal feelings...emotions matters even family matters.with my husband..they are collegues..my husband is not flirt..not interested in girls but he says we are just true but free friends ...

What is a guy to do when he dates to find companionship, but can't commit because of baggage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Someone I know, who likes me a lot, but currently has a boyfriend, is still trying to get close to me and doesn't seem to want their boyfriend so much as me... and while I've already told them we need to just be friends, the whole of a conversation ...

What should I do. My husband receives pictures from women, of women, on his phone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Do I trust my husband? I really do have trust issues when it comes to my husband. I don't want to leave my guard down, I guess to protect myself. My husband is always texting, all the time. Constantly checking his texts. The other night I was sett...